Post: #1

I'm in college and live with my parents. I've been meeting these smoke shows lately that have been very interested in hanging out. I've got them hooked, but my logistics are beyond fucked when it comes to closing the deal.

I met this girl (the approach is here in this thread) at my university and I ran into her today (2 days later) again at my university. She screamed my name (nice) in an excited voice and gave me a kiss and a hug ( I ignored her texts lately, and hot girls seem to chase you when you do ). She looked way better than I remembered and I walked her to her class and found out she lives with her parents. The last three girls I've talked to have the same thing and are super hot. I'm working hard towards getting my own place this summer, but I don't know how to approach this for now.

Car sex? a lot of girls don't go for it.

Logistics issue.
-My parents are very stay at home and rarely, if ever, go out.
- I have a car and I have a friend who has his own place, but his living room is a shithole and his room is not decorated in the most aesthetically pleasing way.
- Never done motels, but I can still try, although they aren't cheap and I'm a college student with not much money (yet)

Suggestions are very welcomed.

Post: #2

It's summer. Any secluded beach, forest or somewhere where you could take her?

I think that you might be able to use your friend's place. Go somewhere with the girl where your friend's place is on the way. Say that you just need to go there to water his plants as he is away. Joke with her how it looks and of course you need to bring the girl there and show her what you talk about. From there you have her isolated without having her blaming you for the 'interior design'. I don't know if it would work but probably better than a motel which could be a bit too obvious.

Post: #3

Would your parents really care if you had a girl over?

Bring her over at night when your parents are asleep..?

Ask friends if you can use their place..?

Ask relatives if you can use their place..?

Take her camping and get a good tent and some good sleeping bags.

I don't like cars or outdoor sex but some guys do that.

Hotel? It's weird because you never know if she is gonna bang or not!!!

Bad logistics really suck!

Sneak her into your house late at night and get her in the shower!

Post: #4

(05-07-2014 12:05 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  I think that you might be able to use your friend's place. Go somewhere with the girl where your friend's place is on the way. Say that you just need to go there to water his plants as he is away. Joke with her how it looks and of course you need to bring the girl there and show her what you talk about. From there you have her isolated without having her blaming you for the 'interior design'. I don't know if it would work but probably better than a motel which could be a bit too obvious.

That's a good one. The beach is like 45 minutes away so I don't know about that one, and I live in a pretty urban area so no forest or secluded areas per say. I do like the water my friend's plants or some excuse to take her there, I'll have to get creative. I'll definitely do my mightiest to clean that piece of shit living room to make it look decent.
My friend's house is a little unreliable, so I do need to have more than one option though.

Post: #5

(05-07-2014 12:15 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Would your parents really care if you had a girl over?

Bring her over at night when your parents are asleep..?

Ask friends if you can use their place..?

Ask relatives if you can use their place..?

Take her camping and get a good tent and some good sleeping bags.

I don't like cars or outdoor sex but some guys do that.

Hotel? It's weird because you never know if she is gonna bang or not!!!

Bad logistics really suck!

Sneak her into your house late at night and get her in the shower!

They do! let's just say that for gaming purposes, I'm homeless. I'll try outdoor sex or car sex, but my game isn't there yet. I hate logistics problems, but I know that if I work around them, my game will be untouchable. My friend's place seems like the best option, but I don't want to rely on that completely. It only takes one bang, and after that I'll fuck them pretty much anywhere.

Post: #6

Fuck her at her place. (in fact, you should be doing this even if you had your own bachelor pad)

Given public sex, motels, and sneaking around your parent's place - game wise it's much easier to sleep with a chick if she has a place of her own.

So you set up any sort of outings near her spot, so at the end of the night, you walk her home, and then finagle your way inside.

The problem is when both of you have logistics issues. In that case, you've really got to extend your game for public sex. Might get caught type steez.

WIA

Post: #7

(05-07-2014 01:02 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  The problem is when both of you have logistics issues. In that case, you've really got to extend your game for public sex. Might get caught type steez.

WIA

I'm kind of a newbie to outdoor sex (never had it, unless you count car sex and my car is a corolla, so space is limited) I'm trying to plan the date in a way that gets me laid.
I was thinking a hookah place and then my friend's place.
If that doesn't work ( my friend's place), I'll just scalate as much as I can in the car and see if she wants to bang right there and then. If not, I'm hoping she makes it easier to bang with her logistics soon ( let her do some of the work, this chick seems really down)

Do you players have any formula for outdoor sex at night?

Post: #8

While your friends place, a car, the woods, etc are great short term options, start making a long term plan. If you're a rising senior you might be able to make it one more year and save your money to move out when you graduate, but if you're a rising sophomore or junior loom into your options with your own place as a longer term solution. If you're still in the same place a year from now, with what seems like good game and skill but bad logistics, you're killing yourself. Look to the long term and try to figure out what your plan is, and if it includes your own digs or not.

Post: #9

(05-07-2014 02:16 PM)classicjimmy Wrote:  While your friends place, a car, the woods, etc are great short term options, start making a long term plan. If you're a rising senior you might be able to make it one more year and save your money to move out when you graduate, but if you're a rising sophomore or junior loom into your options with your own place as a longer term solution. If you're still in the same place a year from now, with what seems like good game and skill but bad logistics, you're killing yourself. Look to the long term and try to figure out what your plan is, and if it includes your own digs or not.

Oh trust me I am. I'm working my ass off to have my own place by the end of summer (have like at least three month's rent). It's a long-term solution and it really doesn't happen over night, but in the short-term I have to get laid. I really don't understand how some guys can have their own place, car, free time and NOT get laid. With easy logistics, she doesn't even have to like you that much in order to bang. I see it as a test of will for my game for now, but like you said, a band-aid solution is not going to cut it.

Post: #10

Exactly how bad is your friend's place? I actually think that you might think too much into it if you rather don't take her there than not being able to isolate her. Prepare the pad with a bottle of wine (white or sparkling is the safest bet if you don't know what she likes), have some nice candles and something to chew. You might even consider to cook or get some takeaway. I mean, a completely messy or strange apartment might cockblock you but if she knows that it isn't yours but that the table that you set with wine glasses, candles etc which look nice is your responsibility I think that she will overlook the fact that your friend has a strange pad. Just make sure that she knows that you think that it's strange before she gets there.

When I come to think about it, you could combine the 'watering the plants' with a prepared table with wine glasses, candles etc as a surprise. Or on forehand just offer her a dinner at the place.. You probably know best what you think will work on her.

Just don't miss a chance to isolate her. If you don't isolate you will definately not get what you want.

Post: #11

(05-07-2014 03:47 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  Exactly how bad is your friend's place? I actually think that you might think too much into it if you rather don't take her there than not being able to isolate her.

Oh it's pretty bad. It's not even his fault, he just moved in there and the people leasing ( he sub-leases) were sexless, messy, stoner nerds that just had no style. There were confederate flags on the walls, cartoon network figures on the wall... you don't wanna know. I'm a guy and I have a tolerance for "guy rooms" but these guys take the cake. I could actually hear future vaginas drying as soon as they walk in the door.

EDIT: I already talked to my friend about cleaning and redecorating his living room, and make it decent. It should be fine for now.

(05-07-2014 03:47 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  Prepare the pad with a bottle of wine (white or sparkling is the safest bet if you don't know what she likes), have some nice candles and something to chew. You might even consider to cook or get some takeaway. I mean, a completely messy or strange apartment might cockblock you but if she knows that it isn't yours but that the table that you set with wine glasses, candles etc which look nice is your responsibility I think that she will overlook the fact that your friend has a strange pad. Just make sure that she knows that you think that it's strange before she gets there.

When I come to think about it, you could combine the 'watering the plants' with a prepared table with wine glasses, candles etc as a surprise. Or on forehand just offer her a dinner at the place.. You probably know best what you think will work on her.

Just don't miss a chance to isolate her. If you don't isolate you will definately not get what you want.

I don't know about candles and dinner (not my style). I'm more of a casual guy, drinks, hookah, maybe something like ice cream or just smoking a blunt and fucking, it is college after all. Even though this is one of the hottest girls I've ever had responding well to my game, I still want to keep it casual and not invest too much. What's worked best with this girl is aloof, teasing, making her work for it, but still being exciting and funny as hell. In fact, today when I saw her again, I couldn't believe how hot she really was ( I wasn't so focused on her beauty the first time)
and I think that's what she wants, a guy who treats her like a little girl, dominant, and makes her do some of the chasing.

Post: #12

With your style and what you write about her do you really think that you will struggle to do the deed in your Corolla? If she refuses, just drive to the closest motel.

If you really don't want to invest too much and you are on the sleazy side have you thought about the restrooms?! Any port in the storm.. At least the European style restrooms for the handicapped that is in a big separate room works reasonably if all other logistics seem to fail.

If you are in an urban environment I can recommend an underground parking without cameras and that is almost only used by people that work in the city. That way the parking is more or less deserted late in the evening or at night.

Post: #13

Yeah, I'll probably end up hitting it in the Corolla . She seems to be the kinda girl who needs a little excitement in her life. After that, we'll work on the logistics with her. And hey! I'm not sleazy!, I keep it casual

Post: #14

Have you thought about having this conversation with your Dad? A proper man-son talk. Do it well and he can square things with your mum.

I can't believe there isn't a father alive who can't remember the raging hormones of youth and the frustrations that go with it.

Post: #15

It's a complicated family situation, don't want to get into it. He does help me pay for gas, gives me money for dates and shit, but logistics-wise I have to deal with it. Let's just say at this point of his life, the last thing he worries about is for me to get laid or not.

Post: #16

http://www.rooshv.com/turning-lifestyle-...o-strength
I just read this article from Roosh where he nailed it. I love how even though he was 29, he could still get away with bringing a girl over his Dad's house. I'll take my girls to the car, the parking lot, a bathroom, their house (with their parents on it), and just not give a fuck. As long as I phrase it correctly, who gives a fuck?
Oh this will be fun

Post: #17

I have just set up a date with a girl that probably lives with her parents, this is a common problem for me as well as I'm currently living at home as well. Not only that this girl lives about 30mins away from me.

I like the idea of just taking girls home late at night, but when they live far away, it might be less likely they'll flake if I come and meet them close to where they live.

That then leaves me with two options, take them back to their place or back to my car. Or possibly a third option a 30minute drive to mine, but that's not really likely.

Does anyone here actually have success doing any of these things? I've been thinking, maybe just invite her for a smoke in my car, and then try and push for the bang there. Although a lot of girls act all fucking crazy when people bring up 'drugs' and then thats over. It seems a risky thing to ask.. :/

I guess we could meet for a drink near her place, and then push for going back to her place to see that thing we we were talking about, and try the 'fun and dangerous' angle.

I haven't told her what we're going to do yet, so I can still set up any of these ideas. What do you guys reccommend? This logistics shit is giving me nerves, so I would really apreciate some advice, just so I can calm down a bit and know that this is not mission impossible.

Post: #18

I used to bang girls on friends floors, couches, under a blanket at the park, sleeping bags in the woods, tents, and my parents backyard after dark (careful with that one). Looking back, I'd say go buy a tent and bang away in the mountains or a campground.

Post: #19

Thanks all great options. I keep a blanket in my car, maybe i'll add a tent as well haha. However this all seems a bit too much for a first date don't you think? It seems a little out there, maybe a picnic as a first date could work. But I'd rather stick to what I know and go out for a drink or something.

I don't know how to transition getting a drink somewhere into banging outside, in my car, at hers or mine. I've not done the bait dropping idea successfully before, I normally just go back to theirs with no bait, unless sex with me counts as bait. I will try hard to make sure there is some bait to go back to hers, but its very difficult as girls generally have nothing interesting about them, what are you gonna do? pretend to be interested in her stuffed doll collection or shoes? fuck that.

Post: #20

(07-12-2015 02:14 PM)RedPillUK Wrote:  I have just set up a date with a girl that probably lives with her parents, this is a common problem for me as well as I'm currently living at home as well. Not only that this girl lives about 30mins away from me.

I like the idea of just taking girls home late at night, but when they live far away, it might be less likely they'll flake if I come and meet them close to where they live.

That then leaves me with two options, take them back to their place or back to my car. Or possibly a third option a 30minute drive to mine, but that's not really likely.

Does anyone here actually have success doing any of these things? I've been thinking, maybe just invite her for a smoke in my car, and then try and push for the bang there. Although a lot of girls act all fucking crazy when people bring up 'drugs' and then thats over. It seems a risky thing to ask.. :/

I guess we could meet for a drink near her place, and then push for going back to her place to see that thing we we were talking about, and try the 'fun and dangerous' angle.

I haven't told her what we're going to do yet, so I can still set up any of these ideas. What do you guys reccommend? This logistics shit is giving me nerves, so I would really apreciate some advice, just so I can calm down a bit and know that this is not mission impossible.

I'm a grown up, so I don't really deal with these issues anymore.

But the real key to logistical issues is not "where are we gonna fuck", but rather, "how bad this girl want to fuck me".

If you're on the date, you're yapping in her ear, maybe a kiss on the neck, maybe a forearm brushes the nipples, and she's really starting to mug you down in a dark corner - if she wants you - SHE'LL MAKE IT HAPPEN.

So you can just get a wee bit of privacy, and she'll slide the g-string to the side and let you in.

WE'RE ALL ANIMALS. Keep that in mind.

Teenagers manage to bang at school, in cars, behind bleachers, on beaches, in pubs, in parking lots - the sexual energy and hormones are out of control.

Keep that in mind.

WIA

Post: #21

Yeah thats true.. this stuff really was never a problem when I was a teenager, I'll stop overthinking things.

as for "I'm a grown up, so I don't really deal with these issues anymore."

I get what you're trying to say Mr Grown Up Person Sir, but I'm living rent free and have made a large music room where I teach, so until I've built my business and saved up some money I'm stuck at my parent's house. I know most people will still see me as a child, that bugs me and theres nothing I can do about it until I move out, I know, I don't need any more reminders I need to move out! I think about it a lot!

Post: #22

I banged a solid amount of girls in college while living at home, if she wants it, you can make it happen ANYWHERE. Certainly she'll let you kiss her in public? Just escalate from there. Also, a lot of girls LOVE the excitement of a public bang

Though I will say, you do lose out on the easy "just sleep here" bangs