Post: #1

me and my for-lack-of-a-better-word girlfriend started toying around with the idea of going to a swing club or having an orgy of some sort. I actually sort of broached the idea early on as it's (orgy) something i kind of want to try before it's too late. She was actually asked by a friend of hers to be in a 3m 3f orgy a few months ago but declined. We talked about threesomes and whatnot but i'd actually be more inclined to have her fucked by 5 guys in a night (assuming there's 5 girls as well...) than me and another guy in a threesome, as that seems too intimate, from the times i've done that before. Swing club seems like too much of a crapshoot to me because my assumption is it's all fat old women. I'm trying to talk her into it with her friends (they're all 20-25, work in the bar/ club industry) that approached her about it before, but I imagine she'd find that as off putting as i find me and another guy in a threesome.

So, does anyone have experience with any of this? Is it worth doing from the sexual bucket list perspective, relationship feelings aside?

Post: #2

Having experienced multiple orgies, 3sums etc here's some things to think about:

-If you consider this woman LTR material at all, then don't do it. Once you open Pandora's Box, there's no going back. A playmate ex-girlfriend of mine and I opened this box and it ultimately was our downfall. It starts out cool, but inevitably feelings can get involved.

-You're right. Most swing-clubs are full of middle aged decayed women and weird dudes. You're better off having your own swing party.

-Start small: have a 3sum with 1 other girl and your GF. See how that plays. No sense in having a fullblown roman orgy, if you don't know how either of you will really react at first.

Post: #3

I don't really see the excitement in having a threesome with a girl I've already been banging.

It seems like it would be more of a pain in the butt than anything. It's more exciting to get two girls you haven't fucked.

I don't want to get my girl in to my game in that way.

Post: #4

I can definately see where your comming from when you say a 3 some is more intimage than an orgy or actual group sex. There its not so much focus on the three of you its a group activity, less intimate more party atmosphere.

I would actually recommend starting off with same room sex. If your not familiar basically its you and your chick fucking in the smae room or even on the same bed as another couple. Obviously diff couples set different groundrules some may be no touching just be with your own partner while some may say girls can touch or various other scenarios.

I think this is a way to dip your feet in and see if this really is osmething you wanna do without bringing on all the potential issues or jealousy or whatever. As you guys get into it you can maybe slowly try more and more and see what your comfortable with. Maybe start off same room sex. Then same bed sex. Then maybe you fuck your girl while some other dude fucks his girl and the girls touch. Then maybe you just slowly start doing more and more.

I know many people say this can ruin relationships and I don't disagree with that however having a side chick or doing stuff behind your chicks back is basically a gurnateed end to most relationships so taking a chance on doing something like this together in my opinion is a better thing to try.

I just heard the other day something like 43% of men and women or couples or something like that are open to the idea of multiple sex partners. Women are into this almost as much as us guys maybe just not as vocal about it. This is a way for you both to get a little something extra while still being a couple and in a relationship and everyhing.

With the rigt chick and right scenario its actually not a jealous thing at all its like an activity you guys can do together, it can actually bring you guys closer together like hey we both had the balls to do this or we have a little secret or something like that.

Post: #5

I agree with CMQ on this and there is another point:

- basically all guys who go swinging with their LTR/wife are Betas

Going to an orgy with the girl in your rotation is fine, but one who is your LTR / wife / future mother of your kids?

Years ago in Blue Pill land I thought that it would be fine, because it is so "libertain" and both sexes are equal. We know that both sexes are not equal - a woman fucking around in front of you bonds way more or at least uses the orgy as a Alpha Fucks experience for the Beta Bucks - YOU!

Sometimes the women at those swinger parties are the ones who like it more fucking the occasional Alpha or good-looking Beta dude who excites her more than her husband.

I do threesomes with my LTR, because she likes girls and that is as far it will go - maybe 4-5somes with girls if I can pull it off. I like orgies, but not with my LTR.

Post: #6

So, you have a cuckold fetish. No other explanation except for a guy who wants to see his LTR fucked by different dudes.

Post: #7

When a first post ends with "glad to be on board the forum" or crap like that it is a troll - woman or basement-omega trolled again.