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The infamous Polish Casanova from 80. and 90. i wrote about here /thread-23059.html and here /thread-29960.html Jerzy Julian Kalibabka used to say that words are like drugs to girls. Asked how he was able to keep 5 or even 6 girls at the same time in his harem he replied that he drugged them with words and kept them in a state of trance.

90% of what he said to women was spinning a yarn.

Why I am saying this?

The common PUA myth is that its not what you say but how you say. According to this philosophy verbal side means nothing, body language is all that matters.

Now, its not that body language is not important. Good body language is a necessary condition in the process. But this is not sufficient.

Lately I am experimenting with " spinning a yarn" . When girl asks me what I do I tell her that I am yoga instructor and I am about to open my own school. The difference of reactions I get comparing to what I used to when I told them that I worked in sales is like a difference between night and day.

My body language didn't change. My words changed.