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**** THIS IS NOT ME****

I found this story online. Yet another reason NOT to get married. The story begins below the link.

http://redditlog.com/snapshot/28383/34936


I posted this earlier on another subreddit but it ended up getting removed because of fighting in the comments. I’ll sum up what happened thus far. I met my wife 7 years ago, she was extremely picky when it came to sex. She told me she only has been with 1 other guy before. She would never give a blow job, only would do certain positions and found almost every sex act degrading. I was frustrated by this, but I really liked her and hoped over the years she would open up sexually. Over the years, it never got any better but I learned to get over it. Well I ended up finding an old video from her college days of her engaging in group sex with 6 other people 5 guys 1 girl. In the video she has anal sex, oral sex, gets double teamed, and yells multiple times in the video she is a “I am a filthy whore.” All of it she was enthusiastic about it. I ended up feeling really sad. I can understand certain stuff people don’t want to do, but it wasn’t the fact she didn’t want to do them. She didn’t want to do them with me but every other guy she was their whore. I was angry hurt and I ended up saying some stupid shit to my wife.

I asked her if she could drop our daughter off at her sister’s house because I wanted to talk to her. She asked why, I told her we’d discuss after she came back.

I don’t remember all the details of the conversation, so I’ll try my best to sum it up. I was drinking a bit before she came which wasn’t the best idea. To add t

>Me: Is there anything about your past you have been hiding about me?

>Her: Why are we talking about this?

>Me: I just want to know were you in any type of porn or anything like that?

>Her: are you taking drugs?

>Me: I found your video from college with the other guys. I don’t know who you are anymore and I feel ill being around you.

>She starts crying.

>Me: Do you have anything to say?

>She continues to cry. This was pointless I go to grab my keys to leave. And she tries to stop me.

>Me: If you don’t want me to leave then I need you to be 100% honest with me, and tell me why you lied to me for all these years.

>She: I didn’t want you to think I was a slut

>Me: I would have been perfectly fine if you told me, I would have loved to have done those wild things with you. Look I get it I don’t turn you on like those other guys do. You liked sucking their dicks but not mine.

>She: It’s not that, I didn’t want you to think less of me.

>Me: No it is exactly that, there is a thing lying about sleeping with other guys. It’s not that you didn’t like doing those things. You didn’t like doing them with me.

>She: I can do that stuff with you. I am attracted to you, you know that.

>Me: I don’t want you to do it because you feel like you have to. I want someone that actually desires me.

>She: I can change I promise don’t ruin our marriage over this we can work things out. We can go to marriage counseling seriously talk to me.

>Me: Marriage counseling won’t change how you feel about me. Look I will try marriage counseling but I want a trial separation for now.

>She: Please don’t do this. Don’t throw away our marriage for what I did in college please.

>Me: Stop fucking acting like it’s a one time thing. Be honest with me how many guys did you fuck before me. How many guys dicks have you sucked, and how many guys have you let fuck you in the ass.

>She: why does it matter, I said I’ll do them with you

>Me: I am so fucking lucky. I got married to a whore, that fucks like a prude.

>She: Please don’t waste all of our marriage for this. I am willing to change.

>Me: I am not divorcing you but I want a trial separation for now, and I want to see how things go, right now I feel sick looking at you.

I ended up leaving my wife kept trying to stop me. She kept on begging saying I could do anything I wanted with her, it was truly pathetic and I lost all respect for my wife the way she was trying to manipulate me with sex.

I am staying at a motel right now; I have been getting constant calls from my wife. She has been asking me where I am, if I tell her than she is going to confront me and I don’t feel like I am ready for that. I feel so fucking drained. I feel bad saying those things to my wife but I don’t know what else to do I am so fucking hurt over this.

As I said before I wouldn’t care if she had a promiscuous past, seriously, wouldn’t care but the fact she did all those things for other guys but doesn’t do them for me hurts me the deepest.

I don’t see how this marriage can be recovered. I can’t change her attraction to me. My father has recently has been diagnosed with a tumor in his lung, and that has already been stressing me out pretty badly.

Please tell me what exactly I can do, my confidence as a man has been destroyed. Before I found out about this, I tried to get my wife to open up sexually but she completely shot it down. I really believe she isn’t attracted to me in the way she was to those other guys. That’s why she felt completely fine being “their whore” but won’t give me a blow job. I want a woman that looks at me lustfully, not that has sex with me to fulfill “wifey duties.”

I don’t feel entitled to other types of sex with my wife. I want her to want to do them. Now even if she does do them it will be out of guilt, not out of desire. I don’t see how we can recover our marriage. I feel really shitty that I won’t be able to seem my daughter as much, especially during her younger years.

I have already made some calls to reroute my paychecks and get my finances in order if we do go for a divorce. My brother works at a big law firm, I am thinking about contacting him to at least see what I should be doing now. Thing is once I call him it becomes the point of no return, if I tell my family members than their image of my wife becomes destroyed. Also I’d have to check because right now she is dependent on me for health insurance, and I don’t want her to be deprived of that if we do divorce, because she has been having health issues. I don’t want to ruin anything but I can’t see how things would ever be okay. If you don’t have any advice for me and are just going to be judgmental please don’t waste your time commenting. I know I said some hurtful things in there but you don’t know the level of hurt I am feeling right now. I have apologized to my wife since then, but I don’t see how our relationship can be recovered.

Edit - I want to make things work, between me and my wife. I understand she doesn't want to do certain sex acts. I am considering proposing to her the idea of an open marriage. That way we can still be together as a family and we both can have the fulfilling sex lives we want.

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Thanks for the post. I'm red pill but I believe the belief system needs constant validation. Im at that point where all my friends are talking about marriage and starting families. Reading stories like this, hundreds of them, keep reality in check.

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(11-25-2013 04:49 PM)JimNortonFan Wrote:  

Hahahahahahahaha!!!!

Post: #5

I'm always skeptical of these ultra-graphic sexual stories on Reddit. That said, if it's true, it just confirms all 26,547 threads on this forum.

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I remember when I used to have the same idea about female sexuality the old "I want a women to want me to fuck her in the ass, not just let me because I insisted". Patrice O'Neal hit the nail in the head in Black Phillip Show, a lot of them are in some way an empty vessel, they like anal (or whatever else) because the guy who fucked her before you introduced it to her.

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http://en.reddit.com/r/relationship_advi...e_now_our/

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The dude's marriage was over before it started.

Man: "Honey how about a blowjob?"

Wife: "No sweetie, I'm not a slut, I don't do that"

Man: "Please baby? I heard it feels great"

Wife: "No! It's not happening"

Man: "Ok honey, I didn't mean to make u upset. I love you and I apologize for asking for a blowjob"

He lost FRAME from day fucking one.

A wife's willingness to submit is the foundation of a solid happy marriage. If she will not, then it's only a matter of time before it ends on her account.

Period. Fucking Period.

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(11-25-2013 05:01 PM)calihunter Wrote:  http://en.reddit.com/r/relationship_advi...e_now_our/

There's more!

Post: #10

Like Tuthmosis said, 90% chance this is bullshit. I'll say in fact it's 100%, given the five on one gangbang and later turnaround.

If you need stories like these to learn a lesson, that means you're not living the life. Anyone who fucks around with girls picks up on these things.

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Quote:I am considering proposing to her the idea of an open marriage. That way we can still be together as a family and we both can have the fulfilling sex lives we want.

In reality, that "fulfilling sex life they both want" will likely consist of him lying awake on the couch, listening to some dude fuck his wifes ass in his bed. You just know this dude isn't going to get any more play than he is now.

Post: #12

wow...
I feel for this guy.
He's gonna get divorce raped pretty hard all because his wife is a raging slut.
I put money on her still doing that type of thing every now again.
That sort of behavior is hard to break.
The amount of time it would take for you to get comfortable being with numerous guys at once would mean you cross the point of no return and start to crave it again.
Not unlike people addicted to drugs.

Also how exactly would he find this video?
She must've kept it in the house or somewhere he has access to.
One guess why she kept it around for all these years...
She still gets off on it.

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Part of the reason I'm here is because I realized that 99.9% of what society tells us about men, women, and relationships is bullshit. This includes many of the people closest to me, and many of the people with the most integrity that I've ever known. I also had a couple of brutal experiences, nothing quite like this, but generally came to these realizations through more of a drip, drip, drip over a long period of time. Trust me, it's better to see the world for what it is by having your eyes open now than it is to pay the price of regret later on down the road when you realize you were blindfolded.

Post: #14

Sounds like BS. Wife's sex tape? Who the hell still has a fucking VCR to watch it on?

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(11-25-2013 05:16 PM)nek Wrote:  Sounds like BS. Wife's sex tape? Who the hell still has a fucking VCR to watch it on?

Guys like me who haven't gotten around to digitising some of their older conquests yet.

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(11-25-2013 05:16 PM)nek Wrote:  Sounds like BS. Wife's sex tape? Who the hell still has a fucking VCR to watch it on?

I've still got a VCR.

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'I ended up feeling really sad'
;(

Post: #18

The part that I find hard to believe is that a guy who is such a giant herb that he can't get his wife to blow him would suddenly grow the balls to just walk out on her like this.

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(11-25-2013 05:14 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  Also how exactly would he find this video?
She must've kept it in the house or somewhere he has access to.

This was asked in the comments. He responded that it was in an old box in the attic of their house.

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The dude should sell rights to the video and set up a trust for his daughter.

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On a serious note, guys, if you get married your sex life will not improve from that point on. If she doesn't take it up the ass before you get married, thats not something shes going to enthusiastically start doing. If she doesnt suck you off, she's not going to do that either.

My point: make sure you kick the tires good before you make the commitment

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(11-25-2013 05:27 PM)j r Wrote:  The part that I find unbelievable is that a guy who is such a giant herb that he can't get his wife to blow him would suddenly grow the balls to just walk out on her like this.

Every man has his breaking point. I'm not sure if it's real or not. I don't use reddit. Someone should ask him to post the video as proof.

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(11-25-2013 05:31 PM)frogmallet Wrote:  On a serious note, guys, if you get married your sex life will not improve from that point on. If she doesn't take it up the ass before you get married, thats not something shes going to enthusiastically start doing. If she doesnt suck you off, she's not going to do that either.

My point: make sure you kick the tires good before you make the commitment

I have never been with a girl who didn't give blow jobs. I find it strange hearing about all of these women who refuse.

Now anal, yeah, that is touch and go but not really something I am interested in anyway.

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The red flag that it's fake, for me, is in the follow-up post where the OP responds to someone with
"you sound like a white knight or an ugly feminist."
This guy couldn't get a BJ from his wife for seven years, but is red pill enough to be familiar with "white knighting"? As far as I know, this is not a common term outside the manosphere.

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(11-25-2013 05:01 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  The dude's marriage was over before it started.

Man: "Honey how about a blowjob?"

Wife: "No sweetie, I'm not a slut, I don't do that"

Man: "Please baby? I heard it feels great"

Wife: "No! It's not happening"

Man: "Ok honey, I didn't mean to make u upset. I love you and I apologize for asking for a blowjob"

He lost FRAME from day fucking one.

A wife's willingness to submit is the foundation of a solid happy marriage. If she will not, then it's only a matter of time before it ends on her account.

Period. Fucking Period.

I think the story is most likely fake, I don't fuck with reddit and probably wouldn't even know what it is if I wasn't on RVF. That said McQueen spit some hot fire, and therefore gets my props.