Post: #1

I'm wondering what you guys do when you've already made plans with a "regular". then suddenly out of nowhere you have a "live one" (new prospect).. sounds like you might be getting that lovely new pussy that we love so much..

this keeps happening to me lately.. and just happen NOW...smh

Post: #2

Simply flake on the regular.


New pussy can rarely be beat

Post: #3

Depends on a) quality of the new notch, b) quality of the regular notch, c) chances the regular would piss off (if you have frame, shouldn't be a worry), and d) chances blowing off the new girl is gonna end the interaction. Again for the latter, if you have the proper frame, it's not a big deal. Sometimes it can help. However, other times, if it's just a drunken opportunity for a booty call or somesuch, that last point can be pretty critical.

Post: #4

Usually if you blow off the regular, the new one will somehow sense how much you care about her and flake on you. It's some strange variant of cosmic justice...

Post: #5

don't flake with the regular one, just rearrange because "something important came up".
have your pancakes and eat them too, mr butterworth

Post: #6

Bird in the hand...

Post: #7

(11-28-2013 04:36 AM)TimDV Wrote:  don't flake with the regular one, just rearrange because "something important came up".

Quoted because that's actually true in these circumstances...

Post: #8

I normally go ahead and flake on the regular. with a considerable amount of time before seeing them of course (I believe is very distasteful to flake 1hr or 30 mins before seeing someone you've made plans with. and that was the case last night)...

I could have told the regular something and she would have gotten over it. no biggie.. but I decided to just tell the new one "can't my cousins are in town"

I'm quite sure I haven't lost her by any means.. she did send me a text at 130am

-130 am her: I'm feeling needy
-227am her: *pic of her laying in bed* meant to send you this last night
-927am her: Morning mr. butterworth I had a couple drinks, sorry for the silly texts haha

anyway, I'm golden ;-P

Post: #9

^Yeah, given those texts, you are probably more than good.