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RE: Is online dating is ruining night game?
@ Houston

I'm going to do a write up about it here soon.

it's gonna depend on what you want done. some may just want something as simple as color correction or photo sharpness.. where as other may want things "fixed" in the photo (ex. you playing football shirtless, or taking out pimples, fixing a weird bald patch in your beard etc etc etc)

I'll definitely be reasonable.

Trying to have the write up by the days end.
12-11-2013 11:00 AM
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Count me in for the pro photoshopping, and general advice, ie. angles. I can see you making some coin round here soon, and a bunch of rep points.
12-11-2013 11:06 AM
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^^^ photoshopping write up ^^^
12-11-2013 09:52 PM
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RE: Is online dating is ruining night game?
(12-11-2013 02:20 AM)PocketAA Wrote:  
(12-10-2013 08:32 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  
(12-09-2013 03:54 PM)PocketAA Wrote:  
(12-09-2013 02:25 PM)reaper23 Wrote:  I "go out" about once every month. And when I do I usually have some good success in terms of either numbers, make outs or SNL.

I'm 6'4" and white.

Just with that you can walk into any bar and with decent game get a hotter girl than you will ever get online. Considering that you are not hideous in the face.

A lot of guys think that they have game but they really just have a very good unfair advantage.

thats just not true. in fact my LTR who is a legit 8 if not higher, I met online. she is the hottest chick everywhere we go, so basically, what you've said is false.

some hot girls are actually introverts and really dont like being in places where there are a lot of people, much less guys hitting on them.

How many 8's have you gotten off online dating?

Be honest

I can't recall exactly but lets say more than a handful over the course of a few years. from models to actresses to girl next door types, including my current LTR of three years who is a red pill, cooking, sexually adventurous knock out who comes from wealth and isn't pressuring me to get married. and ten years younger.

one girl i met online even had movies on Netflix that I watched before our first date - stalkerish on my part I know but how many times do you get a chance to do that??

in DC there just aren't that many 8's and 9's walking around all the time either - so i'd say my proportions are about par for the course.
12-12-2013 11:30 AM
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RE: Is online dating is ruining night game?
Turn off your computer.

Go outside.

Talk to people.
12-12-2013 07:17 PM
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(12-07-2013 03:55 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  Its unfortunate that with the invention of the internet and mass exchanges of information brought about the downfall of traditional male/female sexual dynamics.

You say this as if going out to nightclubs is "traditional." Hundreds and thousands of years ago there were not nightclubs with dark lights and loud music...
12-12-2013 09:05 PM
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RE: Is online dating is ruining night game?
Online dating is actually a good supplement to night game. I've had good success in Toronto in online, and pretty descent success in bars.

Use all the tools at your disposal.

Look at the new Tinder App, if it works, use it.
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I don't understand the hate for online dating. Sure, lots of girls are complete garbage, but I've banged some good looking girls from OKCupid. I personally hate going out to clubs just to meet girls.. I can think of many things I'd rather do than stay out in a smokey/loud environment until 4am, continuously get rejected, and only get laid sometimes. With online dating I can hit up girls when I'm home working, and have a date later that night. There's a WAY higher chance of me getting laid that way too. Way higher ROI for the time I put in.

I can also go out and day game, but it's cold as fuck right now, and I'd rather be working than walking around in the street for hours.

In conclusion, online dating is great. It saves me time, there's a higher chance of me getting laid, and I don't have to waste time in clubs filled with aggressive guys looking to fight for no reason. Fuck nightclubs.
12-12-2013 10:30 PM
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(12-09-2013 06:54 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  It's not ruining game, but it is degrading a number of prospects. I know a ton of girls who will rather spend their Friday night counting likes on their duckface pic #4002 than put real effort and go out all dolled up.

My mate told me once that he was at some birthday party and this girl who got really high literally had real, moaning orgasm after she received 30 likes in one minute for some slutty group pic.

As weird as it sounds, I find that totally believable

There was a study recently that found that when someone gets a text or a FB message or Like it causes a dopamine hit to be released in the brain

And "Abundant evidence points to dopamine as the key neurotransmitter involved in stimulating orgasm in humans. " http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2008/02/1...nd-orgasm/

Think about the implication of that- even though reaching orgasm is probably not common it's easy to see that women are actually getting real pleasure and even sexual arousal from the online attention they get. That would in part explain why it's so addictive to them.

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(12-12-2013 10:44 PM)MrXY Wrote:  
(12-09-2013 06:54 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  It's not ruining game, but it is degrading a number of prospects. I know a ton of girls who will rather spend their Friday night counting likes on their duckface pic #4002 than put real effort and go out all dolled up.

My mate told me once that he was at some birthday party and this girl who got really high literally had real, moaning orgasm after she received 30 likes in one minute for some slutty group pic.

As weird as it sounds, I find that totally believable

There was a study recently that found that when someone gets a text or a FB message or Like it causes a dopamine hit to be released in the brain

And "Abundant evidence points to dopamine as the key neurotransmitter involved in stimulating orgasm in humans. " http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2008/02/1...nd-orgasm/

Think about the implication of that- even though reaching orgasm is probably not common it's easy to see that women are actually getting real pleasure and even sexual arousal from the online attention they get. That would in part explain why it's so addictive to them.

If you have that study about the dopamine hit bookmarked can you throw the link up?
12-16-2013 09:21 PM
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RE: Is online dating is ruining night game?
(12-12-2013 10:44 PM)MrXY Wrote:  
(12-09-2013 06:54 AM)funkyzeit Wrote:  It's not ruining game, but it is degrading a number of prospects. I know a ton of girls who will rather spend their Friday night counting likes on their duckface pic #4002 than put real effort and go out all dolled up.

My mate told me once that he was at some birthday party and this girl who got really high literally had real, moaning orgasm after she received 30 likes in one minute for some slutty group pic.

As weird as it sounds, I find that totally believable

There was a study recently that found that when someone gets a text or a FB message or Like it causes a dopamine hit to be released in the brain

And "Abundant evidence points to dopamine as the key neurotransmitter involved in stimulating orgasm in humans. " http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2008/02/1...nd-orgasm/

Think about the implication of that- even though reaching orgasm is probably not common it's easy to see that women are actually getting real pleasure and even sexual arousal from the online attention they get. That would in part explain why it's so addictive to them.

these hoes........... and they wonder why we do them the way we do
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RE: Is online dating is ruining night game?
I think shitty music, lax dress codes, over-priced drinks, hot headed bouncers, over population, bogus DJ's, wannabes, giant TV's all over the place, smart phones, an over-worked and over-educated and over-entitled populace, and generally bad attitudes have "ruined" nightlife venues and night game more than online dating.

You guys are forgetting that online dating was originally successful because it filled a need in the marketplace. If nightlife was so much better in the 90's than people wouldn't have flocked to online dating sites in such huge numbers. Something else must have changed, and I'd wager a few of the items I listed above were and are contributing factors.

In other words: if Gmanifesto operated a night club, I'd delete my online dating accounts and would be there very night of the week, as would all the fly girls in town.
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RE: Is online dating is ruining night game?
If you want to put your zany photos on the dating sites(if it suits your personality, it might help), something like this could help

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turning this

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(12-12-2013 10:30 PM)travolta Wrote:  I don't understand the hate for online dating. Sure, lots of girls are complete garbage, but I've banged some good looking girls from OKCupid. I personally hate going out to clubs just to meet girls.. I can think of many things I'd rather do than stay out in a smokey/loud environment until 4am, continuously get rejected, and only get laid sometimes. With online dating I can hit up girls when I'm home working, and have a date later that night. There's a WAY higher chance of me getting laid that way too. Way higher ROI for the time I put in.

I can also go out and day game, but it's cold as fuck right now, and I'd rather be working than walking around in the street for hours.

In conclusion, online dating is great. It saves me time, there's a higher chance of me getting laid, and I don't have to waste time in clubs filled with aggressive guys looking to fight for no reason. Fuck nightclubs.

You are right, online dating is much more rewarding in terms of quantity. There are things that online dating can't teach you though. Like for example, which girls are attracted to you before approaching them. What actions girls do to approach you in a club or bar. There is a lot more to learn from night or day game than from online game.

You can survive on online game without having actual game.

You can't survive on night-day gaming without game.
12-17-2013 08:32 PM
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(12-17-2013 08:32 PM)PocketAA Wrote:  
(12-12-2013 10:30 PM)travolta Wrote:  I don't understand the hate for online dating. Sure, lots of girls are complete garbage, but I've banged some good looking girls from OKCupid. I personally hate going out to clubs just to meet girls.. I can think of many things I'd rather do than stay out in a smokey/loud environment until 4am, continuously get rejected, and only get laid sometimes. With online dating I can hit up girls when I'm home working, and have a date later that night. There's a WAY higher chance of me getting laid that way too. Way higher ROI for the time I put in.

I can also go out and day game, but it's cold as fuck right now, and I'd rather be working than walking around in the street for hours.

In conclusion, online dating is great. It saves me time, there's a higher chance of me getting laid, and I don't have to waste time in clubs filled with aggressive guys looking to fight for no reason. Fuck nightclubs.

You are right, online dating is much more rewarding in terms of quantity. There are things that online dating can't teach you though. Like for example, which girls are attracted to you before approaching them. What actions girls do to approach you in a club or bar. There is a lot more to learn from night or day game than from online game.

You can survive on online game without having actual game.

You can't survive on night-day gaming without game.

I don't know how anyone who has stepped foot outside of their house can say that online is better than real life.

There is no argument that the quality you find in person is superior to what you find online.

P.s. nightclubs might be the worst place to find the highest quality.
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RE: Is online dating is ruining night game?
Over the past 6 months or so i've had my POF profile deleted repeatedly.
I figured out it was a girl who i used to fuck and burned badly. I made peace with her and she told me that she'd stop flagging my account but i'm still getting deleted...

If there wasn't a bigger sign for me to drop online game, i'm not sure what else there could be.

I'm 6'3 @ 204 lbs athletic build.
With how i dress i get eye fucked constantly, my bottom bitch notices it a lot more lately, so day/night game is where i'm strong.

My online game is terrible so i'm trying to become more well rounded. Once i get them face to face its a done deal 1st night or 2nd date bang most of the time. (I screen hard for the 1st 30 minutes to see if it's possible)

I grew up pre-internet and cellphone texting era. So if you were getting pussy it was by the sweat of your brow. If you didn't approach the girls you had shitty VHS porn to go home to.

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(12-07-2013 06:26 PM)PocketAA Wrote:  Online gaming is little league.

Night game is big leagues.

There are no leagues. Banging hot chicks is the only thing that matters.
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I'm so done hearing this online vs. real life game debate. Who fucking cares? Once you're inside of her does it really matter if you met on Tinder or at the club or through social network? Your balls will experience the same relief. As long as you didn't pay for it, how you got laid is irrelevant.
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(12-07-2013 06:11 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  "I think The Police State has had a larger effect on nightlife."

^An important variable I forgot to add.

SoCal nightlife has gotten seriously fucked up in the last few years since I first moved here.

Miami is looking better and better every day.

All of us in California (except me, I'm like a cheerleader) bitch about some of the stuff here, and TALK about leaving... but except NY, Chicago, and Minneapolis, everywhere everyone was so unsophisticated I couldn't take it.

Saying that, I'm going to the Philippines soon so I can get laid as I am totally invisible to Cali chicks Undecided

As far as Police state, if you worked in the prisons and saw that the criminals are just as narcissistic and entitled as all the rest of Californians, you'd realize how dangerous they are.

I've had at least three assholes who insisted on drunk driving again and again until they obliterated some innocent's car--you know, someone like your family's--and killed everyone in the car.

They're in for life, and they should be.


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