Post: #26

I used this thread last night on an approach. The girl asks me if I'm here alone. Instead of actually using the mom line (my mom is dead. I just can't..), I told her about the mom line. She thought it sucked because her mom would come out with her. But it did the job of deflecting away from the convo about me being alone. Although she wasn't a great test because I flat out told her I was a creep and she liked me more for it.

Post: #27

If a girl ask me why I am out alone I usually just say I was suppose to meet a friend, AND depending on the girl and the image I want to project, I will make it either a male or female friend and say they couldn't make it because of some family problem.

I don't know how it works in other parts of the country but in Miami in the top end strip clubs the girls have to work certain hours or shifts. They just can't leave whenever they want. Of course they can but they can literally lose their job for doing it.

Post: #28

It's creative but I find it a bit hard to follow up if you don't get a ONS with the girl. If you meet the girl the next day and are on vacation, you're going to have to make up another excuse as to where your mom is. Or worse, she adds you on facebook and verifies that you were lying.

Some societies have a herd mentality and being at the club solo will be an instant DLV, even if you're a tourist and has obvious reasons not to know anybody at the club. Argentina comes to mind. Rolling solo in Buenos Aires is brutal even as a tourist (that is if you want to game the local girls - tourists are more open minded).

In my home city in Brazil (also a society with herd mentality), I would also make up excuses when rolling solo, or in some cases, would not admit that I was solo at the venue. It takes some acting skills, but it's rewarding when you get the girl. I don't see tourists having problems rolling solo here because Brazil is not Argentina.

In Europe, OTOH, where people are more open minded, I've found it that admitting to girls that you're travelling solo will make them intrigued and will be a DHV. If anything, they know that you're a brave guy, and it will make her pussy wetter than if you're rolling in a wolf pack. It's a bit harder when you're in a "go with your friends" type of place like Ibiza or Hvar, but it's still doable.

Post: #29

Used the mom line yesterday rolling solo at a pool. Worked really well. Game recognized.

Post: #30

There's always Roosh's wise-ass self-depreciating line for rolling solo:

"Where are your friends?"

"I have no friends." (works even better if you are there with friends)

Post: #31

I personally don't lie. Maybe I have far less notches on account of it, but I'm okay with that (not to say I won't 'bullshit')

I was out solo having a pretty good night, and a girl asked me, "Estas aqui solo?" (Are you here alone?)

By this time we had already kissed and she was always maintaining some kind of physical contact with me. I just paused, smirked, looked in her eyes, and said "Si" (Yes). I was in a semi-tipsy good-game state.

Now, I have not laid her (I still just might) but in the moment it did not matter that I went out alone because I was not self-conscious about it. I acted (genuinely) that the shit-test was cute and amusing.

Something else I might say, if I learn to say it in Spanish, is "All my friends are shitty wing-men."

The "new in town" and "I want to meet new friends" are also true things that I've said. For some reason, the first one I mentioned seemed the most powerful. No need to explain myself.

Post: #32

Ha, ive used many of the similar lines. Hey where are you friends?

-*Shrugs shoulder* pull out weed and J wraps and start rolling a J.
or
-Dunno
or
- I got lost. "Overly dramatic sad face* (usually gets a good laugh)

Honestly, when I rolled out solo in the beginning it was a big worry. Now- nothing. I pull better solo or with good wings.

Post: #33

Sometimes just an over-dramatic ':O' face with a sucking sound will work.

The 'Are you alone?' shit test is stupid and not even worth an answer that could respect the question

A similar question women ask men is "Why are you on this online dating site?"

"I'm only here to make friends" is probably a common reply.

"Why not?"/"Because I am" is a much better answer because you rise above it and make them question themself.

Wriggling out of it/Trying to justify yourself will give off the idea that people shouldn't be out solo, even if they want to be.

Agree and amplify has ALWAYS worked for me.

Post: #34

What do you guys think are good qualities in a wingman? Is there more to it than him just being able to game the "friend" while you talk to your girl?

Post: #35

Going out solo is the only way for me if i'm looking to meet new women. Going out with mates is a different activity and is all abut getting drunk, having some laughs, etc. Just target a few good places, know everyone there (bartenders, hostesses, etc) and when asked tell the truth..something like: "i am here myself...well actually I dropped in to say hi to XYZ bartender he/she makes the best sangria in NYC...seriously you have to try one of these...blah blah blah". If i dont know the staff well enuff to do that i still tell the truth...especially on a weeknight something like "i came out myself...i tried to sit on the couch for once and i couldnt do it...i am starting to think i have a problem i never seem to be able stay home like a normal person!". Just experiment and have fun with it and dont be self-conscious...if she thinks it's wierd to go out by yourself then so be it she is wrong...next.

Post: #36

(05-19-2014 10:40 AM)Samseau Wrote:  There's always Roosh's wise-ass self-depreciating line for rolling solo:

"Where are your friends?"

"I have no friends." (works even better if you are there with friends)

Agree and amplify! Show her that you are immune to her game.

All the game haters who think it's all about negs don't realize that the neg is just the mirror of the shit-test.

Where are you friends is a shit-test.