Post: #1

OK - so I have this coffee shop I frequent a lot. Logistics are an issue here but it's the only one in this town with cute girls.

Setup is tricky as follows - I sit usually in the center and there are 8 tables around it. It's tight and not much space. Today there were 2 cute girls and 6 dudes (some on headphones, some talking, some staring).

I wanted to approach girl with a elderly opener (her laptop) but when I got up for a shot of espresso half the room stared at me and I chickened out. It's so quiet everyone would have heard it. Now not sure how much cockblocking would have gone on.

The girl might have been even more hesitant because of this - hell I'd find an approach on me rough there.

Any good strategies - how do I get the girl to come downstairs (where its louder and more space to talk).

No smoking in this part of the world. The best I came up with was after she gave me some helpful answers hopefully is to invite her for a cup of espresso downstairs - but after just 1-2minutes of talk not much of a chance.

Any good ideas?

Post: #2

Maybe show up at a time it is less busy, right before the rush or during the wind-down before closing so it is more relaxed. You can also take random breaks to walk out front and catch girls coming or going and hit them with something. If this place attracts the chicks you like getting them outside on the sidewalk should be easy.