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RE: Teens abandoning Facebook; old people signing up
As someone who was in High School about two years ago, I could've told anyone who asked that Facebook was gonna be dead soon. At it's peak, Facebook on a Sunday night was where the party was at. EVERYONE would be online at the same time, chatting and posting status updates and whatnot. This was mostly my Sophomore and Junior years. Nowadays, the only people that post statuses on my Facebook are the adults I'm friends with (adults as in the parents of my friends and old teachers I have added) and weird people that still do the "like my status" kind of stuff. You have as good a chance of getting in contact with someone sending an Facebook Message than you would sending an email. Hell, I'd guess you have a better chance sending them snail mail.
A big reason I think this happened was that peoples Facebooks was becoming too much of an accurate representation of themselves. Facebook was everything: your friends, your school, your age, your family, pictures of where you were, where you've been, what you're thinking, your beliefs, your relationship status, etc. It's much easier for people to create constructs of themselves when there are two avenues: Twitter, for your thoughts and Instagram for your photos. I noticed that I don't see girls having 15 minute photoshoots at the beginnings of parties anymore, because no one posts entire photo albums of a night out anymore. Most girls take one picture of their night at some point, and put that on Instagram.
I don't think Game will need to make much of a change. No ones going to be deleting their Facebooks because it's too connected to everything that they use. Nowadays, it's used as more of an ID card that says "yeah, I'm a normal human being".
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RE: Teens abandoning Facebook; old people signing up
(01-18-2014 04:10 PM)dads Wrote: As someone who was in High School about two years ago, I could've told anyone who asked that Facebook was gonna be dead soon. At it's peak, Facebook on a Sunday night was where the party was at. EVERYONE would be online at the same time, chatting and posting status updates and whatnot. This was mostly my Sophomore and Junior years. Nowadays, the only people that post statuses on my Facebook are the adults I'm friends with (adults as in the parents of my friends and old teachers I have added) and weird people that still do the "like my status" kind of stuff. You have as good a chance of getting in contact with someone sending an Facebook Message than you would sending an email. Hell, I'd guess you have a better chance sending them snail mail.
A big reason I think this happened was that peoples Facebooks was becoming too much of an accurate representation of themselves. Facebook was everything: your friends, your school, your age, your family, pictures of where you were, where you've been, what you're thinking, your beliefs, your relationship status, etc. It's much easier for people to create constructs of themselves when there are two avenues: Twitter, for your thoughts and Instagram for your photos. I noticed that I don't see girls having 15 minute photoshoots at the beginnings of parties anymore, because no one posts entire photo albums of a night out anymore. Most girls take one picture of their night at some point, and put that on Instagram.
I don't think Game will need to make much of a change. No ones going to be deleting their Facebooks because it's too connected to everything that they use. Nowadays, it's used as more of an ID card that says "yeah, I'm a normal human being".
I've been on Facebook since December 2004, the first year that it was in operation.
It used to be underground and cool, if you can believe it.
Nowadays, your mom will friend you on Facebook.
It's a completely different beast. I remember the excitement of meeting my first bitch through Facebook, how it seemed a bit dangerous, a bit underground, and definitely novel.
Facebook is still useful for keeping in touch, but I implore people to view the Facebook as it exists today as something of a downgrade.
I want something more dangerous than what Facebook has become. Where can I find that?
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RE: Teens abandoning Facebook; old people signing up
Agree with dads 2010/2011 was the year of the Facebook. I remember tons of chats statuses, meme wars, and a bunch of other stuff. There was a lot of community at the time. Last year I noticed that Facebook seemed to have all but died. Even the drama queens and girls who used to post 100+ pictures really tapered out. Stuff became more about generic statuses and select pictures.
While I don't know if this was because of adults I think they played a part in it. A friend of mine once changed his status to "in a relationship" and some relative tagged him and the girl in an embarrassing "I'm so proud that [friend] finally found a girl" status. Little things like that started popping up and I think it made people think twice about posting.
Also, I suspect that the novelty of social media has died off. For several years people were infatuated with it because it was something new and gave them a unique way to express themselves. I remember going to parties and having girls ask for friend requests. Now everyone has Snapchat, Tinder, Twitter, Instagram, Kik, Vine, and 30,000 other social media outlets. They don't really care about a singular one anymore.
The thrill of getting a "like" or whatever has been diluted by all the other types of stimulus that newer services have to offer.
Game wise I don't think it will matter. I deleted my account some time ago and nothing has suffered. If you were into social media game just find a new system like Twitter or Instagram.
(This post was last modified: 01-18-2014 05:14 PM by RXB.)
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RE: Teens abandoning Facebook; old people signing up
(01-18-2014 05:08 PM)Yeti Wrote: (01-18-2014 04:10 PM)dads Wrote: As someone who was in High School about two years ago, I could've told anyone who asked that Facebook was gonna be dead soon. At it's peak, Facebook on a Sunday night was where the party was at. EVERYONE would be online at the same time, chatting and posting status updates and whatnot. This was mostly my Sophomore and Junior years. Nowadays, the only people that post statuses on my Facebook are the adults I'm friends with (adults as in the parents of my friends and old teachers I have added) and weird people that still do the "like my status" kind of stuff. You have as good a chance of getting in contact with someone sending an Facebook Message than you would sending an email. Hell, I'd guess you have a better chance sending them snail mail.
A big reason I think this happened was that peoples Facebooks was becoming too much of an accurate representation of themselves. Facebook was everything: your friends, your school, your age, your family, pictures of where you were, where you've been, what you're thinking, your beliefs, your relationship status, etc. It's much easier for people to create constructs of themselves when there are two avenues: Twitter, for your thoughts and Instagram for your photos. I noticed that I don't see girls having 15 minute photoshoots at the beginnings of parties anymore, because no one posts entire photo albums of a night out anymore. Most girls take one picture of their night at some point, and put that on Instagram.
I don't think Game will need to make much of a change. No ones going to be deleting their Facebooks because it's too connected to everything that they use. Nowadays, it's used as more of an ID card that says "yeah, I'm a normal human being".
I've been on Facebook since December 2004, the first year that it was in operation.
It used to be underground and cool, if you can believe it.
Nowadays, your mom will friend you on Facebook.
It's a completely different beast. I remember the excitement of meeting my first bitch through Facebook, how it seemed a bit dangerous, a bit underground, and definitely novel.
Facebook is still useful for keeping in touch, but I implore people to view the Facebook as it exists today as something of a downgrade.
I want something more dangerous than what Facebook has become. Where can I find that?
I signed up for Facebook back in 2005 when I was about to start my first semester at university. I remember back then it was pretty much catered towards college students. You could automatically see the profiles of every student who is in the same college network at you and I remember people would straight up put their dorm and room number on their profile along with the exact section for all the classes they were taking. It was pretty much a stalker's paradise back then which is in stark contrast to how worried everyone these days is over FB privacy.
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RE: Teens abandoning Facebook; old people signing up
There is a big reason FB is dying, young people don't like to be in the company of their parents and the like, FB used to be cool when only college and HS people were in it, now you have more family network, also the amount of bullshit women post is killing for. any cute video, prank or Marilyn Monroe's quote is posted 3 time in a day by some females, also, for those who are not married and without kids FB is really pointless, I see the big whores from my high school talking about motherhood and family, girls that were riding the cock and giving blowjobs since they were 13, now they post pictures how a real man is a man that has one woman and dedicated himself to his family, girls that were getting fucked by thugs and drug dealers and the last thing in theirs mind was family commitment and stability.
Now they criticize any man who is not adapting to theirs schedule.
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RE: Teens abandoning Facebook; old people signing up
Ya, I joined in 2005 and for a couple years, it remained extremely clean. It stayed cool until they began to allow general membership and my younger sister, still in high school, got an account.
It wasn't that long after that that the GUI began to suffer from increasingly frantic "reboots" and at some point, Facebook just became a pamphlet for numerous corporations.
I think that the cool factor dropped the most, when stupid games, like Farmville, made their debut. The constant messages from friends "requesting" that you play the stupid game that they were playing so that they could cash in on special referral bonuses, sent Facebook into a downward spiral.
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