Post: #1

I met a woman online last week and we're both into FWB relationships. Tomorrow I meet her for the first time, for drinks after work.

The date feels like a "FWB interview" because we both know we want a FWB relationship, and the date is just to decide if we want one with each other. I think all I need to do tomorrow is be fuckable and it's mine, so I'm going to focus on two things:

1. Being as charming as possible.
2. Very careful kino escalation.

What do you think? Do you have any tips or advice for my date tomorrow? Any pitfalls to avoid? If you just want to wish me luck that's cool too.


Barry

Post: #2

Alcohol. Ideally a bottle of wine for the two of you. Find a place where you can sit next to her, not opposite. Don't even mention the FWB thing unless she brings it up. Listen more, talk less. Have good logistics. Escalate. You know, the usual.

Post: #3

(08-04-2014 08:21 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  Alcohol. Ideally a bottle of wine for the two of you. Find a place where you can sit next to her, not opposite. Don't even mention the FWB thing unless she brings it up. Listen more, talk less. Have good logistics. Escalate. You know, the usual.

We're meeting at a bar, so alcohol is covered. I told her to meet me literally at the bar so I can sit next to her (it is part of my routine now).

About the FWB thing: We've already been chatting about FWBs and sex (including kink preferences) for a week so do you still think it's a bad idea to bring it up when I meet her? My experience on these kinds of dates is these girls arrive horny.

P.S. What do you mean by "good logistics"?

Post: #4

(08-04-2014 08:40 PM)BarryInSF Wrote:  

(08-04-2014 08:21 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  Alcohol. Ideally a bottle of wine for the two of you. Find a place where you can sit next to her, not opposite. Don't even mention the FWB thing unless she brings it up. Listen more, talk less. Have good logistics. Escalate. You know, the usual.

We're meeting at a bar, so alcohol is covered. I told her to meet me literally at the bar so I can sit next to her (it is part of my routine now).

About the FWB thing: We've already been chatting about FWBs and sex (including kink preferences) for a week so do you still think it's a bad idea to bring it up when I meet her? My experience on these kinds of dates is these girls arrive horny.

P.S. What do you mean by "good logistics"?

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Post: #5

Don't talk about becoming friends with benefits or the future. Too much sex talk is also a trap. If, at the bar, she brings up how she likes to get fucked or whatever, tell her to save it for later, which is when you're back at your place.

Also don't think of it as an interview. If anything, you want her to think that she has to prove herself to you. Regardless, plan on fucking her that night. You likely won't get a second chance.

Post: #6

Quote:We've already been chatting about FWBs and sex (including kink preferences) for a week so do you still think it's a bad idea to bring it up when I meet her?

Stuff her with alcohol. Tequila shots. I'll disagree with the people here saying to stay away from talking about sex. If you are really into kink that makes you somewhat rare among dudes, it is a thrill for her to talk about this to guys. Keep a nonjudgemental attitude about: keep her talking and drinking.

Agree and amplify + tequila shots are your best friends here. Get a pair of shots in her and then bounce to your place and escalate like a motherfucker.

Good luck.

Post: #7

(08-04-2014 09:30 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  Also don't think of it as an interview. If anything, you want her to think that she has to prove herself to you. Regardless, plan on fucking her that night. You likely won't get a second chance.

I'm thinking of it as a two-way interview. When she first hit me up online to talk about FWBs, instead of jumping on it, I acted cool and ask "are you sure you can handle it?" She's be trying to prove herself to me ever since.

Post: #8

(08-04-2014 09:54 PM)storm Wrote:  

Quote:We've already been chatting about FWBs and sex (including kink preferences) for a week so do you still think it's a bad idea to bring it up when I meet her?

Stuff her with alcohol. Tequila shots. I'll disagree with the people here saying to stay away from talking about sex. If you are really into kink that makes you somewhat rare among dudes, it is a thrill for her to talk about this to guys. Keep a non-judgemental attitude about: keep her talking and drinking.

Agree and amplify + tequila shots are your best friends here. Get a pair of shots in her and then bounce to your place and escalate like a motherfucker.

Good luck.

I tend to agree with you about the sex talk but I'll proceed with caution. As I said we've already discussed these things so the door is open. I will not talk about sex with her since that's too forward. I'm just going to talk about our sex lives in general, which is a safer topic, and a huge turn-on too.

Post: #9

Thanks for the advice, guys. I got the bang.

The sex talk went as planned. We talked about our sex histories and FWBs but not sex with each other. Enough to turn us both on without being too forward.

Oh yeah, the alcohol helped too.