Post: #1

A couple of weeks ago this girl that I meet last year hits me up out of the blue to come over. So I go over we fuck. two weeks later I invite her to a function and afterward we fuck. Last week I invite her to a party she comes we kick it and later we mob to her house. We cuddle, I escalate and she says she just wants to cuddle/make out and talk. So I wanna hit it, but how do I play it so I don't seem desperate but still get it in the next time we kick it?

Post: #2

Alcohol.

Post: #3

I would not push your luck here. You have a good thing--an easy low maintenance girl who is obviously DTF. Let her off this one time, but if she gives any resistance the next time you may be forced to go down on her first to get her in the mood.

It may sound like a beta gesture, but once you get her super wet and horny through good oral technique, she will be craving your cock and then you are in full control.

Agree with MHAES --when in doubt--add more alcohol to the equation to increase your odds.

Post: #4

Do some math; she's probably on the rag. Don't act butt hurt and you can hit it next time.

Post: #5

She is probably on her period.

But if alcohol is not an option, then just play it cool. Don't bring up the topic of sex. Don't seem too eager when you guys kiss/make out. But keep the mini make out sessions persistent (every 7-10 minutes or so), and feel her ass/tits up while you are doing so. Then stop it, and go back to whatever you guys were doing. Pick up where you left off, and act as if nothing happened.

What you are trying to do here is get her horny, but without being over aggressive. This hot/cold technique will work if implemented correctly. But they differences between the two should be increasing each time - the mini-hook ups hotter, the mini-freeze outs colder. During your 4 hook up, get aggressive and try to either feel her up under her bra, or rub her pussy over her pants. Gauge her reaction to this, and calibrate accordingly. If she is digging it, try to get your hand down her pants next time, and take your dick out of your pants and guide her hands to it. If not, back off and slowly build up the sexual tension again.

Post: #6

Fuck other chicks.

She might have all manner of good excuses about why she doesn't want to fuck. That ain't none of your concern.

Right now you're in a position of weakness. She controls access to your happiness. She's able to dictate the terms because you respect her boundaries.

When you allowed this to happen basically she got the emotions and comfort from you, and you got nothing that you wanted. Making out is nice, sure, but you ain't in high school anymore.

She feels all nice, warm, and fuzzy, but you end up rock hard and anxious, and she'll make you feel like the bad guy because of your basic biology. Pressing them tits up.against you, and mad that you responding....I wish a bitch would....

Try pulling that stunt when she bleeding, getting at her even though the whoremones are making her (extra) loopy.

She don't want to fuck, That's fine.

If girl A isn't down, girls B-Z will be.

You don't need to be angry, butt hurt, or throw it in a chicks face, but you have to put your needs above hers at all times. If you ain't happy, nothing else matters.

Making her happy at your expense is the fastest path to unhappiness for the two of you.

WIA

Post: #7

(12-12-2013 07:23 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Fuck other chicks.

She might have all manner of good excuses about why she doesn't want to fuck. That ain't none of your concern.

Right now you're in a position of weakness. She controls access to your happiness. She's able to dictate the terms because you respect her boundaries.

When you allowed this to happen basically she got the emotions and comfort from you, and you got nothing that you wanted. Making out is nice, sure, but you ain't in high school anymore.

She feels all nice, warm, and fuzzy, but you end up rock hard and anxious, and she'll make you feel like the bad guy because of your basic biology. Pressing them tits up.against you, and mad that you responding....I wish a bitch would....

Try pulling that stunt when she bleeding, getting at her even though the whoremones are making her (extra) loopy.

She don't want to fuck, That's fine.

If girl A isn't down, girls B-Z will be.

You don't need to be angry, butt hurt, or throw it in a chicks face, but you have to put your needs above hers at all times. If you ain't happy, nothing else matters.

Making her happy at your expense is the fastest path to unhappiness for the two of you.

WIA

so would you contact her to 'chill' anytime soon or no

Post: #8

Re-read the wisdom WIA dropped OP.

Then read it again.

Don't contact her for a week. Go find other, new girls.

That's the whole point of having a harem, is that you can have sex everyday regardless, because one of your girls will be DTF.