That was a lot of fun.
Big Thanks to
Christian McQueen and
Dagonet.
Those guys have YEARS OF EXPERIENCE CHASING GIRLS AND BETTERING THEMSELVES.
They speak the truth. I learned a lot from talking to them.
I can't wait to read
"The Alpha Playboy Part II"!!!
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I also wanted to answer a few more question that I forgot to mention..
(03-26-2014 06:59 PM)hwuzhere Wrote: What is the best way to street open?
There is no such thing as "best".
The easiest way is to just
walk alongside her and make a comment about something she is wearing. Or, if you feel more ballsy and confident, walk alongside her and when you get one half step ahead of her, say --
" you look nice today"
Make it seem random or "serendipitous", like you just happen to be walking by and you see something you like (her).
I recommend starting like that.
I'm not big on asking directions and really indirect stuff like that. It might work for some guys but its not my preference.
The "best" way is usually the way that you are comfortable with.
Start indirect and experiment with a few direct ones also.
You have to use both, depending on your mood, the situation and your level of game.
(03-26-2014 06:59 PM)hwuzhere Wrote: what kind of mindset/vibe do you go in with
"Beastmode" is my mindset.
An "air of superiority".
My vibe is calm and playful but I go after what I want.
"The world is my oyster". That's how I feel.
(03-26-2014 06:59 PM)hwuzhere Wrote: what is the most effective way to walk up to them?
It's not really about "how" you walk up them.
It's about how much confidence and social skill you display when you open them.
Nothing will work if you don't have confidence and conversational skills. Most things will work if you do have them.
I would walk along side of them and then open them as you are walking.
Or, wait for them to stop at a red light.
For beginners, those are probably your best bets.
(03-26-2014 07:02 PM)kapitaw Wrote: what books really changed the way you think/act
I'm not saying its a great book but..
It taught me that I can re-wire my brain, change my attitudes, change my habits, and CHANGE MY LIFE!
(03-26-2014 07:02 PM)kapitaw Wrote: what tips can you give for making the necessary changes to become a better man?
Get as much help as you can!
Mentors
Advisers
Consultants
Therapists
Counselors
Life Coaches
Books
Forums
Pod Casts
Support Groups
Friends
Family
Bootcamps
Seminars
etc.
etc.
GET HELP!
Research your problem. Do everything in your power to fix the problem
(03-27-2014 12:11 PM)RockHard Wrote: do you have a routine you use to warm up or get in the mood?
Two things..
1) I talk to everyone around me -- girls, guys, old people, janitors, etc., anybody and everybody.
2) I listen to intense music that gets me charged up and I jump around like a crazy man slapping myself in the face.
Almost, like I am preparing myself for a fight.
(03-27-2014 12:11 PM)RockHard Wrote: You took a couple months off around the holidays, what did you do to get back in the swing of things?
Just start approaching.
(03-27-2014 12:11 PM)RockHard Wrote: I notice you don't go for insta-date much, is that because of time constraints?
It's not really an issue of "time constraints".
I just don't care to do "insta-dates". They are not fun for me.
I would rather get her number, text her later and try to set up a first date at my place with alcohol.
I would rather approach 10 girls in a day rather then only 5. That's just the way I like to do it.
I might have more success if I did insta-dates but I dont care, I'm happy with my results.
(03-27-2014 12:11 PM)RockHard Wrote: Do you think your flake rate would go down if you did insta-dates?
It all depends what happens on the insta-date..
If you have a good date, the likelihood of her flaking probably goes down.
But, if you have a bad insta-date, she might lose interest in you on the spot.
I have nothing against insta-dates and they sound like a good idea.
I just dont have much desire to do them. Maybe, I will try doing some..?
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Okay, I'm done hijacking McQueen's thread..
Just wanted answer all questions.
Respect to Christian and Dagonet!
They get shit done!