Post: #1

I spend a lot of time in coffee shops where a hot girl will come in, get in line, grab her coffee then walk right back out to her car and drive off.

They don't hang around at tables for me to game.

One approach I've tried is to get behind them in line and when we're almost to the counter say something like "excuse me, have you tried those cold coffee drinks here...like the frappucinos?" THey'll usually say yes then I'll ask if they're good. I'll tell them how my friend who is a girl always recommends them but I just stick to the boring old hot coffees, etc. Maybe I'll transition to something based on the way they're dressed ( ie....looks like they're going to exercise or something ) it usually doesn't work though as far as building attraction.

Another method, I just tried, is to wait outside the door outside as if I'm talking on my phone. When they walk out...If they have a cold coffee drink or a desert....I'll say "excuse me....is that good?" They'll say yes and I'll ask a few more questions about it....but they're kind of walking off/in a hurry as they politely answer my questions.

My point is....in both of these types of 'gaming tactics' for girls grabbing coffee on the run....it's tough to get them to stop and be willing to chat a little.

I was thinking of maybe going a little forward like I've seen some PUAs do on videos and when they begin to walk or drift away say " hey hold on for just a minute to chat, I like you're energy...etc. ( credit Paul Janka )" as if I just realizd they have good energy. And then proceeding to going a bit more direct. I don't go direct too often because I game younger women, mostly in their 20s and I'm in my mid 40s though look about 10 yrs younger....so I'm trying to do more of an indirect game ( possible mistake )

I am interested in any tactics/ methods you playboys may use to slow down these girls in a hurry so I can chat a bit and game them/build attraction.

Post: #2

If a girl wants to talk to you, she'll make a little bit of time for it.

I'm not so much a fan of the "hey have you tried frappucinos" opener because it's so transparent. I mean, you could just buy a frappucino and have no need to pester people to ask if they're good.

I think a better approach would be, "that looks delicious...what is that?" and then she'll be like "mocha spice triple pumpkin caramel frappucino" and next thing you know you're making out.

But seriously, you can open with ANYTHING as long as it starts a conversation. It doesn't have to be coffee related. Bonus points if you make her laugh. Ask her if Sebastian from The Little Mermaid is a lobster or a crab. Don't just talk about coffee and ask whether it's good.

Post: #3

Some girls are little slow to know you're hitting on them in daytime. so you must go direct faster if she's in a hurry. just transition from "is that delicious?" to her going "blahblahblahpuchinno" to something like "Oh I know its a blahpuchinno, i just wanted to see if your friendly, because you're cute and I wanted to talk to you" -- and after she says thanks you must go to a false time constraint because as the situation is a bit uncomfortable to some girls and they will use a boyfriend or whatever to eject. so you state that you gotta go but that she should put her number in your phone and the two of you can do a playdate later.. you can run a galnuc of course. or go the whole "Yad kiss close" thing right then and there. ... go read Krauser. direct daytime is his / london daygame stuff

Post: #4

Thanks Wingmen, I'll try both of these. I agree about them not knowing you're hitting on them in the day time. I've opened with indirect openers before. Then...when I run out of things to say...and get the balls up and start asking more personal questions like their name or kind of hitting on them....leading up to asking their number.....often they'll get a "oh so this is what this is all about" look on their face. Or a " okay...here it comes...he's gonna ask me out" look. So, this goes to show they are still in the mindset of just trying to help some ignorant guy out when I start to lay that stuff down. Most good looking young women are just so in their heads during the daytime. They just seem to have tunnel vision...it's all about "their world" I think men must be much more cognizant of their surroundings and kind of on pseudo alert most of the time. With their radars up....especially for hot nubile women. But damn women...they just walk around oblivious fucking with their iphones, laser focusing on buying their coffee and getting to their crossfit appointment or salon visit....the whole time men are drooling over them. I'm not saying the women are oblivious to men staring at them as I know they are perceptive....but many times, they just seem to have tunnel vision performing their feminine tasks and daily routine and are not taking in their surroundings like men do.

Post: #5

So what if they have that look? my approach, especially the day game interactions, is push it. Fuck it if they say no. At least they said no. Maybe they say no 90% of the time. You ask 100 women for their number, you still get 10 numbers out of it. In my opinion, that's worth it. Don't try to save your ego when you're gaming girls, especially day game.

Post: #6

(05-27-2014 07:14 PM)From Vegas to Tokyo Wrote:  So what if they have that look? my approach, especially the day game interactions, is push it. Fuck it if they say no. At least they said no. Maybe they say no 90% of the time. You ask 100 women for their number, you still get 10 numbers out of it. In my opinion, that's worth it. Don't try to save your ego when you're gaming girls, especially day game.

I've been pushing to adopt that mindset....trying to get over my 'sensitivity' to the whole thing. Do you push it even when they look like they're wanting to walk off or actually starting to drift off? Some method you use in that situation?

Post: #7

Look for coffee shops where girls wait while killing time before a meeting or whatever they are doing. Seriously.

If a girl is in a hurry, think about what value signals she sees that will make her pause and think she is missing out on something -- not you. There isn't an exact answer, it depends on her demographics, but hint: G Manifesto