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Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
Man decides he has had enough and initiates guerrilla warfare on fatties. What does our brave fat-shaming commando do? The relevant portion:
Quote:"You got up right before the Stony Brook stop and said something in a low voice to the woman next to you. You exited the train and she burst into tears. I asked her what you said -- and in between sobs she goes: "He said 'Have some respect for yourself and lose some weight.'"
I guess this is all it takes.
Yes, on some level this guy is a bully and a dick. This fattie was, to all appearances, minding her own business before the this guy launched his JDAMs of truth. But I can't help but think that if more guys had this attitude, if more guys were willingly to fly off the handle like this women would be a lot easier to deal with (and look at) these days.
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
As men, we should bond together and elect one in fifty men to make it their full-time job to rebalance the scales of justice.
Job duties would include:
*Getting dates with potentially gold diggers, letting her rack up a huge bill and then insisting on going Dutch.
*Approaching fatties in public and providing weight loss educational materials.
*Carrying a police scanner and responding to the repeated DV calls at the same addresses again and again, to offer abuse escape assistance and then ridiculing the women for choosing to stay with an abuser.
*Verbally assault women being disrespectful in public to the men the are dating/married to.
*Hand out pamphlets in the area of residence of fall rape claimees.
*Hand out educational materials about The Wall and The Carousel.
*Accost and mock women who appear in public without suitable make-up, wearing sweatpants and with otherwise lazy appearances.
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
I was at a. bar last night and someone brought a cake for a bday party. The bar was clearing out and I was sitting by the cake and this giant fat girl moseys over with this big grin and asks me if it's mine and if she can have some.
They are fat because they eat too damn much.
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
why is the title of that article calling the guy misogynist? I cant see any mention of the guy discussing her gender..
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
(03-23-2014 10:31 AM)frenchcorporation Wrote: why is the title of that article calling the guy misogynist? I cant see any mention of the guy discussing her gender..
A man said something a woman didn't like. Ergo, he's a misogynist. /FemLogic
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
I don't like fat chicks, I think it is obvious by some of my other comments, but I wouldn't go out of my way to say something to a stranger minding her own business.
Sounds like the kind of guy that I wouldn't like in general. And might throw a few punches at, since he seems like he is full of himself and probably more mouth than muscle.
Trust me I have my share of clowning a stupid chick for getting out of line. It is fun and enjoyable.
But the guy didn't even stick around to deal with the counter comments, if she could manage any through her tears.
I think the goal is to be men and not cowards.
I don't think praising bullying/cowardly behavior is manly.
Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the post, I am imperfect and found some humor in it. But I don't think you should go running around taking a shot at someone and scurrying off. At least stick around for the counter punch if you are going to strike out of nowhere. Granted, we have no idea if the fat chick did anything earlier to draw this attack.
But don't get me wrong, I don't like fat chicks.
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
(03-23-2014 07:12 AM)randomForest Wrote: Man decides he has had enough and initiates guerrilla warfare on fatties. What does our brave fat-shaming commando do? The relevant portion:
Quote:"You got up right before the Stony Brook stop and said something in a low voice to the woman next to you. You exited the train and she burst into tears. I asked her what you said -- and in between sobs she goes: "He said 'Have some respect for yourself and lose some weight.'"
I guess this is all it takes.
Yes, on some level this guy is a bully and a dick. This fattie was, to all appearances, minding her own business before the this guy launched his JDAMs of truth. But I can't help but think that if more guys had this attitude, if more guys were willingly to fly off the handle like this women would be a lot easier to deal with (and look at) these days.
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Hahahaha, he used encouragement shaming!
Quote:We must use encouragement-shaming.
For example, when talking to a friend, family, or, god forbid, lover, about their fat problem, encourage them to lose weight while condescending them:
“You deserve a better life.”
“There’s no reason to treat yourself like that.”
“You should feel happy with yourself.”
“Don’t let others think less of you.”
Notice the fatty is made more depressed about his/her condition while given the opportunity to redeem themselves by losing weight. Encouragement-shaming is a devious psychological manipulation that works to make a person feel as if they could be superior provided they make sufficient changes to their behavior.
And yes, it is devastating, as seen from the amount of tears and butthurt produced by the fatty who was encouragement shamed.
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
How much you wanna bet that the woman who wrote the Craigslist missed connections ad is actually the fatty who was shamed?
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
I agree with some of the above posters that going out of your way to shame a fat chick is just rude. And even though the word "bullying" is overused, I think this falls into that category. And beyond that, you're feeding their need for drama.
In life, you're gonna have to deal with fat women (and men, for that matter) enough. It's usually unpleasant. Since they get little social interaction, they thrive on making everyone else's life a drama -- something I've discussed on here before.
If you want office gossip and insanity, just start giving the fatties at work the time of day. If you want to NOT get a date in high school, be seen with porkers.
We'd do better here to advise men on:
1). How to avoid fat women, or fat people in general.
2). How to get them out of your life or (metaphorically) slap them back when they're sarcastic and nasty to you -- which is usually the case.
I've dealt with too many angry fat female salesclerks and nasty, jealous, bloated, porky male relatives to ever want to go out of my way to deal with a fat person.
(As in the past, I want to make a note of what I mean by fattie here. I'm talking about "lifer fatties," not middle aged men and women who might be ex-jocks or cheerleaders who put on pounds at 40 or 50. These types are usually pretty normal and cool. It's the "I never went to a school dance" crowd you need to avoid.)
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
Unfortunately, the rebuttal Missed Connection got pulled from Craigslist already. In it, a guy who claims to have been on the train and witnessed the entire thing pens an equally damning post that described the events leading up to the comment.
To summarize from memory:
1. Fat chick tries to push her way onto the train as soon as the doors open, without regard to people exiting.
2. Fat chick immediately forces her way into half-seat between the "misogynist fat-shamer" ("MFS-Hero" herein) and a frail, older Asian woman, then makes rude comment.
3. Fat chick pulls out portable game player, plays with sound on during train ride.
4. MFS-Hero asks her politely to turn sound off.
5. Fat chick responds by intentionally turning sound up as loud as it will go, makes show of ignoring him.
6. Asian woman is clearly uncomfortable by actions of fat chick.
7. MFS-Hero gets off train, tells fat skank what's up.
Butthurt ensues.
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RE: Boston man soulkills a fattie, pandemonium ensues
^^ Based on what lurker is saying, fuck what I said in my original post (luckily I mentioned we had no idea what prompted it).
You don't fuck with older people. I mean she did plenty of other obnoxious things, but generally old people are not causing trouble, they are usually in no condition to deal with conflict and they helped build this country vs the shitheads who take from it now. **Rant off** lol no I don't have an anger issue
Maybe not enough bombs here but you get the point about what should have happened to the fat chick.
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