Post: #1

Just havent had the desire much at all lately, and its starting to worry me. Last girl i banged was about 3 weeks ago. Now, I just dont have much of a drive to fuck again..

I've got a few potentially DTF girls that Im not pursuing. This is how I know something isnt right..

Anyone experience something similar? How did you get over it?

Post: #2

You on NoFap?

Post: #3

Has your life changed in some way in the last month or so? More stress, change in diet and other environmental factors could explain a sudden change.

If nothing, then start looking into libido increasing protocols, which might not be a bad idea to look into anyway.

Post: #4

take a break. lock in your lifestyle(sleep, exercise, mental engagement), check your drinking. break free from it all with a weekend away somewhere by yourself. when I am run down from working this happens.

Post: #5

All of the usual factors: sleep, stress, nutrition, exercise.

Anecdotally, I find when I drink a lot of water my sex drive shoots up ridiculously. Figure out how much water you're supposed to drink daily and aim for that or a little higher excluding food sources. Be careful with this, I'm not joking when I say you'll be thinking about nothing but fucking every girl you see. Yes, even the elderly secretary behind the desk. Dehydration is a silent boner killer.

Usually the act of talking to women I'm attracted to itself will get me going. Don't make a big deal out of it or try to force anything. You might just need a little time away from the game.

Post: #6

Get some sleep, get rid of stress, eat healthy.

Being out of shape has plummeted my stamina faster than the stock exchange during the great depression.

Post: #7

I've stayed away from booze for a little over two weeks now, and I am noticeably hornier than before. In fact, I was actually quite apathetic when I was drinking regularly.

Post: #8

Eat healthier, limit your masturbation, exercise more, spend more time with positive people.

Take it one step at a time.

Post: #9

I jerk it occasionally, but even before when I was, my sex drive was much higher. So I dont know whats going on now =/

Post: #10

(05-04-2014 05:57 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  I jerk it occasionally, but even before when I was, my sex drive was much higher. So I dont know whats going on now =/

Can you provide more data, please?

How old are you?

How is the last month is different from the previous six?

Your daily routine, sleep patterns, diet and workout schedule?

Tobacco, alcohol, coffee and other drugs use?

General stress levels, problems at work, in relationships with others, existential problems?

You already got some generic answers to the generic question but it is impossible to give any worthwhile advice on the basis of "I have low sex drive now that I didn't before" only.

b

Post: #11

You've got to recalibrate your life and priorities. I would suggest rediscovering your own interests (reading, working out, etc.), and the rest will follow suit.

I similarly got down in the dumps (and the winter certainly didn't help) a few months back. But, that's not an excuse. You have to hone in on what's important to making yourself a better man.

At the end of Voltaire's Candide, after literally traveling across the world and suffering many trials and tribulations, the main character is told, "Il faut cultiver son jardin." It's necessary to cultivate your garden. Your garden is your essence as a man, and how you define your existence. Take some time to work on what really motivates you, and you'll be out of this rut in no time.

Post: #12

Eat more meat. Eat less sugar. Take more zinc. Drink more water. Take a shot of ACV once in a while. Get more sleep.

Post: #13

I find my libido wanes when taking allergy medication (this spring has been rough). Staying on top of my sleep and exercise has helped.

Post: #14

I'll have to reiterate what many on this thread have already said. In order to keep up your sex drive and look forward to sex, you have to be in the right frame of mind.

It's kind of similar to being out of work or out of school for a while and you know you need to get back in the groove. Stress must be eliminated; you must be comfortable in your own body.

The best ways to do this, as aforementioned by multiple posters, would be to exercise, pick up your favorite hobbies, hang out with your friends. Be happy. Because although you can get laid while feeling like shit with some girl you don't give a fuck about, nothing's better than getting laid because you're self-satisfied and deserve to.

-R