Post: #26

Only consider living with her if she'll wear heels and lingerie daily, make you dinner, and perform anal sex whenever you want.

Post: #27

(06-25-2014 05:00 PM)gettingthere88 Wrote:  Hey guys,

I have an issue that I only know is an issue because I have created it myself. I am 23 dating a 28 year old RN who is terrific in all the ways I care about. Sex whenever I want, BJ's multiple time per week, makes me dinner, etc. I like her family and everything else. We have been dating for 9 months.

I am currently getting side-action when I can (once or twice a month) but it is simply because I can't fight the urge. Nothing to do with her as I know she is great in my eyes. She has been pushing to move in and I am ready for it but at the same time I am not ready because I still want to have my cake and eat it too so-to-speak. A bonus would be saving a ton of money and having a ride or die girl to come home to.

Most of my friends are older they say I am crazy for even thinking about doing this and would be missing out on ten years of freedom and fun. I guess my question is.. If I really truly think I have found a catch, how many of you would kick a good horse in the mouth because of the potential to live a crazier and more ecxiting life not being 'monogomous'?? (We will probably breakup if she doesn't move in) : In her words.. "I am not going to be in a relationship that isn;t moving forward" Shes running out of time I suppose.

Thanks in advanced.

"We will probably breakup if she doesn't move in"

You're probably going to break up if she does move in, only you'll be a balding broken shell of a man paying massive amounts of alimony and child support.

She's 28, you're about to be baby-raped.

Post: #28

If you're not ready and she DOES move in you're just going to resent her and the entire situation will fall apart quickly.

Just the fact you're saying you're not ready is a big red flag to begin with. If you're not ready why the hell would you allow her to push the issue?

Post: #29

Don't do it!

I moved in with a girl I was in a LTR with. It ended back in January of this year. We "officially" ended it and became fuck buddies for a month. It was the worst month ever with fiesty angry sex. She eventually came back to my apartment one night after she moved and was banging on the door.

It's not worth it. This older lady knows her clock is ticking. You're a kept man and she knows her clock is ticking.

Wait until you're 28 to decide if moving in with a girl is a good idea.