Post: #26

(01-01-2014 05:07 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  One of my main girls in California was complaining that she didn't have a date for New Years Eve. ... and that the idea of me meeting her family on NYE would "mean something" that she "just isn't ready for".

She wanted a date for NYE, but didn't want to introduce you to her family. Since when does a grown single woman spend NYE with family?! Sorry, but if she found an alpha then she would either introduce him or schedule them separately. She literally shunned you, bro, and then used you as an emotional tampon to whine about it on the phone.

It's sad how she is manipulating you. You will fight battles, and she will test you constantly. If she wants you so bad, why didn't she fly out to see you? You need to be nonchalant, and don't react or reward her antics with emotional drama Then when she compromises you can grab the pussy opportunity. But don't take it seriously, because this chick is not worth any investment. She is a spoiled brat who has signaled her intention to drop you.

Post: #27

(01-11-2014 06:59 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(01-11-2014 06:22 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  "sorry, but I'm not in the mood to have sex tonight".

I suspect that she was bluffing. She was shit testing you. If you would have went to go "cuddle", you probably would have ended up banging.

Girls do that shit a lot.

She wanted a little imaginary "plausible deniability" in order for you to come over.

She wanted to "frame it" as -- He is just coming over to "cuddle".. You should have allowed her to set her imaginary "frame" and then gone over their and ignored it.

Bang on. Thanks for that Gio. I couldn't see it while caught up in the heat of the moment.

+1

Post: #28

It has happened to all of us at some point.

Now, you are much wiser.