Post: #26

GTFO. She has clearly not gone over this step of her life and she will probably need time. You're sitting on her bed, alone with her in the room, and she lets you know (non-verbally) that she feels uncomfortable? You're not a sugar daddy / psychologist / girlfriend / name it. You're here for business, and if you're not about to get it, go get it elsewhere.

Just tell her straight out, "I don't have time for those stories. When you're with me, you forget about him". If she doesn't want to, you know what to do.

Post: #27

(10-06-2014 03:06 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  GTFO. She has clearly not gone over this step of her life and she will probably need time. You're sitting on her bed, alone with her in the room, and she lets you know (non-verbally) that she feels uncomfortable? You're not a sugar daddy / psychologist / girlfriend / name it. You're here for business, and if you're not about to get it, go get it elsewhere.

Just tell her straight out, "I don't have time for those stories. When you're with me, you forget about him". If she doesn't want to, you know what to do.

She didn't tell me that on 'the edge of her bed' ....it was a few days later via text.

Post: #28

She was still uncomfortable at this point. You might to want to start dating other girls and just let this one go for a while. If she wants you, she will come back, but make sure to keep her strictly for sex. You don't want a relationship with that kind of girl.