Post: #1

Hello gents,

Been hitting it off with this 27 y/o on POF I met recently. Went on two dates, got two bangs in a row. Her body type is listed as a 'few extra pounds' and she is Native American. Her longest relationship was less than a year.

Anyhow, I don't know if I'm slipping up or still in the game. First night just went to a couple of bars (was going to pay, but she insisted we split, so I did) went back to her place, banged then banged some more that morning, left. We didn't text each other until the next week (offered to take her out on her birthday yesterday, she complied). Paid for dinner and surprised with an indie film (which she loved). Went back to her placed, banged (even though she said she was tired and needed to work the next) after I fingered her and make her wet. After 30 mins or so, said she was too tired and hot to bang (plus she had a very uncomfortable air mattress...no bed) then we went to sleep.

Fucked up in a few areas. Asked me when the next time we were hanging out. Should've been mysterious but told her next week (damn!) And told her we should go to a concert of this band we like together. Second...didnt come during sex. Was masturbating frequently before I met her...so been stopping that. She seemed to enjoy it but avoided the beta move asking if she did. I've been putting in ALL the work setting up dates but that just might be her personality (she was like this before we met). She doesn't like it doggy style or getting on top (she claims she's not good at it). However, we did kiss passionately after I left this morning and mysteriously changed her POF status to 'wanting a relationship' from 'just friends' after our first bang.

We seem to like the same stuff so I'm looking at pursuing a LTR. Currently have a prospect lined up for the Orioles game this Monday so I'm avoiding onenitis atleast. Been doing the alpha thing and only texting to set up dates (not texting her every day, etc.) But doing a bad job of being predictable. Sorry for the long post guys but wanted you to fully understand the situation. Thanks again!

Post: #2

You care too much homie.


Its all gravy, I found myself with a bad case of the biggity bitches just a little while back.

Do what you need to do to get a rotation going. Also a lot of your questions have been answered in some form in other threads on the newbie forum.

She didn't come? DGAF
I didn't come? DGAF
And so on..

Post: #3

(06-27-2014 01:54 PM)MdWanderer Wrote:  Hello gents,

Been hitting it off with this 27 y/o on POF I met recently. Went on two dates, got two bangs in a row. Her body type is listed as a 'few extra pounds' and she is Native American. Her longest relationship was less than a year.

Anyhow, I don't know if I'm slipping up or still in the game. First night just went to a couple of bars (was going to pay, but she insisted we split, so I did) went back to her place, banged then banged some more that morning, left. We didn't text each other until the next week (offered to take her out on her birthday yesterday, she complied). Paid for dinner and surprised with an indie film (which she loved). Went back to her placed, banged (even though she said she was tired and needed to work the next) after I fingered her and make her wet. After 30 mins or so, said she was too tired and hot to bang (plus she had a very uncomfortable air mattress...no bed) then we went to sleep.

Fucked up in a few areas. Asked me when the next time we were hanging out. Should've been mysterious but told her next week (damn!) And told her we should go to a concert of this band we like together. Second...didnt come during sex. Was masturbating frequently before I met her...so been stopping that. She seemed to enjoy it but avoided the beta move asking if she did. I've been putting in ALL the work setting up dates but that just might be her personality (she was like this before we met). She doesn't like it doggy style or getting on top (she claims she's not good at it). However, we did kiss passionately after I left this morning and mysteriously changed her POF status to 'wanting a relationship' from 'just friends' after our first bang.

We seem to like the same stuff so I'm looking at pursuing a LTR. Currently have a prospect lined up for the Orioles game this Monday so I'm avoiding onenitis atleast. Been doing the alpha thing and only texting to set up dates (not texting her every day, etc.) But doing a bad job of being predictable. Sorry for the long post guys but wanted you to fully understand the situation. Thanks again!

TLDR: I fucked a girl twice, she's a little overweight, I'm inexplicably looking to LTR this girl. I can't read her.

Go directly to player Jail, do not pass go, do not collect 200 virgins. You can come out of player jail by dating other girls and just adding this girl to your rotation. Don't even think of LTR a girl that quickly, much less if she hasn't proven to you to be sexy (not fatter than you like), pleases you, and is submissive.

Post: #4

I didn't read much of that, but you already banged her, you already won, and she's an internet chick, move on to the next one.