Post: #1

I guess I'll put this in the Newbie forum, kind of a basic question.

I've been going after this one girl who's quite good looking and also sweet as sugar. She isn't the "pump and dump" kind of girl. She started off very receptive to me, but now she barely shows any interest when talking to her. She hides behind her friends, and doesn't address me or look at me unless I directly address her. Her personality changed almost overnight- I haven't given her enough substance to friend zone me, either. What do you think is going on? Any way I can get out of/fix it?

Post: #2

Sounds like oneitis bro. Next her. Go approach a couple more girls. You'll eventually forget about her.

Post: #3

(02-10-2014 11:56 PM)CaliforniaSupreme Wrote:  I guess I'll put this in the Newbie forum, kind of a basic question.

I've been going after this one girl who's quite good looking and also sweet as sugar. She isn't the "pump and dump" kind of girl. She started off very receptive to me, but now she barely shows any interest when talking to her. She hides behind her friends, and doesn't address me or look at me unless I directly address her. Her personality changed almost overnight- I haven't given her enough substance to friend zone me, either. What do you think is going on? Any way I can get out of/fix it?

Take her off the pedestal.

You would be surprised at the amount of 'sweet and innocent' girls who want the dick asap.

Regardless of what type of girl you think she is, always proceed with getting the bang first. Then you'll figure out what type of girl she is.

I would place my bet on her having initial attraction to you, then sensed you putting her on a pedestal and put you in the beta orbiters category.

Post: #4

(02-11-2014 12:00 AM)YoungDominican Wrote:  Sounds like oneitis bro. Next her. Go approach a couple more girls. You'll eventually forget about her.

She's only one gumball in the machine, I'm just trying to figure out the mentality of it, prevent it from happening again.

Post: #5

(02-11-2014 12:03 AM)CaliforniaSupreme Wrote:  

(02-11-2014 12:00 AM)YoungDominican Wrote:  Sounds like oneitis bro. Next her. Go approach a couple more girls. You'll eventually forget about her.

She's only one gumball in the machine, I'm just trying to figure out the mentality of it, prevent it from happening again.

The best way to avoid this is to have a Law of Abundance Mentality.

How does one get this practically?

By approaching and having multiple girls on rotation, including your harem and new prospects.

When you have 5 fresh numbers, 3 'dates' lined up and 3 girls in your harem you won't even give her a second thought.

The only way to achieve this is to approach and get out in the trenches.

Post: #6

(02-11-2014 12:07 AM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(02-11-2014 12:03 AM)CaliforniaSupreme Wrote:  

(02-11-2014 12:00 AM)YoungDominican Wrote:  Sounds like oneitis bro. Next her. Go approach a couple more girls. You'll eventually forget about her.

She's only one gumball in the machine, I'm just trying to figure out the mentality of it, prevent it from happening again.

The best way to avoid this is to have a Law of Abundance Mentality.

How does one get this practically?

By approaching and having multiple girls on rotation, including your harem and new prospects.

When you have 5 fresh numbers, 3 'dates' lined up and 3 girls in your harem you won't even give her a second thought.

The only way to achieve this is to approach and get out in the trenches.

Solid information everyone, thank you.
It was just interesting to me because I've never had a girl react like this, very weird. She's still cool with all my friends, but she got cold as a freezer around me.