Post: #26

Yeah I understand where you're coming from bro; I think that it's sometimes about finding the middle ground.

I don't think going down on a girl or spending time really warming her up is AFC necessarily; it's about how you do it.

I'm sure I'm telling you how to suck eggs but this is pretty much my first/second bang recipe book:

I love getting them really going during making out; kissing their neck etc etc...but I do it with a "I'm doing this for my enjoyment not yours" frame. Holding their hair, gripping them tightly, moving their mouths where you want them to go etc. Ya know, being dominant.

I always make them suck me off first. I always make them tell me they're enjoying it, being " my dirty little sock sucker" etc etc etc. Make them please you.

Most girls get massively wet from this shit anyway so then I make them beg me to lick them. Which I do until I decide I'm done and it's time to fuck.

Irrespective of how much they're enjoying it and want it to continue, I just say "I am going to fuck you now, get me a condom".

By this point your fingers should have figured out just how loose and wet the pussy is which can help you decide how hard you wish to proceed.

I love sex but I enjoy it more when the girl is getting the best fuck of her life. With that in mind I usually start a little slower and less deep for a minute or so; still talking to her, whispering in her ear, telling her what a nasty little slut she is etc. Then it's time to get a little rougher.

I've taken recently to choking girls and spitting in their faces etc but I think this needs a really strong frame haha.

I think you're also underestimating how big your cock is mate...lol.