Post: #1

Not sure if anyone here has first hand experience, and I couldn't find a whole lot on the web. Quick summary:

Been seeing this divorced Asian MILF for about a month. Met her at my gym. She's 41 (looks about 10 years younger), 5'1, about 100 lbs, in other words, tiny. But has a great body on her, hair/skin just about perfect, a solid 8.5 for her age group.

Me, 35, 6'4, about 225, athletic build. For our first "date" we had snacks at the gym's bistro, it became pretty clear what we both wanted, so I invited her over to my place next time for "dinner and to watch a movie", but we were at it within 20 minutes when she got here.

Problem: the height/size difference made everything pretty awkward. Any flavor of missionary appears to be out of question (try again?), didn't even bother doggystyle, and eventually gave up and she finished up on top.

I really do want to get more mileage out of this, like I said she's hot and is pleasant, but need more variety, especially me being on top. Is there any hope here, or am I SOL? She's the shortest woman I've ever been with. All others have usually ranged from 5'4-5'9, with no problems at all. Ideas/pointers would be welcome.

Post: #2

Lube.

Post: #3

Prone her out on her stomach.
Come in from behind/on top and place your hands on her hips and have it.

Post: #4

What was so awkward?

Post: #5

If it was that uncomfortable, probably just drop it. There are other fish in the sea that aren't a foot shorter than you.

Post: #6

I'm confused. What's the problem, your dick doesn't fit, or are you having trouble getting comfortable in certain positions because of height?

I'm 6'3 and fucked plenty of 5'1 chicks in various positions. Me fitting inside them was usually an issue at first, but with a little effort during foreplay they opened right up. Positioning was never awkward though. Do you have issues with flexibility?

Doggystyle is possible with shorter girls if you raise your bed to the right level. She's on the bed with her ass up while you stand up and go to work.

Post: #7

Unfortunately I do have a flexibility problem, years of heavy lifting and ignoring stretching and other stuff. We just couldn't get the angles and calibration figured out, popped out a couple of times, etc. Could be just some practice to figure out a few ideal positions.

Not ready to give up yet. Was thinking of using pillows to ease the difference, will also give spoon a shot. Next round is tomorrow and Sat, so we'll see how it goes.

Post: #8

Lol im 6'7 and one time I was with a girl who was like 5'2 I know what you mean. Her head is near my stomach on missionary.

Post: #9

I'm sure you'll work it out. Sounds like you're lacking assertiveness in the bedroom if she finished on top. You should be the one taking charge, manoeuvring her according to what you want, not fearful of what might not work (re: your doggystyle comment).

Don't forget, you have knees so can adjust your height in doggy position by leaning backwards as required (or even prop her knees up on a pillow). You're not on a porn shoot, so there's no need for textbook technique.

I'm a big fan of going deep stick (get her to put her legs back in the air as far as possible in missionary position) on small Asians, getting right up in there. That's as deep as you're going to get. Not sure what difficulties you were experiencing whilst you were on top of her though(?)

Bottom line, height differences should never be "awkward" or hamper your enjoyment in the bedroom - there's always a work-around.

Post: #10

You're too tall? Great problem to have. But it's all in your head.

I am taller than you, and I have banged girls ranging from 5'1" to 6'0" with the majority at the smaller end of the spectrum. I can definitely appreciate a tall, slender body. But a petite girl really wins it for me.

How to solve the problem?

Missionary: I don't see the problem with missionary, besides it being boring. You just won't be able to kiss comfortably, but do you really want to? You completely cover her, which she likes. Her face is in your chest, which she likes (if not, get a proper chest).

Missionary-with-legs-on-shoulders: A lot less boring, I love this. No issues with size there, though you might go to deep. For her, that is, not for you. Because she's flat on her back and your at an angle, your faces will line up for some romantic gazing or a good slap. Here, I will generally kiss her (crushing her legs in a bit).

Doggystyle: Yeah, pretty difficult. I cannot comfortably fuck a girl this way (your knees in between her legs). There's a few ways to circumvent this. 1. Stand on your foot with one leg, outside of her leg/next to her hip or waist. 2. Stand on both feet, squatting like a porn star. Gets tiring obviously. 3. My favorite: She lies on her stomach, and you go to work. Optionally, you place a pillow underneath her pussy.

Alternatives: She's on her side, lower leg stretched down, which you straddle, and upper leg in the air or stretched to her front, which you can hold. Being an ass lover, I vouch for this. Another: Spooning. Nice and lazy. Also good to remember to try a lot of crazy stuff and see what works and what doesn't. And don't forget to have fun.

Bonus:

Sex while standing up! Not many guys can pull that off, given they weigh virtually the same as the girl. But girls love that shit, pure power move.

Post: #11

^Ive always had trouble with doggystyle being 6'7. my legs are too long so I have to get in an awkward position to get it in. Good advice.

Post: #12

Put her kneeling on the bed and you stand up so that your hood is in alignment with her poohnarn for facilitation between taller man versus shorter lizard doggy..

Post: #13

Could also try this modification:

Put a pillow under her ass (or possibly two depending on how unflexible you are). Lie her down, get her legs up as far in the air as possible (helps if she is a more flexible girl, but it's not critical). Instead of going horizontal with her when you enter her, kneel, spread you legs out as low as you can go and stay vertical. So you will be perpendicular to her when you bang. Hold her legs while you thrust. And enjoy.

Post: #14

(01-10-2014 07:36 AM)sixsix Wrote:  You're too tall? Great problem to have. But it's all in your head.

I am two inches taller than you, and I have banged girls ranging from 5'1" to 6'0" with the majority at the smaller end of the spectrum. I can definitely appreciate a tall, slender body. But a petite girl really wins it for me.

How to solve the problem?

Missionary: I don't see the problem with missionary, besides it being boring. You just won't be able to kiss comfortably, but do you really want to? You completely cover her, which she likes. Her face is in your chest, which she likes (if not, get a proper chest).

Missionary-with-legs-on-shoulders: A lot less boring, I love this. No issues with size there, though you might go to deep. For her, that is, not for you. Because she's flat on her back and your at an angle, your faces will line up for some romantic gazing or a good slap. Here, I will generally kiss her (crushing her legs in a bit).

Doggystyle: Yeah, pretty difficult. I cannot comfortably fuck a girl this way (your knees in between her legs). There's a few ways to circumvent this. 1. Stand on your foot with one leg, outside of her leg/next to her hip or waist. 2. Stand on both feet, squatting like a porn star. Gets tiring obviously. 3. My favorite: She lies on her stomach, and you go to work. Optionally, you place a pillow underneath her pussy.

Alternatives: She's on her side, lower leg stretched down, which you straddle, and upper leg in the air or stretched to her front, which you can hold. Being an ass lover, I vouch for this. Another: Spooning. Nice and lazy. Also good to remember to try a lot of crazy stuff and see what works and what doesn't. And don't forget to have fun.

Bonus:

Sex while standing up! Not many guys can pull that off, given they weigh virtually the same as the girl. But girls love that shit, pure power move.

What would be good preparation for sex standing up apart from squats and deads? Front squats?

Post: #15

(01-10-2014 12:28 PM)ComebackKid Wrote:  What would be good preparation for sex standing up apart from squats and deads? Front squats?

Best preparation is pick a girl that's small compared to you. You need a lot of strength not just in your legs but also in your arms (to pick up the girl).

I really like stand up 69 every once in a while.

I'm also a proponent of having your bed at the right height. I love laying girls down on their backs with their legs up in the air and I'm at the perfect height to stand and fuck them.

Post: #16

Hey, really appreciate all the tips! To update, we fucked 3 times over Fri/Sat and things went a lot better this time around. To answer some earlier questions, the awkwardness on my part had to do with zero experience banging a really petite woman. I was a little tentative, especially on top, thinking I don't want to crush her like a bug, so be careful, etc.

But I have a much better handle on things now. Deep stick was the big winner once we figured the perfect angle/position. Spoon was surprisingly good, so it's definitely staying in the playbook. Didn't bother with anything else, but next up will be standing up, I think we can easily do this. Also, the bed height is not ideal for a couple of other positions I have in mind, so will need to look into getting some custom pillows.