Post: #26

Here's an interesting question: One of your LTR's says directly that she doesn't mind if you have a side girl, or bang college sluts, or ONS while traveling, etc.

Does that make her marriage material?

Post: #27

Once, but she is now 26 (Sp?) and she got turned out by this rampaging alpha guitar player who just used her for sex for a few years with almost no commitment. He has pretty strong game.

He turned her out so hard that she now is an unabashed player herself. Shame, because she was from a foreign country (Colombia) and had a pretty sweet disposition, but she's now COLD as hell. I still occasionally see her out and about, but she's not the same person after he experience with that guy.

Post: #28

Was married to one. Didnt realize she was marriage material until AFTER we divorced. She was a good woman. Feminine. Sweet. Slender. I cheated on her once and she never got over it. I dont know what she looks like nowadays but I certainly wish her the best. Hey, sometimes you meet the right one and it goes wrong....this was one of those times.

Post: #29

That sounds pretty brutal. Were there any issues in the marriage, or was it just a mismatch of sex drive?

Post: #30

(08-03-2014 09:43 PM)CactusCat589 Wrote:  That sounds pretty brutal. Were there any issues in the marriage, or was it just a mismatch of sex drive?

Nah, the sex was great. But the girl that I cheated with, we had an instant connection. One thing led to another...some texts were sent.... and next thing I know my marriage is in deep shit. The actual breakup was damn hard. Wed been together for 5 years, got used to each other, and had very strong feelings for each other. I was also financially struggling at the time so that didnt help things either. You live you learn...

Post: #31

(07-28-2014 10:39 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-28-2014 08:56 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

(07-28-2014 08:32 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  Yeah, hundreds of them. I'm 45 they're all fat now. There's not one of them I'd even take out for a beer. Remember that.

I'm nearly 30 and they're all fat already. Girls a few years younger then me, married and fucking porky pigs.

It's the legs, man. Those fat, cellulite filled legs. Even early 20s girls have them.

Disgusting.

Do some girls not only NOT have cellulite when they're younger...but NEVER really get it? I know the majority of women have it.

But, is there a way to spot a girl who not only has toned muscled legs now ( my favorite ) but to be kind of sure she'll never get the cellulite dimples?
( like check out her mom or something)

I've got some young prospects that I could pursue for LTR and marriage and trying to figure this out. I think if you could get a younger woman, who was super cool, who you were pretty sure would never get fat and cellulite...it would be as close to winning the 'marriage lottery' as could be conceivable on this planet.

Post: #32

(08-08-2014 03:04 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(07-28-2014 10:39 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(07-28-2014 08:56 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

(07-28-2014 08:32 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  Yeah, hundreds of them. I'm 45 they're all fat now. There's not one of them I'd even take out for a beer. Remember that.

I'm nearly 30 and they're all fat already. Girls a few years younger then me, married and fucking porky pigs.

It's the legs, man. Those fat, cellulite filled legs. Even early 20s girls have them.

Disgusting.

Do some girls not only NOT have cellulite when they're younger...but NEVER really get it? I know the majority of women have it.

But, is there a way to spot a girl who not only has toned muscled legs now ( my favorite ) but to be kind of sure she'll never get the cellulite dimples?
( like check out her mom or something)

I've got some young prospects that I could pursue for LTR and marriage and trying to figure this out. I think if you could get a younger woman, who was super cool, who you were pretty sure would never get fat and cellulite...it would be as close to winning the 'marriage lottery' as could be conceivable on this planet.

I'm in Tokyo right now and absolutely stunned at the level of talent strolling around here. Endless daygame possibilities and although there are some chunkies with cellulite, the plethora of pretty girls with fair skin and size 0, 2, 4 waist lines is even higher than in EE. However the one thing many girls here do seem to lack (throws off my boner potential) is that 7/10 waist to hip ratio as many are kind of boxy with not so much booty.

That being said, there is no substitute for slim and trim cuties with great skin and 0 cellulite to be seen. Wonderful country Japan is, I have zero stress here and feel like i'm 100% in the exotic category. Many many marriageable girls here waiting to be plucked

Post: #33

How about listing the EXCEPTIONS that did not hit the wall but maintained themselves down the line.

I know 2 of them at least. Regrets.. Life. Move.

(07-28-2014 08:32 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  Yeah, hundreds of them. I'm 45 they're all fat now. There's not one of them I'd even take out for a beer. Remember that.

(07-28-2014 08:45 AM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

(07-28-2014 08:32 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  Yeah, hundreds of them. I'm 45 they're all fat now. There's not one of them I'd even take out for a beer. Remember that.

I'm close to your age and seen the same.

After seeing the end results of years, I feel like I won the damn lottery.

(08-03-2014 03:53 PM)horn Wrote:  Here's an interesting question: One of your LTR's says directly that she doesn't mind if you have a side girl, or bang college sluts, or ONS while traveling, etc.

Does that make her marriage material?

Post: #34

The best I have seen all had some kind of personality flaw which may or may not be a deal breaker for guys.
Thinking of one in particular who while was very pretty, nurturing, and didn't care for bad boys could also be a diva at times for example. This was all seen from the outside on my part as I was too young and beta but everyone close to her felt the same way and still does.

Some of it was not so bad though and were marriagable traits in their own ways. For example she was vain, prissy and kind of uptight about certain things.
But on the positive side that meant she stayed thin (fairly older than me so she has passed the point where most women hit the wall), liked keeping things (like the house) clean, and saw herself as too good for uncouth activities like clubbing or whatever degenerate behavior girls engage in.
And she's still married to a guy who is very gentlemanly and would not be too hard to abuse if she really wanted to. Hopefully it is as it appears and he is not simply putting on a brave face. It has been about 8 years so far.

So I think a big part of being marriage material is not necessarily having few flaws but having flaws that work with whatever you want out of her.

As for my personal dating experience while I was in college there was a girl who worked near the college that had a warm smile, easy-going attitude, and good morals. Not quite hot though but well above average looks.
Sadly she got abused by her husband and it seems to have left her damaged.
But hey, she did get married so I'm right on a technicality I guess.

Post: #35

(08-03-2014 03:53 PM)horn Wrote:  Here's an interesting question: One of your LTR's says directly that she doesn't mind if you have a side girl, or bang college sluts, or ONS while traveling, etc.

Does that make her marriage material?

Are you talking about my wife?

Post: #36

This thread is making me feel better about my exes.

Looking back, as my game and knowledge has grown over the years, I'd probably say 1 one of them was marriage material who has now blown out a little. One who was definitely not marriage material but I did think she was marriage material at the time has got married and also blown up too. Poor guy.

It's a great day to be single, fellas.