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Elixir 路 2014-10-21 21:49:00 路 #26
Quote:When people don't hold the door open for you when they definitely knew you were behind them just a short distance. It's as if they are too socially awkward to do it so they pretend as if they didn't know you were coming behind them so it appears to you they really didn't know (but of course, I do know). If that makes sense.
I remember there was once a post here about whether it was beta or not to hold the doors open for girls..
Even if it was, I'm a beta in this regard because if someone is noticeably close to me I will always hold the door open for them, cute girl ugly girl or guy. It's common courtesy, I'm sure I'm not the only one.
God I hate this shit. I've had doors shut in my face a few times by assholes about two steps in front of me.
I can't stand talking to people where the entire "conversation" is trying to one up the other to be wittiest. Most of the time peoples "wit" is just them just being a fuckin prick. I try to eject ASAP.
nek 路 2014-10-21 21:52:00 路 #27
My dad will insinuate that I'm gay when we're around older people and they find out I'm single, and it's not in the funniest of ways. He's been with my mom since the late 60s (they're both 66), when he was 19-20ish, and hasn't gotten the slightest clue as to what dating today is like and why I don't simply wine and dine the first girl to smile at me because "she seems like a good girl". Any attempt by me to lay out some "red-pill" shit gets dismissed. It's one thing to be funny about it, but he's not, and he's someone who on paper should have my back. He does this with other stuff too. If I don't give the responses to people that indicate I'm the trophy son in other aspects of my life as well, he's quick to throw me under the bus.
Overweight people eating at fast food restaurants.
monster 路 2014-10-21 22:27:00 路 #29
(10-21-2014 09:52 PM)nek Wrote: My dad will insinuate that I'm gay when we're around older people and they find out I'm single, and it's not in the funniest of ways. He's been with my mom since the late 60s (they're both 66), when he was 19-20ish, and hasn't gotten the slightest clue as to what dating today is like and why I don't simply wine and dine the first girl to smile at me because "she seems like a good girl". Any attempt by me to lay out some "red-pill" shit gets dismissed. It's one thing to be funny about it, but he's not, and he's someone who on paper should have my back. He does this with other stuff too. If I don't give the responses to people that indicate I'm the trophy son in other aspects of my life as well, he's quick to throw me under the bus.
Damn, that sucks man! Sorry!
nek 路 2014-10-21 22:33:00 路 #30
(10-21-2014 10:27 PM)monster Wrote: (10-21-2014 09:52 PM)nek Wrote: My dad will insinuate that I'm gay when we're around older people and they find out I'm single, and it's not in the funniest of ways. He's been with my mom since the late 60s (they're both 66), when he was 19-20ish, and hasn't gotten the slightest clue as to what dating today is like and why I don't simply wine and dine the first girl to smile at me because "she seems like a good girl". Any attempt by me to lay out some "red-pill" shit gets dismissed. It's one thing to be funny about it, but he's not, and he's someone who on paper should have my back. He does this with other stuff too. If I don't give the responses to people that indicate I'm the trophy son in other aspects of my life as well, he's quick to throw me under the bus.
Damn, that sucks man! Sorry!
It is what it is, I try to only talk to him when I have to. I'm not going to let the hand I was dealt at the beginning determine where I go in the end.
(10-21-2014 10:33 PM)nek Wrote: (10-21-2014 10:27 PM)monster Wrote: (10-21-2014 09:52 PM)nek Wrote: My dad will insinuate that I'm gay when we're around older people and they find out I'm single, and it's not in the funniest of ways. He's been with my mom since the late 60s (they're both 66), when he was 19-20ish, and hasn't gotten the slightest clue as to what dating today is like and why I don't simply wine and dine the first girl to smile at me because "she seems like a good girl". Any attempt by me to lay out some "red-pill" shit gets dismissed. It's one thing to be funny about it, but he's not, and he's someone who on paper should have my back. He does this with other stuff too. If I don't give the responses to people that indicate I'm the trophy son in other aspects of my life as well, he's quick to throw me under the bus.
Damn, that sucks man! Sorry!
It is what it is, I try to only talk to him when I have to. I'm not going to let the hand I was dealt at the beginning determine where I go in the end.
Don't take this the wrong way, but is there any chance that your dad is gay? Serious question.
(10-21-2014 09:52 PM)nek Wrote: My dad will insinuate that I'm gay when we're around older people and they find out I'm single, and it's not in the funniest of ways. He's been with my mom since the late 60s (they're both 66), when he was 19-20ish, and hasn't gotten the slightest clue as to what dating today is like and why I don't simply wine and dine the first girl to smile at me because "she seems like a good girl". Any attempt by me to lay out some "red-pill" shit gets dismissed. It's one thing to be funny about it, but he's not, and he's someone who on paper should have my back. He does this with other stuff too. If I don't give the responses to people that indicate I'm the trophy son in other aspects of my life as well, he's quick to throw me under the bus.
In the era your dad grew up in, insinuating that another man was gay could catch the insinuator a serious beating.
He has very little respect for you and I would confront him on this and angrily demand he apologize. If he didn't I'd cut him out of my life entirely.