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The 35 year old virgin
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Quote:At 35, I still want to save sex for someone who is mutually in love with me and who accepts my virginity as a gift. After so many years of holding out, I can’t change now. I just hope my hopes don’t go stale before he shows up or, perhaps more important, before I recognize that he's been hanging around, waiting, the whole time.

The hamster wheel has so much momentum she wants it to keep going. My guess is that she held out for her dream man but she's not hot enough to get it.

Google says this is her:

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She looks old for 35. The thing is, some guy with a job has to be lonely and would love her. She probably thinks he's not good enough for her though.

She needs to find a guy with the same surname with the first name Phil.
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It's scary to think that I'm older than this grenade. If she is telling the truth about her virginity, which is a big if, the overwhelming odds are that she is a lesbian living in major denial.
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Some people just have a very low sex drive

But the world needs spinsters too Cat lady

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11-17-2013 10:46 PM
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RE: The 35 year old virgin
I respect her decision. Her body, Her buisness. If she wants to be in a good relationship with someone, then hey, let her.

We need to remember that women are human beings too, despite all the rabble that we preach on the sphere.

I wish well for her and hope she finds someone.
11-17-2013 11:52 PM
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(11-17-2013 11:52 PM)Agent 47 Wrote:  I respect her decision. Her body, Her buisness. If she wants to be in a good relationship with someone, then hey, let her.

We need to remember that women are human beings too, despite all the rabble that we preach on the sphere.

I wish well for her and hope she finds someone.

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Quote:I like being naked with boyfriends. I’ve happily taken on a dominatrix role and men have enjoyed it. I once answered a booty call from an Ironman world champion at his hotel room (purposefully leaving the door cracked in case I needed to yell for help). When the champion informed me that I had not “finished the job,” I told him that, considering his world title, he could finish the job himself. I left feeling empowered.

That's all you need to know right there.

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Ok, my bad. Should have read the article. Don't take things at face value with women.

LULZ...
11-18-2013 12:13 AM
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(11-18-2013 12:06 AM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  
Quote:I like being naked with boyfriends. I’ve happily taken on a dominatrix role and men have enjoyed it. I once answered a booty call from an Ironman world champion at his hotel room (purposefully leaving the door cracked in case I needed to yell for help). When the champion informed me that I had not “finished the job,” I told him that, considering his world title, he could finish the job himself. I left feeling empowered.

That's all you need to know right there.

I know this chick is post-wall, but I'm starting to notice more and more younger chicks saying stuff like this.

What the hell is causing them to be so paranoid and fearful of men?

Girls go out these days expecting to be raped at any moment. Going to Whole Foods at noon? I better be extra vigilant in case that creepy guy who asked me if the 3 bean salad was gluten free or not tries to talk to me again.

"OMG i was on the bus last week and toooootallly got groped. I mean it was rush hour and I backed my ass into this guys hand by accident because it was so packed... but omg I thought I was gonna get raped"
11-18-2013 12:15 AM
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(11-18-2013 12:13 AM)Agent 47 Wrote:  Don't take things at face value with women.

LULZ...
Best sentence of the day! Totally true. Women are rather devious, scheming, by nature. Actually, I don't even blame them. It is their nature, and won't stop me from loving (most of) them.
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RE: The 35 year old virgin
(11-18-2013 12:15 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  
(11-18-2013 12:06 AM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  
Quote:I like being naked with boyfriends. I’ve happily taken on a dominatrix role and men have enjoyed it. I once answered a booty call from an Ironman world champion at his hotel room (purposefully leaving the door cracked in case I needed to yell for help). When the champion informed me that I had not “finished the job,” I told him that, considering his world title, he could finish the job himself. I left feeling empowered.

That's all you need to know right there.

I know this chick is post-wall, but I'm starting to notice more and more younger chicks saying stuff like this.

What the hell is causing them to be so paranoid and fearful of men?

Girls go out these days expecting to be raped at any moment. Going to Whole Foods at noon? I better be extra vigilant in case that creepy guy who asked me if the 3 bean salad was gluten free or not tries to talk to me again.

"OMG i was on the bus last week and toooootallly got groped. I mean it was rush hour and I backed my ass into this guys hand by accident because it was so packed... but omg I thought I was gonna get raped"

The less problems they have in life the more they feel the need to invent them.

People with lots of problems seem to be entitled to complain about them all the time. People who complain get attention. And by now, you all know where this ship is sailing...
11-18-2013 02:14 AM
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Just goes to show that it is the woman's hamster that is truly dangerous/repulsive, not her number of partners. While a high number often implicates her to have a huge hamster as well, it is just an indicator for what truly matters - the cold, robotic, unempathic mindset of a feminist angry at the whole world and going on her own personal power trip.

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11-18-2013 03:19 AM
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(11-18-2013 12:15 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  
(11-18-2013 12:06 AM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  
Quote:I like being naked with boyfriends. I’ve happily taken on a dominatrix role and men have enjoyed it. I once answered a booty call from an Ironman world champion at his hotel room (purposefully leaving the door cracked in case I needed to yell for help). When the champion informed me that I had not “finished the job,” I told him that, considering his world title, he could finish the job himself. I left feeling empowered.

That's all you need to know right there.

I know this chick is post-wall, but I'm starting to notice more and more younger chicks saying stuff like this.

What the hell is causing them to be so paranoid and fearful of men?

Girls go out these days expecting to be raped at any moment. Going to Whole Foods at noon? I better be extra vigilant in case that creepy guy who asked me if the 3 bean salad was gluten free or not tries to talk to me again.

"OMG i was on the bus last week and toooootallly got groped. I mean it was rush hour and I backed my ass into this guys hand by accident because it was so packed... but omg I thought I was gonna get raped"

Only because the majority of men are betas.

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So at what point does virginity become a liability? I'd argue somewhere between 24-26 depending on the girl and her situation.
11-19-2013 12:26 AM
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Yeah, from a practical standpoint, definitely not a good thing by that point, whether you want to pump and dump or ltr. A chick who's a virgin in her 30s (in modern western culture) will be a gnarled mess of mental issues that no man should insert himself into.
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(11-18-2013 07:01 PM)Kingsley Davis Wrote:  
(11-18-2013 12:15 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  
(11-18-2013 12:06 AM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  
Quote:I like being naked with boyfriends. I’ve happily taken on a dominatrix role and men have enjoyed it. I once answered a booty call from an Ironman world champion at his hotel room (purposefully leaving the door cracked in case I needed to yell for help). When the champion informed me that I had not “finished the job,” I told him that, considering his world title, he could finish the job himself. I left feeling empowered.

That's all you need to know right there.

I know this chick is post-wall, but I'm starting to notice more and more younger chicks saying stuff like this.

What the hell is causing them to be so paranoid and fearful of men?

Girls go out these days expecting to be raped at any moment. Going to Whole Foods at noon? I better be extra vigilant in case that creepy guy who asked me if the 3 bean salad was gluten free or not tries to talk to me again.

"OMG i was on the bus last week and toooootallly got groped. I mean it was rush hour and I backed my ass into this guys hand by accident because it was so packed... but omg I thought I was gonna get raped"

Only because the majority of men are betas.

Man-hating lesbian who doesn't want to admit she's a lesbian. That's what I get.

Once again, I'm dumbfounded by the crap the New York Times publishes.
02-11-2014 03:40 PM
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If you were a virgin long enough for your hymen to dissolve on it's own instead of being fucked through, you blew it.

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02-11-2014 03:42 PM
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(11-17-2013 10:30 PM)JimNortonFan Wrote:  
Quote:At 35, I still want to save sex for someone who is mutually in love with me and who accepts my virginity as a gift. After so many years of holding out, I can’t change now. I just hope my hopes don’t go stale before he shows up or, perhaps more important, before I recognize that he's been hanging around, waiting, the whole time.
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I love the "waiting for the right one" rationalization.

The understanding that people are rarely so unique that you could spend your whole life waiting to meet someone like them is central to red-pill thinking.

Of course, it is possible that if you sit at home every day and the only people you associate with are some fatties at the office, you might only even run into the tinniest segment of society.

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Like those avacados I was saving in my pantry, someone should have eaten when it was ripe. Now, it's only a sloppy mess of taco paste.

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I've been with a couple of chicks in their late 20s that were supposedly virgins and waiting for marriage. One was from a couple of years ago and I was dumb enough to stick around for 7 months with her because she gave the occasional blowjob and was very cool otherwise. I did tell her several times while we dated that she would never get a ring out of me without sex. I ran across another religious zealot last summer that lasted a few dates but then I gave her the boot. It was a shame because she had a great body. Both of those chicks are still single and holding out for "God's choice" man for them.

Props to all of you guys that want virgins but my ideal chick is in the 3-9 partner range. 97% of chicks over 25 that are virgins are not chicks you want to deal with on a long term basis.
02-11-2014 07:35 PM
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"...However, I was willing to give up a certain sense of pleasure to avoid feelings I feared: betrayal, emptiness, the loss of dignity and control. I was inspired by the Greek women led by Lysistrata, in the ancient play, who refused sex until the men of the city promised to end the Peloponnesian War. I was trying to avoid an emotional battle."

This is telling. This broad is an emotional/mental mess. She may be one of those that got diddled by an uncle when she was a girl, and can't get past it. If she doesn't give it up, she can't feel vulnerable ever again.

It's usually the religious types that hold on to the cookie like it's the ultimate gift to a man, but as we've noted time and time again, even the most busted, sloppy chicks get occasional dick if they get out there and try. If this one hasn't found a guy at this point, she simply isn't trying. Or she's shooting WAY above station. She could be a latent lesbo who avoids men, but is afraid to make that leap and try women. Either way, she's trapped in a self-imposed limbo.

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02-11-2014 08:27 PM
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(02-11-2014 08:27 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  It's usually the religious types that hold on to the cookie like it's the ultimate gift to a man, but as we've noted time and time again, even the most busted, sloppy chicks get occasional dick if they get out there and try. If this one hasn't found a guy at this point, she simply isn't trying. Or she's shooting WAY above station. She could be a latent lesbo who avoids men, but is afraid to make that leap and try women. Either way, she's trapped in a self-imposed limbo.

For women in religious communities, holding out until marriage is a good game plan -- if you have the personality and looks to match your "self-control."

I do, however, quite a few female virgins who will die that way, because they have a middling appearance and only ever stay at home with their eyesore roommates and cats/rats/etc.

If they were 8's, they'd have "nice Christian guys" who were ready to settle down beating a path to their doors. They wouldn't have to even try.

But if you are a 6 and don't make any effort, while maintaining some "standards", you will die alone.

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02-11-2014 08:34 PM
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She says she flew to chicago so an ex-boyfriend painter could paint her nude. Looking at her pic I don't know why a guy would really want to see her naked let alone do a nude painting of her.
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Articles like this prove that feminist thinking has taken over our culture by the mere fact it was published in the first place.

A few days ago there was an article posted here from a magazine written by a fat ugly old woman who claims to have banged many 'hot' guys all over the world before settling for her current husband (and therefore humiliating him by publicly admitting this). Then that article "I refuse to grow up" written by a bitter 45 year old.

Point is…no one cares about a bunch of over the hill, ugly women's sex lives (or lack thereof). We get it, you're all bitter. Now go away.

Of course, when that hot woman posted that 'no excuses' photo because she was in good shape despite having kids, the collective fatosphere of feminists went nuts. It's like they want to make it a crime for women to be attractive, again further proving the theory they just want to bring everyone down to their level of unattractiveness to make themselves look better.
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