Post: #1

Hi.
Last months, I have been making strong progress on the dancefloor. I got the rythm, some good moves, and I can do partner dancing, whereas I couldn't before.

But my makeout/pull ratio is still awful!

Usually I go on the floor, I smile, bust out my moves, and I can see from the coin of my eyes women checking me out. However, when I "happen to be dancing near them" I look at them, have a little smile, put my hand out for them to take it, and they say no...The same women who were checking me out.
I will precise that usually the floor is packed, and there are a lot of chodes...However I see all the time tall men, not even always good-looking, getting approached and grinded on...
I do not want to be a height troll, so I don't put all my rant on the height (because obviously I cannot increase my 5'11" )
Even sometimes when I dance with the girls, I can do the right moves (most of the time), but they will leave after less than 1 mn... My results are too sinusoidal. At (rare) times I can approach succesfully almost any girl, and at least get long dances, even if I don't makeout.

Last night was Halloween, the bars and clubs were packed with so many people wanting to get laid, yet I was so frustrated... I BELIEVE game trumps everything, but these nights make me depressed... Seeing so many good-looking and/tall men getting approached.
Even when they did not have these characteristics, seeing people only intracting within their own group, and all the chodes blocking people to have access to the group, whereas never approaching, was a disgusting thing to watch.

Why do I don't look desirable on the dancefloor? Whereas I was among the best dancers in the club? (pretty tiny number of good dancers too)

Post: #2

Are u in france or the states? Are we talking about dancing to hiphop or something else?

Post: #3

France.
The music in the club is mostly electro, + some top40 songs( from now, and the past 2 years). Like Macklemore, Rihanna, DJ Antoine, Don Omar, Major Lazer etc
The hookup culture is different than in the States I think, where ONS are more acceptable and common. Here in Grenoble especially, it's social circle mostly. People go out in group and go back in group ( I think I almost never saw anyone going at home with someone he/she did not know beforehand).
My social circle is not really huge, and I am not a fan of long discussions in a bar... This is the very reason I mostly only go to the club, and forget the bars, because everyone and their mother is within their group, and I don't see the point in taking a flaky number ( happened too often). I focus on escalating via dance, but yesterday it was to no avail.