Post: #1

Today I had a weird interaction with a girl. A girl I met through a mutual friend of mine (in my social circle) said something unusual.
I'm known as a guy who dates allot. They view me as a player.

The thing is, I was trying to game this girl and all went well. The conversation, kino etc was going good but at one point she said she needs to know me a little more. I said that I'm impatient. She goes " I need time". At this point I realize that there's something she isn't telling me. So I say "I think you think I trick girls". She says "Exactly! you do. You've had several gfs in short time". "And anyways, You can get 10 others in the time I'll take"

I handled the situation as good as i could. She likes me but isn't following. She doesn't want to be just a notch.

How should I play this?

Post: #2

How do you play this?
You reframe it.

She says she needs to know you more.
You tell her you once wanted to be a painter when you were young.

She tells you you're going too fast.
You smile warmly(genuinely) and tell her you're not going anywhere.

She says you trick girls.
You stare at her blank faced with an eyebrow slightly cocked for a long moment, then walk away. Take obvious pains to avoid her. When she confronts you about it, you tell her you're just looking for real love, and its ok if she doesn't understand.

"And anyway, you can get 10 others .....take"
Be a little cross with her (NOT butthurt angry) and tell her, yes, maybe you can.


See....the problem is...you're gaming fine until confronted bout your supposed player lifestyle.
Then, instead of going with the flow, you revert back to logical behaviour.
You go on the defensive.

That's the scourge of every pickup.

Reframe it. You can do no wrong. Show a little vulnerability if u think she's excessively jumpy.

Post: #3

These are just basic 101 shit-tests. McQueen had a great ROK article on them (it was in the context of testing, but it should translate pretty well).

http://www.returnofkings.com/28049/the-5...nd-to-them

Basically, you can reframe, ignore, agree-and-amplify, or just choose one of the other fancy PUA terms to respond here. Chances are, you haven't lost this battle yet.

Post: #4

Exactly like sharkie said.

Play it cool, don't worry about shit tests. McQueens podcast is also a good thing to listen to.

I was in the same boat until I learned how to deal with shit tests. It takes practice to figure out what works properly, and hell you can have fun with it. I've said some ridiculous shit to girls just to see if/how it works.

Post: #5

She says you trick girls.
You stare at her blank faced with an eyebrow slightly cocked for a long moment, then walk away. Take obvious pains to avoid her. When she confronts you about it, you tell her you're just looking for real love, and its ok if she doesn't understand.

^^^This...Good advice Sharkie...Definitely a shit test but this throws her off her equilibrium because the LAST thing she is looking for you to do is drop the "L'" word. Works extremely well because it debunks her initial belief, and lowers her defenses because now you are relating to a her "language". Note: Watch her body language change instantly.

Proceed with your macking...