Post: #1

I am constantly surprised how I can learn something then simply forget it after awhile. As much as you may think you know something unless you are using it on a regular basis you will eventually forget it. I am seeing this American girl and she's giving me the usually amount of crap I would expect from a girl of her looks and I was just putting up with it. Sure, my Game, frame, etc. kept her in check but that's pretty much all it did. Then one day while we were having sex, I am not sure what got into me, I started to become pretty physical with her. I was picking her up and moving her around and I just sort of went Caveman on her. After, I was literally worn out from the physical work. She didn't say anything about it and I didn't think much about it but then I started noticing something...

She had become much nicer after, much more compliant, I wasn't get nearly as much shit anymore. At first I was suspicious, then I thought maybe she wanted something, she even looked at me differently. It was like I had attained a new level of respect. It took me a little while to realize it but that was exactly what had happened. And the only reason it had happened was because I had completely dominated her that time in bed. In that session, I clearly established who was in charge without intentionally meaning to and by doing that it changed the nature of our relationship. The typical flaky, flighty, rebellious American girl had become a purring pussy cat around me. I was amazed at the change.

Even though I know I have to establish sexual dominance and do it in such a way that leaves no doubt, I had gotten lazy, or I forgot, or just started buying into the BS I hear all the time around me, it doesn't matter the reason. But this was a wake up call, a reminder. There is no question that it takes a lot of physical energy, mental focus, and courage to go Caveman. But no amount of Game will ever tame a woman like some dominating Caveman sex. And the sooner you deliver it, the sooner the shit you have to deal with will cease. But I also know, I will have to deliver it on a regular basis. One time will only go so far...

Game may get you into the bed but once you are there you will have to pull some Caveman sex out of your bag of tricks to commandeer her respect and submission. And once you have that, you will have a half decent American girl that you actually enjoy being around.

Post: #2

Amen

Post: #3

Rough in bed, soft in head.

(Dominate in her in the bed, and she'll be of pleasant mind and countenance in your presence)

Post: #4

Truth.

+1

Post: #5

Absolutely. Making a good first impression isn't enough, you need to be good on the back end and dominate her physically to keep things good.

Post: #6

Thanks, actually that last longer than I thought. That girl is still behaving herself. The only problem is that she sort of expects sex to be that way all the time now and frankly I just don't have the energy to do that...

Post: #7

(10-07-2013 12:40 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  Thanks, actually that last longer than I thought. That girl is still behaving herself. The only problem is that she sort of expects sex to be that way all the time now and frankly I just don't have the energy to do that...

+1 I've been there, giving good sex to a woman is hard work!

Post: #8

Everything about American women is hard work! Just listening to them is hard work!

Post: #9

(10-07-2013 06:25 PM)CJ_W Wrote:  

(10-07-2013 12:40 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  Thanks, actually that last longer than I thought. That girl is still behaving herself. The only problem is that she sort of expects sex to be that way all the time now and frankly I just don't have the energy to do that...

+1 I've been there, giving good sex to a woman is hard work!

Ain't that the truth, man. Like with many things it can be hard to convince a woman that things she thinks are effortless (like making money or making her cum) are actually really fucking difficult and take a lot of practice and energy.

Post: #10

Good post! I had a similar experience with an American girl that just turned into the most feminine and sweetest girl for me after being full of attitude for some time. I wasn't sure what to attribute it to but rougher sex and she seeing me with another girl might have contributed...don't give up on the girls at home

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