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~~chainring~~ · 02-21-2011 04:12 AM

I know Mixx has said that he's one-and-done with girls. I'm not there, but I know where he's coming from. After the first time I tap a new ass, I'm much less excited about the second time. And after that, my interest really plummets.

If I had to put it in numbers, it's something like this:
After 1st tap, I want to hit maybe 60% of them again.
After 2nd tap, I want to hit maybe 10% of them again.
After 3rd tap, I want to hit maybe 2% of them again.

So net, the boredom curve has become so steep for me (though not quite the cliff that Mixx's is), that I'd rather pull up some porn than bang most women more than 2 times.

Are other guys feeling this way? It's one of the dark sides of game - once you understand that you can have variety, the variety itself can become the goal. Needless to say, this mentality is incompatible with settling down with a woman who is naturally going to expect you to fuck her more than a handful of times!

~~Screwston~~ · 02-21-2011 04:43 AM

if she's a freak, I like to keep her around and get up in it a few more times. If she's nothing special in bed or isn't extra fine, once is plenty.

americanInEurope · 02-21-2011 07:16 AM

(02-21-2011 04:12 AM)chainring Wrote: I know Mixx has said that he's one-and-done with girls. I'm not there, but I know where he's coming from. After the first time I tap a new ass, I'm much less excited about the second time. And after that, my interest really plummets.

If I had to put it in numbers, it's something like this:
After 1st tap, I want to hit maybe 60% of them again.
After 2nd tap, I want to hit maybe 10% of them again.
After 3rd tap, I want to hit maybe 2% of them again.

So net, the boredom curve has become so steep for me (though not quite the cliff that Mixx's is), that I'd rather pull up some porn than bang most women more than 2 times.

Are other guys feeling this way? It's one of the dark sides of game - once you understand that you can have variety, the variety itself can become the goal. Needless to say, this mentality is incompatible with settling down with a woman who is naturally going to expect you to fuck her more than a handful of times!

Thats funny cause I'm actually the opposite. I don't like the first time cause everybody is usually so nervous. I know I am. Plus you don't eat the puss the first time you fuck. You don't know the girl like that. It takes months of knowing her before I even consider putting my face down there. And thats an important part of my program Smile

I guess I'm more of a long term seducer and I like to fuck her mind as well as her body. It's totally an ego trip and I'm a selfish asshole for thinking this, but sex is a drug and I want her to be so fucking hooked on my sex that she's like a strung out junkie when she comes to my apartment again. It's usually best the fifth or sixth time for me cause they want it so bad again that you can see their bodies change from the first time you met. Pussy is wetter, body is warmer, more eye contact, more intensity, they've seen my dick so they know what to expect, I'm excited cause I know what it feels like inside of her, etc. I want her completely infatuated with me lol.

You're like I was when I dated a really hot but boring girl. She was just a fucking maguro in the sack because I wasn't adventurous enough to get her to do stuff. Every girl wants to be fucked nasty (like Oliver Martinez did in Unfaithful) and you need a chick who is good at doing what you like (I hope you know what you like and are telling them to do it) and is pretty orgasmic and wet. I don't like chicks that don't get really wet. I like dripping we chicks. Pull the hair, nasty talk, choke her, slow/fast speed shifts, etc. Basic stuff you need to be doing lol. Of course I live in Europe so 99% of girls wanna be fucked this way.

MiXX · 02-21-2011 08:49 AM

(02-21-2011 04:12 AM)chainring Wrote: I know Mixx has said that he's one-and-done with girls.

Woah!! I never said this. Dodgy

If anything, I captured 2 new flags this weekend {Bolivia, Austria}. I would like to give a special shout-out to DOCSEDATED for flying down to be my wing in Miami this weekend.

Fact is I'll be done with girls when I am 6Ft (2m) underground, and even then, they better chop my dragon off, 'cuz if they leave any piece of meat left, I'm gonna fuck right on!

Mixx

Ajiaco · 02-21-2011 09:15 AM

Hey Mixx,

I think he meant that you only have sex with a girl once, and then you get bored. Are you gonna see those new flags again?

I am with the OP on this one. Serial/Parallel monogamy all the way

MiXX · 02-21-2011 10:00 AM

(02-21-2011 09:15 AM)Ajiaco Wrote: Hey Mixx,

I think he meant that you only have sex with a girl once, and then you get bored.

AAhhh..OK - oops. Blush

Yup, true.

(02-21-2011 09:15 AM)Ajiaco Wrote: Are you gonna see those new flags again?

They were in Miami on a sexcation, so probably not. They were ONS girls.

Mixx

~~chainring~~ · 02-21-2011 01:02 PM

(02-21-2011 08:49 AM)MiXX Wrote:
(02-21-2011 04:12 AM)chainring Wrote: I know Mixx has said that he's one-and-done with girls.
Woah!! I never said this.

LOL, you totally misunderstood. One-and-done as in stick and move.

(02-21-2011 09:15 AM)Ajiaco Wrote: I think he meant that you only have sex with a girl once, and then you get bored.

Thanks for clarifying.

afronoob · 02-23-2011 06:58 AM

(02-21-2011 01:02 PM)chainring Wrote:
(02-21-2011 08:49 AM)MiXX Wrote:
(02-21-2011 04:12 AM)chainring Wrote: I know Mixx has said that he's one-and-done with girls.
Woah!! I never said this.
LOL, you totally misunderstood. One-and-done as in stick and move.

(02-21-2011 09:15 AM)Ajiaco Wrote: I think he meant that you only have sex with a girl once, and then you get bored.
Thanks for clarifying.

I generally attempt to remain friends and in touch. However if they're the infamous passive-aggressive bedroom statue diss,once is too many.
I cosign all AIE says.

~~chainring~~ · 02-23-2011 07:12 PM

(02-21-2011 07:16 AM)americanInEurope Wrote: Thats funny cause I'm actually the opposite. I don't like the first time cause everybody is usually so nervous. I know I am. Plus you don't eat the puss the first time you fuck. You don't know the girl like that. It takes months of knowing her before I even consider putting my face down there. And thats an important part of my program I guess I'm more of a long term seducer and I like to fuck her mind as well as her body. It's totally an ego trip and I'm a selfish asshole for thinking this, but sex is a drug and I want her to be so fucking hooked on my sex that she's like a strung out junkie when she comes to my apartment again. It's usually best the fifth or sixth time for me cause they want it so bad again that you can see their bodies change from the first time you met. Pussy is wetter, body is warmer, more eye contact, more intensity, they've seen my dick so they know what to expect, I'm excited cause I know what it feels like inside of her, etc. I want her completely infatuated with me lol.

You're like I was when I dated a really hot but boring girl. She was just a fucking maguro in the sack because I wasn't adventurous enough to get her to do stuff. Every girl wants to be fucked nasty (like Oliver Martinez did in Unfaithful) and you need a chick who is good at doing what you like (I hope you know what you like and are telling them to do it) and is pretty orgasmic and wet. I don't like chicks that don't get really wet. I like dripping we chicks. Pull the hair, nasty talk, choke her, slow/fast speed shifts, etc. Basic stuff you need to be doing lol. Of course I live in Europe so 99% of girls wanna be fucked this way.

LOL. What makes you think I don't own her after the first fuck? Maybe that's the problem - maybe if I hold back a bit more, I'll be more interested in future sessions with the same girl.

docsedated · 02-25-2011 09:56 AM

I had the honor of being Mixx's Wingman for 6 days and want to clarify some beliefs about Mixx, It isn't that he gets bored with Same girls but he has options to bang a new one almost every day, why would he bang the same one again, I know I wouldn't if I had the option of new pussy vs old, I will try the new one just because it might smell better, different, she might be freak in bed even with lower overall score even 6's, but Mix wouldn't go for a 6, Actually I got slapped for approaching 6's and 7's.

Out of 6 days Mixx was able to Bang 5 days, 4 new and one he did two days in a row, she must be good Smile

, 1 Argie, 1 Austrian, 1 American and 1 Bolivian X 2, Mixx's Bangs were all 8 and above , hell Austrian was only 21 ................... and myself 1 got 1 American Bang, yeeeah.......

There were days when he was tired from fucking and those were the days he was getting more IOI's from girls because he was giving the "I Do not give a fuck vibe" and I did see him leave a Gaurantted bang from a Canadian 7 but he was too damn cool and relaxed and just wanted to chill and was craving a margarita and didn't want pussy, come 2 hrs later it might have been a different story......

I was able to learn a lot , my beliefs about women got aligned, It's like Epiphany when you see the Game working on women, things that I thought would never work on women, and yes I did got 1 Bang using Mixx's teaching.....

One more thing that Mixx does is to screen the girls for ONS or possible near future bangs with in 5 min and if it's a no go, he goes for the next......., no wasting time in his book. I will post more in a separate thread what i learned from Mixx for the better benefit of the community until then Game on brothers..........

MiXX · 02-25-2011 10:14 AM

Glad you had a good time Doc, my very first disciple. Smile

See you in Sarasota, FL next week for Chillounge night where we will cause some major damage! Oh yeah, the Argentinian doctor called me last night to come over "for a glass of wine", I passed.....I have to save my strength for next week - besides, I already banged her....old news.

Mixx

Nonpareil · 02-25-2011 02:13 PM

Depends on several factors. How hot is she? Can I actually hang out with her without wanting to kill myself? What are my options like? How good of a lay is she?

The big two here I think are her attractiveness and my options. Since I've been on a tear lately, I've been forced to hedge my bets and trim out a few weaker choices. I recently cut it off with a short 7 with big tits and a fun personality because I don't like commuting for 40 minutes to hang out (and her sex game was average) tard

Based on my own experiences and rated for looks I see it something like this, assuming the girl is relatively cool, she's average/above-average but not great in bed and my options are decent;

0-3: Insufficient data
4: 1-2 (drunken SNL)
5: 1-7+/- (NSA only, won't tell my friends about her)
6: 1-12+/- (a 6 needs to bring more than sex to the table)
7: 1-50+ (here's where we start to see the girl's personality and skill have a bearing)
8: 1-200+ (Start of 'hot', but if she's lame you can get bored. 8 is where LTR potential begins)
9: 1-1000+ (I know we all love our variety, but I'd rather fuck a cool, interesting and crazy skilled version of Alessandra Ambrosio 1500 times than be out there fucking 6-8's)
10: Insufficient data

~~chainring~~ · 02-25-2011 05:39 PM

(02-25-2011 02:13 PM)Nonpareil Wrote: 0-3: Insufficient data
4: 1-2 (drunken SNL)
5: 1-7+/- (NSA only, won't tell my friends about her)
6: 1-12+/- (a 6 needs to bring more than sex to the table)
7: 1-50+ (here's where we start to see the girl's personality and skill have a bearing)
8: 1-200+ (Start of 'hot', but if she's lame you can get bored. 8 is where LTR potential begins)
9: 1-1000+ (I know we all love our variety, but I'd rather fuck a cool, interesting and crazy skilled version of Alessandra Ambrosio 1500 times than be out there fucking 6-8's)
10: Insufficient data

Interesting. I view things quite differently. I'd rather bang an 8 and a 9 once each than bang the 9 twice.

Taken a step further, I'd rather bang a 7 and an 8 once each than bang the 8 twice.

The new-to-me effect is very strong on me.

~~chainring~~ · 02-25-2011 05:47 PM

(02-25-2011 09:56 AM)docsedated Wrote:
Out of 6 days Mixx was able to Bang 5 days, 4 new and one he did two days in a row, she must be good , 1 Argie, 1 Austrian, 1 American and 1 Bolivian X 2, Mixx's Bangs were all 8 and above , hell Austrian was only 21

Amazing. Aside from the fact that my game isn't even in the same universe as Mixx's, banging 4 different chicks in 6 days might put me on the PUP* list.

*For those who don't follow the NFL, PUP = physically unable to perform.

(02-25-2011 09:56 AM)docsedated Wrote: One more thing that Mixx does is to screen the girls for ONS or possible near future bangs with in 5 min and if it's a no go, he goes for the next......., no wasting time in his book. I will post more in a separate thread what i learned from Mixx for the better benefit of the community until then Game on brothers..........

americanInEurope · 02-26-2011 12:15 PM

(02-23-2011 07:12 PM)chainring Wrote:
(02-21-2011 07:16 AM)americanInEurope Wrote: Thats funny cause I'm actually the opposite. I don't like the first time cause everybody is usually so nervous. I know I am. Plus you don't eat the puss the first time you fuck. You don't know the girl like that. It takes months of knowing her before I even consider putting my face down there. And thats an important part of my program I guess I'm more of a long term seducer and I like to fuck her mind as well as her body. It's totally an ego trip and I'm a selfish asshole for thinking this, but sex is a drug and I want her to be so fucking hooked on my sex that she's like a strung out junkie when she comes to my apartment again. It's usually best the fifth or sixth time for me cause they want it so bad again that you can see their bodies change from the first time you met. Pussy is wetter, body is warmer, more eye contact, more intensity, they've seen my dick so they know what to expect, I'm excited cause I know what it feels like inside of her, etc. I want her completely infatuated with me lol.

You're like I was when I dated a really hot but boring girl. She was just a fucking maguro in the sack because I wasn't adventurous enough to get her to do stuff. Every girl wants to be fucked nasty (like Oliver Martinez did in Unfaithful) and you need a chick who is good at doing what you like (I hope you know what you like and are telling them to do it) and is pretty orgasmic and wet. I don't like chicks that don't get really wet. I like dripping we chicks. Pull the hair, nasty talk, choke her, slow/fast speed shifts, etc. Basic stuff you need to be doing lol. Of course I live in Europe so 99% of girls wanna be fucked this way.
LOL. What makes you think I don't own her after the first fuck? Maybe that's the problem - maybe if I hold back a bit more, I'll be more interested in future sessions with the same girl.

I'm just saying, if she's not doing what you want her to do, maybe that's why you get so bored. Also maybe she looks better with clothes on? You've really gotta know what you want and crave and ONLY go after that. You'll feel better satisfied in the end.

docsedated · 02-26-2011 12:55 PM

For Chainring : One of Mixx's beliefs .........

" You can not change a girls mind to fuck you who is not DTF but you possibly can change a girls mind who is DTF " (Mixx)

Once you get an Indication girls is not DTF,.......Good bye , next approach, No wasting time...... Logistics are not appropriate for Isolation, next, 3 GF and one is not paired , next.., Two girls one not paired next, flying out this evening next.....,Girl Doesn't have a separate room next .... you got the Idea. and yet again it's a numbers game and you will come across the girl with proper logistcs who is DTF but if you would have kept wasting time with the first set trying to change her mind you wouldn't have gotten to this one........

Game on Brother........

~~chainring~~ · 02-26-2011 02:15 PM

(02-26-2011 12:55 PM)docsedated Wrote: For Chainring : One of Mixx's beliefs .........

" You can not change a girls mind to fuck you who is not DTF but you possibly can change a girls mind who is DTF " (Mixx)

Once you get an Indication girls is not DTF,.......Good bye , next approach, No wasting time...... Logistics are not appropriate for Isolation, next, 3 GF and one is not paired , next.., Two girls one not paired next, flying out this evening next.....,Girl Doesn't have a separate room next .... you got the Idea. and yet again it's a numbers game and you will come across the girl with proper logistcs who is DTF but if you would have kept wasting time with the first set trying to change her mind you wouldn't have gotten to this one........

Game on Brother........

Good stuff. Yeah, I've got to become disciplined about quickly nexting.

Any advice on quickly figuring out if she is DTF? That way I don't waste an hour on a girl who is giving me IOIs and then make my move and find out she likes me, but isn't DTF now or in the near future.

lavidaloca · 02-26-2011 03:12 PM

I have to be honest and say originally when Mixx posted his lays outline and I believe it was somewhere around 115 unique chicks in 11 months I was a doubter. But you sir. You are El hombre.

docsedated · 02-26-2011 07:16 PM

[/quote]Good stuff. Yeah, I've got to become disciplined about quickly nexting.

Any advice on quickly figuring out if she is DTF? That way I don't waste an hour on a girl who is giving me IOIs and then make my move and find out she likes me, but isn't DTF now or in the near future.

[/quote]

Sure thing Amigo........

After IOI's Kino, as a matter of fact Kino from the begining of the approach, that should come naturally, then ISOLATION, to a place where she can hear you, and progress both emotionally and physically , get some Kissing going , Rest is up to you like G says............

I am assuming you will make sure that Logistics are appropriate for fucking prior to Isolating the traget otherwise, NEXT, Isolation is only for girls that are giving you the vibe and look DTF with proper logistics (either you have a room nearby or she does).......If after Isolating she is not DTF, try going back to squre 1 of Kino and if no go NEXT..........

If girl gives you DTF vibe and IOI's , call her out on her cards with ISOLATION, If she is not down for Isolation or ready to ditch her friends to go with you for coffe/lounge then NEXT...... while walking around bars/nightclubs , keep an eye for Lounges/Quiet Bars /Coffee places that can be used for Isolation later.......

She will be ready for Isolation if she is out on her own or 2 GF are out and you are gaming with a Wingman, Like myself and Mixx did in FLL/Miami, That was a lethal Combo........... Smile

Happy hunting...................

~~chainring~~ · 02-27-2011 09:27 PM

(02-26-2011 07:16 PM)docsedated Wrote:
Sure thing Amigo........

After IOI's Kino, as a matter of fact Kino from the begining of the approach, that should come naturally, then ISOLATION, to a place where she can hear you, and progress both emotionally and physically , get some Kissing going , Rest is up to you like G says............

I am assuming you will make sure that Logistics are appropriate for fucking prior to Isolating the traget otherwise, NEXT, Isolation is only for girls that are giving you the vibe and look DTF with proper logistics (either you have a room nearby or she does).......If after Isolating she is not DTF, try going back to squre 1 of Kino and if no go NEXT..........

If girl gives you DTF vibe and IOI's , call her out on her cards with ISOLATION, If she is not down for Isolation or ready to ditch her friends to go with you for coffe/lounge then NEXT...... while walking around bars/nightclubs , keep an eye for Lounges/Quiet Bars /Coffee places that can be used for Isolation later.......

She will be ready for Isolation if she is out on her own or 2 GF are out and you are gaming with a Wingman, Like myself and Mixx did in FLL/Miami, That was a lethal Combo...........

Happy hunting...................

Thanks doc. I'm gonna try to put this into practice and escalate early and bail if she's not giving DTF cues.

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