Post: #51

(10-26-2013 12:50 PM)gandt Wrote:  

(10-26-2013 12:19 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  I run pseudo-fame game, and cash in on it. Perception is reality and girls are shallow. Fame>money>game

Can you explain how you do this?

I dress and act like a rockstar. The TSA asks if I'm famous in the airport. I wear nothing more than Levi's, Nasons, cheap bling, Express blazer, and aviators for effect. My attitude in a bar is, "I'm better dressed, better looking, and can kick the shit out of anyone in here". I step right up to the bar like I own it, and girls take notice. I get my share of orbiters too, unfortunately.

I walk striking my heels heavy which commands respect upon entering a place. In the airport I take my time going through security and put them on my schedule. "Time reframing". Same with bartenders. It's not just one thing, but a compilation. Confidence, style, money, attitude, positive demeanor, ect. This is next level stuff, and I can't maintain it everyday. It requires high levels of energy to get into the zone, which is why I like to build a harem and take a break.

It feels really fucking good sometimes to meet a regular for dinner wearing a tshirt and flip flops.

Post: #52

(10-26-2013 09:42 AM)horn Wrote:  1) Mood is key
2) Be the best dressed guy they see all day weekend week month

It's only a numbers game for some of us. shotgun approach vs Rifle-shot. I have a terrible rate with shotgun approach in NYC or LV and an awesome one with rifle-shot. JMHO.

Now, that could be because I've subconsciously pre-screened them into the 'open' v 'closed' ones just based on experience. But I'll talk to anyone.

you don't know if she has a bf. you don't know anything about her. unless you screen super hard and approach less.

but approaching more, while it comes with more rejection and more uncertainty, will get you more lays than focusing only on gimmes.

Post: #53

(10-25-2013 04:08 PM)Altair Wrote:  I'd love to live where he lives if it means getting in a volume of 50 approaches per week solely on 9s and 10s.

I live in San Francisco.

If you want a steady stream of 8s and 9s, my advice is this.. Go to a big city and find the biggest university. You will be surrounded by 8s.

Then, find the second biggest university in that city. And, the third.

Rotate between these 3 schools and you will literally have thousands of girls to approach.

Every year, thousands of seniors graduate and they are replaced by thousands of new 18 year old freshman!

(10-25-2013 04:16 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  Late 30s. Gio, I am curious how much longer you can do university game.

I will go as long as I can. As long as I'm still getting results.

The key for me is Anti-Aging. As long as I can pass for 30, 31, 32, or even 35, I think I will be okay.

We all know that younger girls are down to bang older men. As I get closer to 40, I have had to adjust my wardrobe and presentation so that I can present myself as graduate student or young professor.

I'm still getting results so I have no plans to stop.

Honestly, I think I will be ok until the age of 45 or so. When I am 45, I will probably look like I am 37 or 38, hopefully younger. At that point, I will have to screen for girls with an older man fetish. There are many of them out there.

When I can no longer pull from a college campus, I'm not sure what I will do???

Maybe..

"Seeking Arrangement" Game
"Craigslist" Game
Move to SEA or EE

I know I have a few good years left and I want to maximize them.

When my youth is gone, I will adjust my strategy.

(10-25-2013 04:24 PM)XYZ Wrote:  doing night game in a bar vs sober day game on the street is apples to oranges.

Yes. I am 100% on the street. (colleges, malls, stores, etc.)

I don't go to bars or clubs.

I don't really feel a need to "screen". If I like a girl, I approach her. Why wouldn't I?

Because I am assuming that she won't like me???

Because I'm afraid that I will see her again???

None of that matters to me.

If she doesn't like me, she can tell me herself, I won't decide for her.

I probably will not see her again since I operate in a large metropolitan area, but, even if I do, so what? I'm not embarrassed about the fact that I approached her. I respect myself for doing it and I think often times they respect me also, even if they don't want to fuck me, they gotta respect my masculinity of going after what I want.

Bars and clubs are different.. Girls are with their friends, there is a limited amount of girls, girls will see you talking to other girls, you will see the same girls all night, you will see the bartenders and bouncers again, you only have a few hours to game, etc. Maybe "screening" is more important in this environment? I don't know but I imagine that it is..

For me, "screening" means that you are choosing to NOT approach certain girls. I don't look for reasons to NOT approach. I look for reasons TO approach.

If she makes my dick hard, I'm approaching her. That's it.

If she doesn't make my dick hard then I will not even notice her and I won't have to screen her out because she never enters my mind. I know I am surrounded by fat chicks and ugly chicks but I have trained myself to not notice them.

I focus on beauty and when I see it, I go after it. That's all I know..

Post: #54

there are two reasons to screen.

1. to not waste your time
2. to preserve your ego from rejection

to me the second one is stupid. grow some balls and dont worry about "rejection" from some random girl

the first one is a legitimate reason. at a bar you dont want to waste an hour or two talking to an attention whore

on the street, you know very quickly if a girl is down and the rejection/close happens fast. theres less risk that you will waste your time by not screening. which is good since screening is not possible in most situations

Post: #55

(10-26-2013 03:16 PM)XYZ Wrote:  there are two reasons to screen.

1. to not waste your time
2. to preserve your ego from rejection

I like how you explained this..

I will add to your comments:

1) On the street, if a girl doesn't want me, she will usually tell me right away. No time wasted. (You basically said this)

2) Rejection strengthens my ego. Yes, you read that right -- REJECTION STRENGTHENS MY EGO!

The more I get rejected, the more I realize that rejection means nothing and there is no reason to fear it. The more I get rejected, the more I learn about myself and the way I am being perceived.

I am thankful for rejection. Rejection taught me everything I know.

Fear of rejection is fear of an imaginary future event. Fear of a damaged ego is fear of damaging an imaginary concept. Fear exists only in your imagination.

Fearing how girls will react to us is the Male Hamster



Fuck their reaction! The power of our presentation is all that matters! If you continue to grow and cultivate your power, you will eventually find success.

Post: #56

The stupid thing people don't get about rejection (especially in night clubs) is most likely you will NEVER SEE THAT person again, which makes it always the more stupid to be fearful of rejection.

Post: #57

(10-26-2013 03:52 PM)MisterSSW4 Wrote:  The stupid thing people don't get about rejection (especially in night clubs) is most likely you will NEVER SEE THAT person again, which makes it always the more stupid to be fearful of rejection.

The problem with small town American is you will see her again. And probably again and again. Small town mentality and boyfrienditis makes it harder. I mean like blowing her out then seeing the same girl working the tag office counter the next Monday morning. Awkward.

Big numbers won't work here and you have to play low and slow game.

Post: #58

(10-26-2013 04:07 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(10-26-2013 03:52 PM)MisterSSW4 Wrote:  The stupid thing people don't get about rejection (especially in night clubs) is most likely you will NEVER SEE THAT person again, which makes it always the more stupid to be fearful of rejection.

The problem with small town American is you will see her again. And probably again and again. Small town mentality and boyfrienditis makes it harder. I mean like blowing her out then seeing the same girl working the tag office counter the next Monday morning. Awkward.

Big numbers won't work here and you have to play low and slow game.

Plus men in small towns in the south and midwest actually fight.

You fuck over the wrong girl and you might have a baseball bat go to your head, as happened to one of my good friends.

Your ex-girl gets with a new guy and starts doing what women do - making up abuse stories, etc., and you'll see that guy and shit can get dirty quick.

Post: #59

Dudes get killed down here over pussy. Usually turns into a family feud. There's several bars in town I won't go in because the threat of getting ganged up on or shot it real. Not in the parking lot, but they'll follow, and all that isn't worth some average bar ho. White knighting is tradition down here, and half the guys in the shit bars come in tweaked on pills and booze. Not a good combination.

I used to think big city game>small town game, but you sharpen skills here faster due to:

bad ratios
difficult social proofing
gossip
white knighting
lack of venues
lack of quality
beta orbiters
boyfrienditis
EVERY FUCKING GIRL THAT PUTS OUT HAS AN OFFSPRING

Post: #60

(10-26-2013 04:28 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  Dudes get killed down here over pussy. Usually turns into a family feud. There's several bars in town I won't go in because the threat of getting ganged up on or shot it real. Not in the parking lot, but they'll follow, and all that isn't worth some average bar ho. White knighting is tradition down here, and half the guys in the shit bars come in tweaked on pills and booze. Not a good combination.

I used to think big city game>small town game, but you sharpen skills here faster due to:

bad ratios
difficult social proofing
gossip
white knighting
lack of venues
lack of quality
beta orbiters
boyfrienditis
EVERY FUCKING GIRL THAT PUTS OUT HAS AN OFFSPRING

Bet you it's apples and oranges.

Post: #61

(10-26-2013 12:19 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  I run pseudo-fame game, and cash in on it. Perception is reality and girls are shallow. Fame>money>game

Perception is reality. Has nothing to do with girls though. I was dressing 'rich' when I was broke and 23. It makes a difference.

Post: #62

(10-26-2013 01:35 PM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

(10-26-2013 09:42 AM)horn Wrote:  1) Mood is key
2) Be the best dressed guy they see all day weekend week month

It's only a numbers game for some of us. shotgun approach vs Rifle-shot. I have a terrible rate with shotgun approach in NYC or LV and an awesome one with rifle-shot. JMHO.

Now, that could be because I've subconsciously pre-screened them into the 'open' v 'closed' ones just based on experience. But I'll talk to anyone.

you don't know if she has a bf. you don't know anything about her. unless you screen super hard and approach less.

but approaching more, while it comes with more rejection and more uncertainty, will get you more lays than focusing only on gimmes.

You have completely misunderstood what I wrote. Who cares if she has a bf, are you sure you're on the right site?

As I said, I will talk to anyone, but I don't waste my time talking to everyone.

Post: #63

Im a huge proponent of numbers game but you have to live in a big city to approach 50 girls a week. It also takes a lot of time and energy, at this rate its pretty much like a part-time job.

Post: #64

(10-26-2013 03:16 PM)XYZ Wrote:  there are two reasons to screen.

1. to not waste your time
2. to preserve your ego from rejection

to me the second one is stupid. grow some balls and dont worry about "rejection" from some random girl

the first one is a legitimate reason. at a bar you dont want to waste an hour or two talking to an attention whore

on the street, you know very quickly if a girl is down and the rejection/close happens fast. theres less risk that you will waste your time by not screening. which is good since screening is not possible in most situations

Bingo. The super-hot girl out with 3 uggo friends and 4 white knight orbiters at a bar/club is going to be a giant waste of time 99% of the time.

As my time is THE most valuable resource, I will choose another hot girl to go after. If you are not pre-selecting your initial target you are simply wasting time. I mean, if the hottest girl is wearing a wedding ring, do you really want to spend an hour on her? No.

Street is different. Well said.

Post: #65

Why is the street different? You can still see if a girl is wearing a wedding ring on the street. You can tell a lot about a girl by how she's dressed and how she carries herself. Even the location can tell you about someone. I simply don't have the time and energy to approach 50 girls in a week. I will usually approach one to two girls every time I go out in the daytime. Since my time is limited I have to screen for targets that have a high probability of working out. Now when I go out at night I am less selective because I have more time.