Post: #1

Just looking for opinions here. How do you guys feel about a guy in his late 30s doing lots of approaches in bars/clubs?

Do you guys think a guy needs to follow a different type of game as he gets older or do you think it can be effective for an older guy to do tons of cold approaches?

Post: #2

Tons of cold approaches is going to inevitably work for anyone. Although, your actual game itself may be more successful if you cater it to your present lifestyle in your late 30s. Doing everything you might have done in your teens or early 20s probably would come off awkward now.

Post: #3

absolutely nothing at all wrong w/that. late 30's and you can be pulling mid 20's girls EASILY and any girl in her 30's. just dont go to college bars where everyone is 21 and you'll be fine. maybe a more upscale type of lounge.

Post: #4

game is more strong in late 30s.

Post: #5

I'm 36 - My huge success does not come in the same style of clubs I would hit back when I was 23. I am very selective of venues I sarge, which usually have very cool, and mature women who are DTF a stylish gent willing to show them a good time both at the venue, and as the night ends. Mostly, lounges is my thing, and wine-bars - and just to add a bit of flavor, a dance club every now and then with a crowd that has mostly women over 25.

Unless I'm in Colombia, then I go for clubs with women between 18-25!

Mixx

Post: #6

Mixx - what are some of your spots in Miami? I've spent some time down but had trouble finding places that werent the obvious hotel bars and South Beach mega clubs

Post: #7

"Just looking for opinions here. How do you guys feel about a guy in his late 30s doing lots of approaches in bars/clubs? "

Yeah, you just need to pick your spots like Mixx said.

There are tons of fly 22 year old girls that love to date guys in their 30's.

Hint: They were the 22 year old girls you couldn't get when you were 22 years old.

Because they were dating guys in their 30's.

Another Hint:

Go after fly Latinas. They love older Men.

Post: #8

(03-28-2011 02:37 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  There are tons of fly 22 year old girls that love to date guys in their 30's.
Hint: They were the 22 year old girls you couldn't get when you were 22 years old.

That is very true. Every girl I remember who was dating much older guys (+5/+10) when I was young is still dating much older guys

Post: #9

(03-28-2011 02:37 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  "Just looking for opinions here. How do you guys feel about a guy in his late 30s doing lots of approaches in bars/clubs? "

Yeah, you just need to pick your spots like Mixx said.

There are tons of fly 22 year old girls that love to date guys in their 30's.

Hint: They were the 22 year old girls you couldn't get when you were 22 years old.

Because they were dating guys in their 30's.

Another Hint:

Go after fly Latinas. They love older Men.

So true...