Post: #1

I've been thinking too much about gaming girls in my spare time, and it has affected my productivity as those topics come into my head while in the middle of work I'm doing so my efficiency has dropped in relation to my work(my game is improving but I would rather not at the expense of my work). So what do you guys do to stay focused and create a balance in between work and game(at home and especially in classroom situations when you're focused on the hot girl in the next row of seats who's eye fucking you and not the teacher)?

Post: #2

What I did is creating a clear schedule where I dedicate time to the things I find important, which includes game and improving my game (by reading this forum, reading Roosh's books, working out and of course going out to actually game girls).

If you schedule a block of 2 hours specifically on game/improving game (or more if you can spare the time) for the week days, and maybe a bit more on the weekends, then you know you're gonna spend time on it, which means you can put your mind to rest when you have to focus on other things.

Of course, whenever you happen to see a hot chick at school or somewhere else, you should always approach and go for the number or a date. You should always be able to be flexible with your schedule, but it's still good to make one.


Try it and see if it works for you.

Post: #3

I do have a schedules and set my thoughts in motion but can't seem to prevent my brain from trailing off and day dreaming about game and what I should do next. The schedule is there I just can't find myself working instead of just day dreaming.

Post: #4

How much 'thinking' are you doing compared to the amount of approaching you're doing? The latter should be more than the former. (Edit: Saw your 100 approaches thread so that's moot, just don't spend too much time reading about game as that can be detrimental.)

It's definitely a big time investment, yes I agree. I sent a bunch of messages out online today and now I have several dates this week and feel like I've overextended myself.

I'd suggest getting what needs to get done, done ASAP. Close out all forums, turn your phone off and get to work on whatever it is that you need to work on.

Also, it sounds like you really just need to bust a nut (don't we all?). That's how I get when I haven't gotten off in a few days, but it seems like you're that way all the time haha.

Post: #5

(02-17-2014 10:40 PM)Seth_Rose Wrote:  How much 'thinking' are you doing compared to the amount of approaching you're doing? The latter should be more than the former. (Edit: Saw your 100 approaches thread so that's moot, just don't spend too much time reading about game as that can be detrimental.)

It's definitely a big time investment, yes I agree. I sent a bunch of messages out online today and now I have several dates this week and feel like I've overextended myself.

I'd suggest getting what needs to get done, done ASAP. Close out all forums, turn your phone off and get to work on whatever it is that you need to work on.

Also, it sounds like you really just need to bust a nut (don't we all?). That's how I get when I haven't gotten off in a few days, but it seems like you're that way all the time haha.

This is too true. I'm juggling multiple girls at once(whom I haven't banged) and I see quite a few of them in classes where I flirt more than learn and it's getting to me. Guess I'll go dark for a while then. Better to wake up to 50 texts/messages than screw myself over.

Post: #6

I having a tough time finding a balance with my harem and my bottom bitch.

I think i'll drop a girl or two from my harem just so i can get back on track.
Sometimes you have to sacrifice your short term wants for the long term good.
Skipping workouts is ok once in a while to bang girls but regularly skipping to fuck is gonna have diminishing returns.

It's funny thinking about my days before game and how i wanted desperately to fuck a certain level of girl...I recently hit a plateau and while i feel accomplished in bringing my game up to the highest its ever been the success is empty right now. Maybe when I'm old and grey and my dick doesn't work i'll feel differently about this.