Post: #76

"Then she said she was still in school (final year, probably 17-18). I instantly thought well shit I can't do anything with this. What would you all have done (age of consent in the uk is 16). Would you have continued to game her like normal or do nothing?"

Good decision not to pursue it any further. Girls who are 17 make me sick, and usually it is not because of their looks but because of their lack of intelligent language. How you could even talk to her for 30 minutes is beyond me. With all the slang and gigglin' that a typical 17/18 year old uses I feel like strangling them. For me the sweet spot is hitting on girls right out of college, the magic 21-25 age range

Post: #77

(09-28-2014 04:15 PM)boywonder34 Wrote:  You mean I shouldn't have said "just flirting with your sister for a bit"?

I was trying some self acknowledgment statements that heartiste wrote about here:
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/09/1...ment-game/

I think here, the sister's reaction to this statement will just be based on her judgement of you. If you're a model, she'll be like "oh lol cool" if she judges you negatively she'll say something like "oh awks".

I think in general girls hate being totally aware of what's going on. As in, calling it flirting makes it too obvious you're trying to fuck them, even if that's obviously what's going on. I just use phrases like "talking with" or "chatting to". It becomes a bit easier when your value is higher. Again, a model guy or someone with amazing game that says "I'm trying to flirt with you for a minute" will get a better reaction than some regular guy.

Either way, it seems you had a good chat or two with a girl. I would try to get their numbers before anyone else comes through, because you didn't spend your time gaming the other person.

Seriously though I would recommend internet game... Still willing to help and I think you'd be surprised how easy it is compared to day game.

Post: #78

"Good decision not to pursue it any further. Girls who are 17 make me sick, and usually it is not because of their looks but because of their lack of intelligent language. How you could even talk to her for 30 minutes is beyond me. With all the slang and gigglin' that a typical 17/18 year old uses I feel like strangling them. For me the sweet spot is hitting on girls right out of college, the magic 21-25 age range"

This girl I only spoke for about 5-6 mins before her sister turned up. She wasn't giggly or immature which is why I thought she would have been college aged at least.

So most/all members here would not have pursued the 17yr old?
I feel it is a bit "creepy" with an older guy and a young girl, even if she is above the age of consent. But I don't know if that is resident feminist programming in me, or if it actually -is- inappropriate.

"model guy or someone with amazing game that says "I'm trying to flirt with you for a minute" will get a better reaction than some regular guy."

When I told her "im gonna flirt with you for 5 mins", she laughed, so in this case it worked out but I can imagine it not going down that well since it is just one step below a full apocalypse opener (hey want to have sex?)

"Seriously though I would recommend internet game... Still willing to help and I think you'd be surprised how easy it is compared to day game"

My internet is a bit spotty so currently only have my data plan which I can't tether to my notebook. My phone is a pain in the ass to type on, but once the landlord fixes the internet, ill definitely get your feedback on anything I do.

Post: #79

Saving your vCard for someone special is over rated, just have fun with it. Once you lose it, the numbers really start to rack up because you much more confident.

Your friends were impressed with you because you aren't shy and have guts to talk to woman. Use this to your advantage. You should approach women every, single day.

GL

Post: #80

Boywonder, many people have offered great advice to you but you are still making excuses, like the excuse that your phone does not have good internet for online game. Just about any city has plenty of cafe's with wifi, if that does not exist you can find an internet cafe with normal PC terminals.

Honestly, I think you should tag team with thegreenman. His thread is similar:
/thread-36769.html

I'd love to hear the over/under on who get's laid first, you or him.

Post: #81

Boy Wonder

I want to help.

Create a new email address only for online dating

Create an account in your area. Upload some pictures.

Gimme your login info, I will run through the motions so you can see how it works and get internet pussy.

How big is your city?

Post: #82

Ive been following this thread a bit when it was created. And if I was in your situation I would pay for it because seriously what has happened in the past 10yrs to not get laid. Youve got to experience some pussy asap then you can work on laying girls after that.

I also felt I got laid late (at 22) so I know a little of what you are feeling its probably more for you but its a crippling feeling. For me I lost it while traveling and since then I havent looked back it was the best trip of my life and now I feel I can get any woman and its been just 2yrs since then.

You need to get this soon as you can every man needs to experience sex. After your trip to amsterdam I recommend you book a 1month+ trip to one of the poosy paradises in the world. It will be the best decision you ever made and make up for lost time. Good luck in amsterdam bro make it happen.

Post: #83

Boywonder, any updates on your story? Hope you met someone at a bar/club the traditional way...

Post: #84

I got back from Amsterdam last night. I didn't go through with it. I had put aside one day to for the pro, another day expecting to spend the entirety of reflecting on what would have been a life changing moment.
Im choosing to do what feels right for me and follow the advice of the posters who said dont do it, so those extra days I got high and went to museums.

Tried online dating with mixed success. Haven't had huge success with my messages, but at least im getting a smattering of replies (thanks Sonsowey!). No meet ups yet because I dont find women older than say 35 that attractive, or they don't reply. But I will keep at it.

I will continue approaching and start mma because I think just lack the physical confidence and ability to protect a woman physically.

Im willing to do whatever it takes.