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A lesson on being too sociable.
Now, I know many of you recommend being sociable in general ETC ETC...however

Many guys, as the pussy thirsty hyenas that they are, will no doubt scheme against you. Many guys in my classes are now attempting to use me to get close to the girls that they want to nail by either A) getting into every conversation I have with X girl or B) by cockblocking I.E. "hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?" or "Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

Now this can happen to you regardless of the setting, be it classroom, bar, rave, or nightclub.

So while you're out there having a good time, talking to everyone, I know many guys do that as a warm up...make sure you don't make yourself too inviting or else get ready for a bunch of pussy thirsty guys rushing you as if you were Antonija Misura(if you don't know who that is, please do your dick a favor and google her) who just happened to be naked, unconscious, and covered in honey.
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Discretion brah
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I hear you McCoy. But I'm at a loss as to how you could ever avoid this in any given social setting. What you describe is absolutely to a rule what blue-piller thirsty guys do. Even in a place where you are solo and know no one this will happen.

I agree with you it is annoying and tiresome. I agree it can also be cockblocky. But I think your only choice is to subtly AMOG them and try some play off the fruits of that.
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(04-10-2014 05:42 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  Now, I know many of you recommend being sociable in general ETC ETC...however

Many guys, as the pussy thirsty hyenas that they are, will no doubt scheme against you. Many guys in my classes are now attempting to use me to get close to the girls that they want to nail by either A) getting into every conversation I have with X girl or B) by cockblocking I.E. "hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?" or "Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

Now this can happen to you regardless of the setting, be it classroom, bar, rave, or nightclub.

So while you're out there having a good time, talking to everyone, I know many guys do that as a warm up...make sure you don't make yourself too inviting or else get ready for a bunch of pussy thirsty guys rushing you as if you were Antonija Misura(if you don't know who that is, please do your dick a favor and google her) who just happened to be naked, unconscious, and covered in honey.

"hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?"

1) What are you, my mom?

2) What are you, my stalker?

Then proceed with the conversation you were having, or walk away.

"Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

1) That's right, and your sister/mom/friend is next!

2) I talk to girls every day and make them smile. What do you want, for me to stand outside their window and creep? Get out of here.

You're not getting creative enough with your responses. You misunderstand these things as negative. They are in fact positive if you react to them appropriately.

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(04-10-2014 06:13 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  
(04-10-2014 05:42 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  Now, I know many of you recommend being sociable in general ETC ETC...however

Many guys, as the pussy thirsty hyenas that they are, will no doubt scheme against you. Many guys in my classes are now attempting to use me to get close to the girls that they want to nail by either A) getting into every conversation I have with X girl or B) by cockblocking I.E. "hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?" or "Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

Now this can happen to you regardless of the setting, be it classroom, bar, rave, or nightclub.

So while you're out there having a good time, talking to everyone, I know many guys do that as a warm up...make sure you don't make yourself too inviting or else get ready for a bunch of pussy thirsty guys rushing you as if you were Antonija Misura(if you don't know who that is, please do your dick a favor and google her) who just happened to be naked, unconscious, and covered in honey.

"hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?"

1) What are you, my mom?

2) What are you, my stalker?

Then proceed with the conversation you were having, or walk away.

"Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

1) That's right, and your sister/mom/friend is next!

2) I talk to girls every day and make them smile. What do you want, for me to stand outside their window and creep? Get out of here.

You're not getting creative enough with your responses. You misunderstand these things as negative. They are in fact positive if you react to them appropriately.

Classic deflection and defeat, always with a smirk of course haha
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RE: A lesson on being too sociable.
(04-10-2014 06:02 PM)redpillrage33 Wrote:  I hear you McCoy. But I'm at a loss as to how you could ever avoid this in any given social setting. What you describe is absolutely to a rule what blue-piller thirsty guys do. Even in a place where you are solo and know no one this will happen.

I agree with you it is annoying and tiresome. I agree it can also be cockblocky. But I think your only choice is to subtly AMOG them and try some play off the fruits of that.

You get guys you dont know riding alongside you and stealing/cockblocking when solo?
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"*turn to cockblocking pussy beta* You caught me man, I like meeting people. They interest me and I'm not exactly shy. What's your name? *big smile and shake* nice to meet ya. *turn back to girl* Now where were we?"

I just try to agree, neutralize, and ignore when someone outright attacks to cock block.

A third party shit test, treat it as such.

Unless it makes me mad, which is typically if a girl does it in a rude manner...
Recent example where I actually got to use a line someone on here had posted.

Party at my place, I go to smoke hookah next to a girl who's blown me a few times and her friend I don't know that's on the other side of her.
I say some sort of greeting to both as I sit... and right after I sit I hear "are you fucking kidding me? Is this seriously happening?" In the bitchiest tone ever in response to my being so audacious as to sit by her friend, that knows me.
(Bet she has a tumblr and would consider this sexual harassment)

Immediately turned, locked eyes with bitch, and said
"Was that necessary? Hi I'm LaserBear, welcome to my house. You seem like a lovely person, did your mother teach you those manners?"

Brief silence and then laughter from her friend and randoms in the room as she gets up and leaves.

Enemy neutralized.
04-10-2014 06:28 PM
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By the very post that you wrote I pretty much already have a clear picture of how you would be in real life: the life of the party guy!! Since you're in school ( I'm assuming university), you have a constant access to the not yet fat-pre career western woman. And by lurking on this forum for about 2 months, I'm sure you have game!!

Hate to say it, but in my Beta days I would have cockblocked you too!! By some circumstances, you've escape the beta mentality as a young men going to school right now. You're that guy that seems to have look + game on a high level. Great for you, but get ready for the hate since it will come from the guys jealous of you hard.

Be very careful not to catch a Rape Case from a dumb bitch!! Since you seem to be a top dog in a school setting: 1) DO YOUR DIRT BY YOUR LONELY and 2) DON'T TELL AND BRAG ON PUSSY that you're getting.
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RE: A lesson on being too sociable.
No such thing to me. The more people I talk to the better my game is. If some guys are getting annoying and latching on to you, just walk away. They'll get it.

Problem is being too nice to guys. Bring a guy you barely know with you to talk to a group of girls and he's all but guaranteed to fuck it up. I had this cost me 2 notches recently and it fucking sucks. Make friends with the guys, but unless it's clear they have game do not let them near your targets.
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RE: A lesson on being too sociable.
Foolsgo1d, in response to your query, if I'm having any kind of success and she has an orbiter (or wannabe orbiter), then absolutely that's happened. More than once.

I think the deflection/AMOG advice given by others above is the way to go and is how I try to handle it.
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I'm not good at comebacks, so when this happens to me I just pretend the guy doesn't exist and keep talking to the girl.
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RE: A lesson on being too sociable.
(04-10-2014 06:13 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  
(04-10-2014 05:42 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  Now, I know many of you recommend being sociable in general ETC ETC...however

Many guys, as the pussy thirsty hyenas that they are, will no doubt scheme against you. Many guys in my classes are now attempting to use me to get close to the girls that they want to nail by either A) getting into every conversation I have with X girl or B) by cockblocking I.E. "hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?" or "Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

Now this can happen to you regardless of the setting, be it classroom, bar, rave, or nightclub.

So while you're out there having a good time, talking to everyone, I know many guys do that as a warm up...make sure you don't make yourself too inviting or else get ready for a bunch of pussy thirsty guys rushing you as if you were Antonija Misura(if you don't know who that is, please do your dick a favor and google her) who just happened to be naked, unconscious, and covered in honey.

"hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?"

1) What are you, my mom?

2) What are you, my stalker?

Then proceed with the conversation you were having, or walk away.

"Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

1) That's right, and your sister/mom/friend is next!

2) I talk to girls every day and make them smile. What do you want, for me to stand outside their window and creep? Get out of here.

You're not getting creative enough with your responses. You misunderstand these things as negative. They are in fact positive if you react to them appropriately.

See I tried that at first, but then they started moving/sitting next to me acting like we're bros. Ignoring them doesn't work as they jump into every convo and talk to the girl(s). I've seen this bullshit happen at parties too.

Most of these guys are of the "hood/ghetto" species, I don't know how/why they go to college but I'm not trying to fuck with these guys. You know how they are when they are in groups.

I'm just trying to give people a heads up about being too sociable because you'll make some "friends" you don't want.
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RE: A lesson on being too sociable.
I don't ever encounter this. Maybe lift a little bit and get somewhat more "scary" looking. You want people to be comfortable around you, but it sounds like you're letting dudes get a bit too comfortable.
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The solution is to know how to handle them when they com, not to adapt because they are too.

It's the same thing as with mother hens.. you can learn how handle them and groups in general or you can avoid it and seek solo girls. Good luck with the 2nd option.
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You don't look intimidating.

Dudes don't see you as a threat.

Rectify that.

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(04-11-2014 08:58 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  You don't look intimidating.

Dudes don't see you as a threat.

Rectify that.

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Agreed.

To the OP: The other half of this is, why don't you isolate your target and move her elsewhere? Isolate/escalate is a classic tenet of game that perhaps you're not utilizing enough.

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(04-10-2014 06:32 PM)redpillrage33 Wrote:  Foolsgo1d, in response to your query, if I'm having any kind of success and she has an orbiter (or wannabe orbiter), then absolutely that's happened. More than once.

I think the deflection/AMOG advice given by others above is the way to go and is how I try to handle it.

AH I see, I've had this before but they have never come close to me or the girl. They do however become really sulky when we're kissing and if the girl leaves you for a little while there is always the chance he will jump in.

The one time I did have competition for a girl and I realised she was welcoming said competition I just went and found someone else. He did not get anywhere with her either.
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(04-10-2014 05:42 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  Now, I know many of you recommend being sociable in general ETC ETC...however

Many guys, as the pussy thirsty hyenas that they are, will no doubt scheme against you. Many guys in my classes are now attempting to use me to get close to the girls that they want to nail by either A) getting into every conversation I have with X girl or B) by cockblocking I.E. "hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?" or "Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

Now this can happen to you regardless of the setting, be it classroom, bar, rave, or nightclub.

So while you're out there having a good time, talking to everyone, I know many guys do that as a warm up...make sure you don't make yourself too inviting or else get ready for a bunch of pussy thirsty guys rushing you as if you were Antonija Misura(if you don't know who that is, please do your dick a favor and google her) who just happened to be naked, unconscious, and covered in honey.

I don't get it, this is win-win across the board...

Your not going to bang all those women, if the guy is cool WHY NOT introduce him to chicks? The whole vibe sounds selfish as if your trying to hoard women for yourself. #Greed

I say this because way back people only knew me as the guy who has a blast and happened to always be with a bunch of different tall women.

Other men aren't beneath you, there on your own path. You never know who your interacting with.

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(04-12-2014 11:51 PM)Distant Light Wrote:  
(04-10-2014 05:42 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  Now, I know many of you recommend being sociable in general ETC ETC...however

Many guys, as the pussy thirsty hyenas that they are, will no doubt scheme against you. Many guys in my classes are now attempting to use me to get close to the girls that they want to nail by either A) getting into every conversation I have with X girl or B) by cockblocking I.E. "hey man, I see you talking up every girl, are you some sort of player?" or "Dang look at McCoy talking to a new girl everyday!"

Now this can happen to you regardless of the setting, be it classroom, bar, rave, or nightclub.

So while you're out there having a good time, talking to everyone, I know many guys do that as a warm up...make sure you don't make yourself too inviting or else get ready for a bunch of pussy thirsty guys rushing you as if you were Antonija Misura(if you don't know who that is, please do your dick a favor and google her) who just happened to be naked, unconscious, and covered in honey.

I don't get it, this is win-win across the board...

Your not going to bang all those women, if the guy is cool WHY NOT introduce him to chicks? The whole vibe sounds selfish as if your trying to hoard women for yourself. #Greed

I say this because way back people only knew me as the guy who has a blast and happened to always be with a bunch of different tall women.

Other men aren't beneath you, there on your own path. You never know who your interacting with.

I wouldn't ever want to hang out with a cockblock personally and I am trying to hoard all the women Angel

I don't think I'm above anyone but the way it started was that guy X would try to bang the girl I'm trying to bang. I think "plenty of fish in the sea" only to have him or other guys follow me to either A boost their value by talking to all these girls or B try to use me to bang these girls.

If I was at least asked "hey, I want to bang her. Put in a good word for me?" I would have no problem with it. But to try and make me look bad and to jump into every conversation I have with a girl I have like we're friends is just baffling.

My overall point is that, you don't want to (at least I don't) be friendly enough for hordes of guys to come up to you and stay there when you're talking to a girl. It also makes isolation even harder. I fail to see how this is a win win
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Sounds like these guys just don't respect you. I see 2 possibilities: you're a scrawny, pimple faced nerd who looks like he would lose in a fight with Steve Urkel (doubt it), or you're not being as friendly as you think. You're doing something to piss these guys off or make yourself look like a tool or they wouldn't do that.
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