Post: #1

long story short, i was really drunk, ended up making out with and exchanging numbers with a girl last weekend. after talking to a mutual friend i find out that she normally likes girls. This mutual friend is surprised she has shown interest in me. i found out she likes girls after i had already been texting back and forth with her for a couple days. during that time she has shown strong interest in picking up where we left off, but now i wonder, is there anything i should do differently with a bi chick as far as game goes? any advice from you all that may have more experience with bi chicks would be appreciated. i guess I just wonder if the normal advice needs any modification in this case? or just keep doing what i've been doing, as it seems to be working so far?

thanks in advance.

Post: #2

(03-02-2011 03:03 PM)packman5280 Wrote:  is there anything i should do differently with a bi chick?

No. She is dating you because she is attracted to men. Also, she may be tired of the emotional bullshit with women. Just be a man, and don't make any stupid homophobic comments.

Post: #3

I mean the age old adage of if it aint broke dont fix it applies here. If what youre doing is working change nothing. Dont outthink yourself here and fuck it up by changing whats got you this far.

Post: #4

thanks guys, i do have a tendency to over think things. oh and my boss for the last 8 years is gay, along with at least one other person in the office, so i've pretty much eliminated gay comments from my vocabulary.

Post: #5

For posterity:

Quote:i've pretty much eliminated gay comments from my vocabulary.

This will help.

I'd make sure to pepper in a few comments or stories that show you appreciate her lifestyle. For example, if the topic comes up, there's the classic "I think women being together is very normal and natural" from David Shade. If you're in an area with enough clearly gay/lesbian people, you could compliment the style of one of them when you're out. Like "I like that girl's short pink hair... too many people around here dress the same." Or find a butch/tomboyish feature about her that you like (short hair, utilitarian clothes, how competitive she is in the gym, etc) and compliment it, when it's time to compliment.