Post: #26

Guarantee she shows signs on Tuths slut checklist.

Post: #27

SamSamSam, do not let her move in at all. I'd shy away from the trial run as well, implying that she has a chance to live with you. Make her find a job before moving out to the area. That way, she will have the financial foundation where she can afford to live in her own place. Then, you can have her come over and chill without the worry of her staying for the long term.

Think about it this way...it sometimes takes people months to find employment. If she moved in with you, do you really trust that she will be actively searching for work after she knows she has a place to stay?

Also, you obviously value your alone time. Will you be able to carry on with those same activities with another person, let alone a woman, in the house?

Seems like you are taking all the risk and reaping no reward.

Post: #28

I think Menace put it pretty well when he highlighted the fact that if you had 3 others on the go in the LA area you wouldn't be giving this girl too much attention and/or even entertaining the idea of having her come out and live with you (even for a short while). Sure seems like a lot of work and effort so far up to this point, and now you're investing even more time and money potentially.

RE you 'not considering her coming to LA until you have sex' I am just wondering, well, how will that work logistically? Seems like inevitably you're going to likely need to have her shack up with you for a few days for that to happen (if in LA). Or are you thinking you can get the [email protected] when you go back and visit her? (and if it's the latter, is it really worth all the time, money and effort to go visit her again if you're not at least 90% guaranteed to get the [email protected]?)

Wouldn't a weekend of intensive daygame/nightgame in LA (preferably with McQueen!! ) be more productive?. Just wondering and think the question(s) needs to be asked. Thx.

Lot of posters here making a lot of sense and as Fisto said you need to be worrying about YOU first at this point. If she wants to fly out to LA on her own dime and stay with you ok maybe but wouldn't go any further than something like that. IMO you just seem a bit too invested now esp. given you haven't even banged her yet.

Post: #29

I feel your pain, you might be looking for ways to look at her with the eyes of some potential. I would suggest to you that you find at least 2 more girls to date and have sex with before making any decision. I know for work you are on this small town and it sucks when you have few options available, so she now looks like a good option. Just keep her while in town and when you come back to LA and have more options you will see things more clear.

Don't jump into any other commitment, in my industry we say what happens in the field stays in the field....

One last thing...don't leave town without fucking her so you get it out of your system..enjoy

Post: #30

Here's what I would do

Tell her of course she can come stay with you for as long as she wants and you'll help her out anyway you can. Make detailed plans

Isolate her, aggressively escalate and try bang her. If she resists make it clear implicitly (not explicitly) that her staying with you is contingent on her giving up the pussy whenever you want it and however you want it until you leave town

Bang her out as often as possible

Leave for LA and gradually cut off all contact

Chase all that SoCal pussy and forget about her