Post: #1

So, I have a nice girl from Slovakia in one of my classes. I got her number, visited a christmas market with her and learned a bit with her during breaks a few times.
I didn´t try to escalate,( the course i have with her takes place 3 times a week and it would be awkard if i´d get openly rejected, not so much in a club when alcohol is involved) i wanna get her to a nightclub and then proceed from there.
I asked her out last weekend, she said she was busy learning. i also asked her about this weekend, and she agreed, but she wants to take another girl from our class (fatty,potential cockblock)
How should i proceed from here? Go with them and try to build rapport, escalate or try another time ?
Or is it obvious she has already sees me as "just a friend" if she wants to take that other girl with her ?
hope to get some advice from you guys, as i am still rather new to game theory.
Would be cool if i got my Slovakian flag!

Post: #2

Bring a wingman. Have him deal with the friend. And I'd go with the mindset that you're all just buddies headed out for a good time. Thererfore - tease and touch, rinse and repeat. Remember to spend a good part of the evening moving in other social groups but help keep up the good vibe in your own.

Don't ignore fatty. Make fatty feel special by gaming her too (tease, but no touch). Then fatty might let her friend fuck you.

Post: #3

Hey Bukowsky, thanks for your reply.
of course i was also thinking about a wing, but i don´t have a trusted wingman at the moment. would be a huge "sacrifice" to deal with that fat, ugly girl.
but i think if she would be dtf eventually, she wouldn´t even be thinking about bringing that other girl with her?
well, i will treat it the way you described, just friends hanging out, and don´t set my expectations to high.
if thinks don´t work out, i can still use her as a pivot.

Post: #4

Remove the thought of her being a nice girl out of your head. Bringing the fatty could be a "shit test", which is a tough one. Personally, if a girl really likes you she will not bring a friend. Get some confidence and grow some!

Let us know how the date goes!

Post: #5

I AGREE with rudebwoy. Any woman with intentions of fucking you (or even just likes you as a man) is not bringing a fatty-cockblocker friend for the ride, what is she 16 years old ? C'mon, give me a break. So, here is what I suggest: she wants to bring along fatty cockblocker? Fine, bring her, but she's buying the first 3 rounds of drinks, and the we go on our way .....alone. No exceptions!

Look, when women pull this shit on you, it is always best to make your intentions clear from the get for 2 simple reasons:

1. If she does not like you as a man, and is not interested in fucking you, you save yourself $$$, time, and frustrations.
2. If she does not like you as a fuck buddy, the you should be using her attractive looks/status as a pivot to get better quality girls in front of her face, a fatty-cockblocker is not going to make you look interesting in the eyes of other smoking hot women. I don't care what the movie "Shallow Hal" says, bullshit. Remember that attractive women find a man hanging out with attractive women very interesting - USE THAT!!

She is laying down some ground rules for you with confidence, you have every right to do the same, so make-clear your intentions, or don't bitch about being used later.

Mixx

Post: #6

well, the "date" didn´t even happen.
She told me she´d call or text me but didn´t. I deleted her number.
You guys are definitely right, she wouldn´t even be thinking about bringing that cockblock with her if she would be dtf. and the flake was another obvious sign.
I will concentrate on other chicks, class game would have been tricky anyhow.

Post: #7

When you see her blank her completely, but not in a way that you seem bitter.

Post: #8

I think this is a good thing that happened to you. I had sex with a classmate this semester and it has been a rough and awkward 6 weeks since we stopped doing it.