Post: #101

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Post: #102

(03-24-2014 10:14 AM)cardguy Wrote:  Humans are the only species who can put their own interests before that of evolution.

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Evolution is not our friend.

But evolution is the big elephant in the room one has to deal with it or make a deal with it. A bad calculation can cause pain.

Post: #103

On New Year's 2013, I went to a party and met up with a young dude in a wheelchair. On top of that, he wasn't particularly handsome and was chubby from (obviously) not getting too much exercise.

This kid had more game and confidence than many non-handicapped, handsome, fit people I've met. He was flirting with girls, teasing them, escalating physically. Girls ate it up. I watched him ask a girl to come back to his apartment, which was on another floor. She went with him to hang out.

I'm confident they didn't fuck, as I know her personally. I'm pretty sure he knew his odds were not good. But he still tried - and I have no doubt that he has succeeded before. He had a great attitude.

What was your excuse again?

Post: #104

Actually I had this happen a week or so ago... Most of the girls I see around here are very mediocre and make me feel sort of meh but I was checking out from a sporting goods store and the cashier was this early 20's girl with a really stunning face. (Where you see it and say, "wow" to yourself). We had a little convo and she had such a bubbly, positive personality. I felt an attractive pull I haven't in a long time. Afterwards I had the thought that in all likelihood such a girl is probably well beyond my reach, and to be honest that thought did make me sad... But it was just a thought, and the moment passed.

Post: #105

(03-28-2014 11:33 AM)americanbk Wrote:  On New Year's 2013, I went to a party and met up with a young dude in a wheelchair. On top of that, he wasn't particularly handsome and was chubby from (obviously) not getting too much exercise.

This kid had more game and confidence than many non-handicapped, handsome, fit people I've met. He was flirting with girls, teasing them, escalating physically. Girls ate it up. I watched him ask a girl to come back to his apartment, which was on another floor. She went with him to hang out.

I'm confident they didn't fuck, as I know her personally. I'm pretty sure he knew his odds were not good. But he still tried - and I have no doubt that he has succeeded before. He had a great attitude.

What was your excuse again?

I've heard stories like this before. I think this is what is happening in these cases, they are in the harmless zone:

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/harmless.htm

It similar to how flamboyant gays can act hyperconfident around women and get sexual with them and grab their boobs and asses and the girls think it's so flattering. Same dynamic.