Post: #1

Heartiste once wrote a post on how to eliminate approach anxiety & do away with pedestilization. You had to not appreciate a women's looks, but just think of women as a hole. He added to this idea with a picture of a wet vagina, filmed from the inside. It was indeed not pretty, and I bet it helped some to de-pedestal women.

But this also didn't really convince me as the best method out there. At least, not the only one. It didn't seem workable, especially if you want to approach a real hot one.

However, I also thought of another way to de-pedestal & decrease approach anxiety. Women in the developed world use all sorts of superstimuli to add to their looks (fashionable clothes, makeup, nails, heels, hair dye, haircuts, lipstick, thongs, lingerie, fitness, etc., etc.) If you'd try to visualize all these things away, which is quite doable, your target probably drops on the looks scale. Way, way down. (If not, you've got a keeper, btw.)

It's quite striking if you compare women in, say, Africa with women in the West. African women, for lack of money, can't compensate all their weaknesses away. They look as they are. That sure made me think.

Anyway, I hope some of you could be helped by this mental exercise.

Cheers.

Post: #2

any girl is about as terrible to deal with on a psychological level as any of the girls I have to this point, so by that alone, if not for some testosterone running in me clouding judgement I'd remember that it will always end like this