Post: #51

Quote:I tried that. If you have been beta for long(like I was, over 1 year) than you try to change your attitude(more aloof, more confident, calling on her bullshit) she will either dump you, cheat or pick up fights because something happened with you.

Did you really try to set a precedent that you no longer accept her shit? Gradually transforming is one thing, to really show that you no longer accept the shit that you might have accepted previously is another thing.

Post: #52

Being a deaf dude myself, I really like these inspiring stories. Thumbs up.

Post: #53

The beauty of ru2486's story and his development is that it really points out how important improving your self-esteem is. It's nearly entirely in your head.

There are many guys who's self-esteem is far lower than their actual looks or their potential and thus keep themselves down and unsuccessful. I was this way when younger when it came to women. It's been an enlightening experience to learn how women work and ru2486, you're an inspiration. Thanks for the update.