Post: #26

Yes, Blue Pill men stop believing in the stork but they often can't get their head around the idea that their mother has sex.

It's momma's boys who tend to think of women as either sweet and pure or dirty and slutty. 'Breaking' with their mother is a necessary pre-requisite for any boy to become a man and part of it involves accepting your mother as a woman who is a sexual being.

Post: #27

Quote:the pretty face girl that needed to do some squats.

Thanks. Did she improve her body?

Post: #28

I have let go of the whole "good girl" concept entirely. This is not because girls are bad. It is because girls are neither good nor bad. As others have indicated, they are hard-wired a certain way. Certain environmental factors may contribute to their outward persona of "good girl" or "slut". However, even the best woman has a price. I'm not mainly talking about money here. I'm mainly talking about game. If a guy with enough game (or money/fame/looks for that matter) came along and made up his mind that he really wanted to bang your lady, she would just be banged. It is what it is.

Post: #29

OP, if these good girls bore you because they cannot talk about their adventures extrordinaire of getting drunk, vomiting on the center of dance floor, passing out, waking up in some random dudes apartment and going to abortion clinic two months later, due to lack of such experiences, then maybe you should impregnate these good girls. When you have common kids you will definitely have something to talk about!

You see the problem of our time is that people are just consumers, not only women, but you and me too. You are just a consumer, you look at every girl from a perspective of what fun can you extract from her. But should you look on them from he perspective of what you could build and make from girls you would see world differently.

Sluts are interesting for consumers and prudes are boring. But for creators virgins are more valuable as an untouched piece of paper is more valuable for an artist who imagines a possibility of a hundred pictures that can be drawn on this empty space. But already painted picture is merely what it is. This is also why men don't like tattooed women. Out of a virgin you can create anything you want - a caring mother for your children or as has been mentioned in this thread already - a personal sex freak.

The Madonna -whore complex you guys wrote about is the personal conflict within ourselves and between our desires to be entertained while indulging in pleasures and our aspiration to become better men, social patriarchs who build and give to the world and world responds with awe. This is the choice of life will you be a consumer or will you be a builder. There are women to support you on either path, women for the left path and women for the right path.

Post: #30

(05-29-2014 08:29 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(05-29-2014 08:24 PM)Onto Wrote:  What we really want is both the good girl and the bad girl. Problem is, the characteristics of each are not just contradictory but antinomic, meaning the very definition of the good requires the non-existence of the bad and vice-versa.

Sure, it's fun to turn a good girl into a bad one, but then you've let the genie out of the bottle and she no longer is the sweet good girl anymore. Same if you convert a slut into a nun.

The answer is to try an find someone that is enough of a balance between the two that's right for you.

No. We want a good girl that's bad for us only.

Big difference.

I have no problem dating 'good girls' who are 'bad' with me, just not the rest of Los Angeles.

I wanted to post just what he said.
Get a good, feminine girl that will be bad with you and who you can have fun with.
Until you find her bang your brains out

Post: #31

(05-29-2014 07:45 PM)ddjembe mutombo Wrote:  During my reflection I noticed a reoccurring trend regarding my relationships with these women. They were simply too spotless for a deeper connection. They either believed alcohol was evil, R rated movies were off-limits, sex should be saved for marriage, etcetera. I couldn't connect with these delicate flowers because I enjoyed uncensored art, an occasional alcoholic beverage, and reasonable physical intimacy. Therefore, spending even an hour alone with them seemed incredibly dull and boring.

I praise their fathers and mothers for raising such a fine offspring. If I were a father, I would want my daughter to be that way. However, I came to the conclusion that the sacrifice to maintain a personal relationship with a "good girl" was just too much. These girls are raised to be with guys that find joy in their cubicles and suburban homes.

Wait 'til you hit 40—you'll sacrifice your right arm and left nut to get with a "good girl".

Whatever you do, don't cut off or alienate yourself from your pool of "good girls". Take it from an older guy, you'll want to tap that pool in a few years.

For now, enjoy.

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