Post: #1

I'm at around 250 cold approaches- one thing I've learned is to not fear rejection and I agree with Roosh that after doing 3 or so approaches I feel warmed up and am ready to do more (probably up to 10 in an outing).
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Whos done more than 10 approaches in an outing??????????????

Post: #2

Me, when I'm on a roll, I will just approach every lizard that I am attracted to that is not obviously with a man.

I did 30 approaches one night in a club in Oakville, Ontario and got 1 out of 30 (a white lizard in her 40s lol).

I did about 15 in an all South East Asian club in Woodbridge, Ontario and got 0 out of 15.

Did about 15 or more on South Beach, Miami and got one solid (a black Jamerican lizard from Philly).

As Christian Mcqueen and Gio say, just enjoy the process!

Altogether, it could be 500 or higher..especially posted up in high volume areas..

Post: #3

6-10 approaches in my usual session before i get tired. finding 10 really hot girls can take hours pounding the streets.

Post: #4

Overall, no clue. I've copied Roosh's metric: Basically I aim to do 10 approaches a night provided I don't pull or have a long ass set where I attempt to pull before I get to 10. This doesn't include group sets opened by my wings where I have to occupy. I mostly go to nightclubs and do this sober.

The most I've ever opened in one session was either 20 girls in daygame a couple years back almost all direct, or NYE at a music festival when I approached on turbo mode non-stop whacked out on alcohol and MDMA until I got laid.

Post: #5

I don't couldn't count my approaches, because I am always Approaching.

Lesson 1 in game: ALWAYS BE APPROACHING

Post: #6

Average club night - at least 10, and I try to spend around 1-1,5 hours with the most receptive chick out of a bunch, which builds connection which for me I observed is an absolute must in Warsaw if I want to push successfully things further.
Recently I go out totally sober, or 1-2 beers maximum. Used to need much more alcohol in blood earlier years.


Started working on my daygame.

Post: #7

'Career' wise over 1,500 and probably more.

Average night maybe 5-7. I have an inane sense of who's DTF, so I approach less then I did in college and have a good pull rate.

Post: #8

8,675,309

Post: #9

1000-2000

Post: #10

(04-13-2014 04:40 PM)A_CLizzy Wrote:  I don't couldn't count my approaches, because I am always Approaching.

Lesson 1 in game: ALWAYS BE APPROACHING

Post: #11

All up including pre game, possibly 90ish. Since the start of last summer (December), possibly just over 30.

I've been pretty sluggish but I'm really seeing changes especially caring less about rejection and being more comfortable in my own skin. I still have hangups from time to time over limiting beliefs but it's all a practice thing.

Post: #12

over a 1000 daygame approaches, possibly close to 1500 in total, I approach a lot less more than I used to, I think I have knack of knowing who is DTF now, I'm not yet sure how to actually write down what it is 'i know' when it comes down to that feeling of whose DTF, just seems right every time.

Post: #13

Thousands. I am with the above poster, if a girl doesn't want to return eye contact or a smile I usually don't bother. However, that can be overcome by going in there like a grenade- with or without 'checking' with smile/eye contact.

Post: #14

A ton of approaches in my life, especially when I travel...

I am approaching a lot this week .. in the street, at universities.. not even any nightlife approaches because I've been out with girls the last two nights

I think I did 12 approaches this week
Out of those 12..
10 approaches in the day:
4 girls gave me their number..
4 girls showed little interest in continuing the conversation.. (3 of those were street approaches) (including one who was a mega bitch her response to my opener was "...and?" lol whatacunt .. another was interested with her body language but I think was late for something or uncomfortable stopping to talk to me when I asked such a lame thing "where's a bookstore nearby?")
2 girls were very beautiful and we had a really nice conversation for 5+ minutes, but they ended up being married/engaged... the interaction of just making a beautiful girl laugh for 5 minutes is better than anything else I'd be able to do in that time anyway

2 approaches at night:
both led to sex (one same night, one the following night)

Post: #15

I've done hundreds of approaches. Maybe 500 or so.

It helps living in a big, crowded city so you can do rapid fire. Plus, you can basically hit "reset" every couple of minutes when a whole new wave of people is in front of you so you don't get blown out by negative social proof since the fresh crowd didn't see you bomb earlier.

Back when I lived in San Francisco I would seriously open every cute girl within radius. It didn't matter if she was with her friends, a guy, her family, eating dinner. I forced myself to be totally shameless.

I even had a medical marijuana card. I would get utterly toasted around 5pm and take a shower to wash off the scent. Then I'd walk to the subway and chat up every cute girl on the street. Then every cute girl on the train platform. Then every cute girl on the train, etc. By the time I made it to my Brazilian Jiu Jitsu class, I'd probably talked to 15 girls and got 5 numbers with potential.

On a side note, smoking potent, medical grade pot and then rapping with hot girls can give you mini anxiety attacks. Not recommended. But I figured if I could put myself through that and work through a high level of physical discomfort, I could handle anything. I was right but I don't know if it's because of loading myself up like that or in spite of it. Anyway.

I got rejected a lot but I thank that period of my career for giving me balls of steel and the ability to think on my feet. San Francisco girls are generally obnoxious and self-important, so I really had to learn to spar.

It's pretty awesome the resourcefulness you can find within yourself when you put yourself on the spot.

Post: #16

It depends what you consider an approach

If it's actually trying to get a girl I would say 1,500+
If you consider an approach just talking to a girl and not trying to holla then 3,000+

Post: #17

In my entire gaming life? Probably around 200. In a night? Depends on where/who obviously, but I'd say a good night I'll go for two. Then I like letting the sluts get drunk and come to me.

Post: #18

if you do 3 a day you will be at 1000 in a year

Post: #19

Son I be living in Alberta, all my approaches be cold.




...over a 1000.

Post: #20

i probably done over 200 approaches.

i feel after 1 or 2 rejections, i feel pretty damn good.

Post: #21

Night game cold approaches in hundreds. Day game = zero. I really need to grow some fucking balls.

Post: #22

Probably thousands.

Post: #23

I don't count but I Approach like a machine, I don't approach as much as i used to because in this journey you get better at selecting your targets who will be responsive to your game and approach less.

In a single Day game or Night Game session I have approached a maximum of 40 some approaches.

When I'm in target rich area 10 approaches may come with in a hr or 2-3.

I think I have said this before but I get a high from Cold Approaching in broad Day light , I am addicted to this shit .......

Post: #24

Lothario-
40 colds in one session is intense.
How many hours did that take?

i think my record is 14 approaches in a day. I'm an introvert- but I will have to go to a super packed mega club and try to do 50. Honestly the back wards acting Southern girls I live around are sticks in the mud. I think a hopping beach in California during Summer time like Santa Minica or Huntington Beach, ormManhattan beach and you could do 100'approaches in a day.

New idea- 100 approach challenge. It would be total spam/shotgun fest but what an intense way to spend a day. Next time I'm in LA- I'm going all out! California girls have fun these country girls act offended. Culturally its the German pragmatism be the Boring and stifled British honor culture of the South. If it were warfare it'd be guerrilla warfare vs lining up in a formation with canons on each side of the field-clearly we know which is a better way to go.