Post: #1

I'm trying to rebuild some confidence and "move on" from a girl I liked.

I'm. also trying to approach new girls and doing it....but just not "feeling the zone" yet.

There is one girl in the kitty I have....a cute black girl...probably a 6ish. She's also significantly younger than me. She always texts and I think I could get the bang but she's lower quality than my ex. She certainly passes the boner test and I've never banged a black girl.

I've heard both theories...one says, only bang equal or higher quality after a breakup or you'll be regretful/depressed the next day, the other theory says , go out there and just get laid to help you forget and move on as long as they pass the boner test.

Before I bang this girl or not...I would like to hear advice. I don't want to bang her and feel more like shit/miss my ex even more after a lower quality bang. But, I would like a bang ( I'm getting horny, ha)

Post: #2

we assign value based on so much other than looks so if you are getting over oneitus go for the lower value bang.


If you are letting your ex control what pussy you fuck I can't imagine how much control she had while with her.
I'm not beating you up here either I've been there done that too

Post: #3

Someone around here mentioned the "doorman test" recently - would you be ashamed of being seen by someone you know with a particular lower quality girl? If you would be, I wouldn't do it.

Slump busters can give some inertia, but not if you feel disgusting about it the next day. Better to keep your balls full and game harder.

That being said, if she passes the boner test and the doorman test, bang away. The best cure for the lost pussy boys is fresh pussy. And keep on gaming until you're getting quality you're satisfied, girls get intrigued by guys who aren't thirsty.

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Post: #4

This is a surprisingly personal question. Personally, I'd do it, but that's because of my own personal motivations and from where I draw my self worth.

I'd ask yourself these questions, which should guide you in the right direction:

From where do you derive your value? From the total quality of the girl you're banging, the amount of girls you bang, or from something completely separate? Is this girl scratching the itch for you (if so, who cares? Hit it)

Again, I don't think you'll regret it when you're laying in bed after a sweaty sex session, and if you're thinking about your ex after than you were so hung up on her that my only prescription is to Go Fuck Ten Other Women, in a repeated fashion, until you're no longer thinking about some pussy you already claimed.