Post: #1

I'm the guy that got into game because I wanted to be able to attract "the woman" of my choosing. But as a consequence of learning about game, I was also exposed to Red Pill ideology. As time went on and as I took more trips to eastern Europe, the paradigm shift that is the Red Pill began to takes its toll. In the ongoing process of self improvement I've had certain realizations along the way which have allowed me to stamp out beta/blue pill beliefs and behaviors. Today I had one of those realizations:

All my notches are just a symptom of trying to find "the one".

Every single girl I've ever banged has been filtered through my screening process of her potentially becoming a lifelong mate. I believe this is of particular significance because even as Red Pill as I think I am, I'm still unable to completely shake this "wife-ing" mentality so that I can bang with impunity like so many of you guys are able to do. I feel this severely inhibits my ability to improve at game, but there is some type of morality conflict in my head which is preventing me from moving forward. Fact is I want to build a harem and spin plates but can't shake this last vestige of beta programming.

Post: #2

Go out and bang some broad you know you would never marry. Stop filtering so hard. Set the precedent. You won't think your way out of this. You can only fuck your way out.

Post: #3

I don't think this is beta at all. Forget what us assholes on the internet are telling you. If you want a wife, go out and get a wife. That's fucking alpha.

(04-02-2014 12:53 PM)SheriffBart Wrote:  Go out and bang some broad you know you would never marry. Stop filtering so hard. Set the precedent. You won't think your way out of this. You can only fuck your way out.

Disagree, I used to fuck anything and now I'm way more selective. My game has gotten better despite that because when you're pursuing a girl you actually want, your motivation to continue the interaction is 100x higher.

Post: #4

I think deep down inside, we as men all want to find a sweet, loving woman to settle down with, provided we are emotionally stable and healthy. It's just that it's difficult to find one these days.

Post: #5

(04-02-2014 11:50 AM)NomadofEU Wrote:  "...because even as Red Pill as I think I am, I'm still unable to completely shake this "wife-ing" mentality so that I can bang with impunity like so many of you guys are able to do. I feel this severely inhibits my ability to improve at game, but there is some type of morality conflict in my head which is preventing me from moving forward."

Part of game in this day and age is trying to navigate today's fucked up socio-sexual relations. Any other time it would be natural for a guy to do some "filtering," in the back of his head. You don't want to completely throw that out and become a cynic at too young an age.

Keep in mind Roosh's Love Equation.

http://www.rooshv.com/the-love-equation

Post: #6

Marriage is fine but kids are GREAT. I'm a firm believer that the latter is both satisfying as a man and also makes you a better man in the long run.

I don't personally think a man should get married because he thinks marriage in and of itself is a goal. That's the wrong attitude.

Take care of yourself first.

I took care of myself much later.

BUT I realized that for me it's more about having a family, providing for them and raising my son and daughter to be a good man and woman.

What I mean is - Fuck marrying for love. For me, it doesn't make sense.