Post: #26

When a guy thinks he will have no future when his relationship ends.

When a guy thinks he will probably never have sex again if his relationship ends.

When a guy forgets that there are 1000s of other women who will possibly have sex with him.


You won't always know when you have it, but you will know if you come through the other side.

Post: #27

The mere act of attracting women into your life is what makes the man. Not regular unobstructed sex. Not the "companion". Everything that goes into making you the better man to attract better and better women. Happiness is independence and self sufficiency, quiet reflection, relaxation and focus on your own goals.

Post: #28

I know this thread died out, but still wondering: how do you solve co-dependency issues in a healthy way (I.e. I rather not go down a path where I get burned several more times by women before I stop)? I clearly have then and am looking at ways to tackle them.

Post: #29

For me it's getting caught up in the infatuation stage with nothing else going on in my life. I was massively into the pump and dump thing and still am but when it hits it's not even close.

If your lucky enough to have a chick going through the same thing at the same time I dont think there's much better things out there to experience.

It can definitely fuck your mind up when it turns sour which it more often than not does.

Going through something similar. My aims are to get out of this environment, focus on money and get in the best shape of my life.

Iv found I need an environment with extremely easy to meet and fuck women with little difficulty. So bkk or manila is for me. Small cities/towns suck for getting past it.

The best way of getting over oneitus is developing oneitus for someone else.

Post: #30

(12-02-2015 05:10 PM)Stay Wrote:  The best way of getting over oneitus is developing oneitus for someone else.

I'll bite.

A far more practical step would be to think about what it is you need and what you want.

99% of the time you will want sex but need nothing. I can't see how finding a new girl be infatuated about is a good idea. The most effective way to 'cure' oneitis is to develop abundance mentality which is built up over time with multiple women.