Post: #1

Who's had one? This is one thing I've never done I've come close but one of the girls got cold feet the night we had it planned. I can die a happy man once it happens.

Post: #2

Ive been fortunate enough to have 3 of them and none were planned. I think it tends to be more of a spur of the moment type thing unless the girls are TOTALLY down for it planning would often lead to cold feet I would imagine. I actually wrote about my last one on my blog which was totally fueled by whiskey and red wine. Good luck man, you hang in there long enough good shit tends to happen.

Post: #3

Never had one

(02-28-2011 03:17 AM)Jack Frost Wrote:  Ive been fortunate enough to have 3 of them and none were planned. I think it tends to be more of a spur of the moment type thing unless the girls are TOTALLY down for it planning would often lead to cold feet I would imagine. I actually wrote about my last one on my blog which was totally fueled by whiskey and red wine. Good luck man, you hang in there long enough good shit tends to happen.

Hey Jack I haven't seen a new post in your blog since December, you still plan on posting?

Post: #4

Yeah, Ive got a bunch of drafts saved and things to write on just been crazy busy with work so I havent had a chance to get them up. Thanks for checking up on the blog Ill have some new stuff soon.

Post: #5

(02-28-2011 03:17 AM)Jack Frost Wrote:  I actually wrote about my last one on my blog which was totally fueled by whiskey and red wine. Good luck man, you hang in there long enough good shit tends to happen.

Ya I always thought alcohol would be a huge factor in getting the job done haha. I've never had one myself but I'll keep trying!

Post: #6

3somes are NEVER something you plan -- sort of. They happen at the spur of the moment when your logistics are in place for it to happen. The best way to instigate a 3some is to make sure you hang out with bi-curious girls (most girls are), and be friendly with girls and their close girlfriends, touch/kiss both, then eventually, have them touch each other while in your arms for "protection"....again, your logistics have to be down perfect - or it will backfire. Qualify the girls for a 3some, or you will go home empty-handed. This means that they are comfortable with kissing, hugging and constantly touching their girlfriends. Do a few tests I'm gong to describe below to qualify girls for a 3-some. One thing I've noticed is that younger girls less than 30 of age are more down for a 3-some than older women over 30. Older girls are either lesbo, or straight up hetero.

A trick I like to do is to hold the hand of one girl, and with my other hand, hold the other girl...after a few moments...bring all hands together and act if its no big deal. If they push away, relax...start dancing with both again...and kiss one, then turn right around and kiss the other girl.

Another trick is to hold your finger (make sure its clean) up to girl 1's mouth like if you were going to kiss her with your index finger, and then take the same Index finger and tell girl 2 to kiss it. This will give you a measure as to how down they are to kiss each other. If they get disgusted by it...chances are they are not that attracted to each other. If girl 2 kisses your index finger, knowing damn well girl 1 just kissed it - IT'S ON!!

Ultimately, lots of comfort has to be built, and they must both trust you. This can happen dancing the night away where you are not out sarging, but rather focusing your attention on them only! By nights end, you want both females alone in your pad/hotel dancing and having a good time as if everything happens so innocently. Get some music going, and do something that involves the 3 of you equally touching - like dancing/massages. all you need is ONE kiss from one girl to another, and then STEP BACK...DO NOTHING. DO NOT GET TOO EXCITED! It must appear as if this is normal night to you, or they will feel awkward and back out. Let them explore each other, and you will eventually be invited in.

If they ask you if you've done 3somes before always say yes in a very cool, laid-back manner; first time women like to feel that they are in good hands like Allstate.

Now, there is another very BOLD move I have successfully executed, and that's to flat out start making out with one girl right in front of the other...trust me, women get turned on by a man tonguing a woman in her face...and then look at girl 2, and just kiss her....then, have them kiss each other. This works best behind closed doors, not in the club!

I don't know how many I've had...but if I were to take an educated guess, probably about 9 three-somes.



Mixx

Post: #7

I've had one, but unlike the other guys here I didn't earn my stripes the old fashioned way with booze and bi curious chicks, I was traveling for work with my boss who is married bored and has a gaudy expense account. He found a pro and was like grab one for yourself it's on the company lol, I never liked the idea of a pro so I declined and he raised the ante to 2 girls and man, I'd like to hope one day I'll make it happen on my own but I wasn't taking the chance of missing out so I took the 2. They were deadly and expensive and worth it lol. Haven't had a pro since and still pulling an 0fer on my 3some attempts on my own, get close but one of the girls always shuts it down.

Post: #8

Just want to make sure that when we say three some we're speaking about a dude and two girls. The last two post suggest that this is what we are talking about but the earlier posts don't. I assume that everyone is under the same impression but I just wanted to put it out there.

Post: #9

(02-28-2011 03:17 AM)Jack Frost Wrote:  Ive been fortunate enough to have 3 of them and none were planned. I think it tends to be more of a spur of the moment type thing unless the girls are TOTALLY down for it

I used the plural form to denote I meant a 3 some with girls. If I was ever talking about me a dude and a girl I would always clearly label it a devils 3 some.

Post: #10

in my 20s i was in a ten year relationship and the girl really loved me and wanted to please me and so we found a college girl and had a threesome at the W hotel. not a full threesome, no sex, but oral sex and all kinds of stuff.

probably the highlight of my life. makes me both happy and sad.

Post: #11

+1 on Mixx's advice.

When one of the girls went cold at the touch of the other I was an idiot and tried to warm her up. It worked, but it pissed off the other girl and there went the threesome.

Post: #12

99% of the time alcohol fueled.