Post: #26

(11-09-2013 10:48 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  Yoga chick is important data point I missed... they are into subtle emotional stuff or they'd be in a spin class. I hate to use feminist jargon, but there is sometimes an "objectifying" thing happening. Do you even LIKE her? Do you know her well enough to like her?

I'm not asking rhetorically, when a girl is that hot that you just want to fuck her just because her body is unreal, your emotions might in a way shut off... overload. Plus, really hot chicks have to work less on their personality so they often aren't as likable.
It's not too hard to find something to like in someone, even hot spoiled chicks have some good side.

I spent about 6 hours in total with her before we got to bed that night. I know that isn't a lot of time, but I have been on dates with reaching nearly 100 different girls I'd say. I feel like I have enough experience that I can read girls' personalities pretty fast. She was just quiet, and cool... never said anything annoying, super feminine, smart, cute little blonde.

I wouldn't classify her as super hot, just a super cute a 7, but my kind of 7. Her body and hair (sounds like a small detail, but she had the hottest flowing natural blonde hair I have ever seen, the type that screams fertility).

I am sure I pedestalized her from when I got the number until the blow out. If a girl puts her first and last name in my phone, I tend to take 5 minutes to check out any of her social media so I know more about what I will be dealing with. I had hers and looked at a lot of her stuff which I usually do not do, I just skim. Bad Move.

Even worse the more I think, I usually tease the hell out of girls and make everything into one big joke or game in conversations. With this girl I actually asked her more questions and listened more seriously because she was so feminine and sweet. She played female game on me and it worked, broke down my offense.

Lesson to other newbies... do NOT treat her as even the slightest bit special because she is a hot or sweet, it will affect your subliminal game at the very least! Pussy gone to waste!