Post: #1

First off, this post is mostly self-congratulatory. But I wouldn't share this with my real life homies, as most are 1-girl guys. And hopefully, it will give our newbies some inspiration and motivation.

Growth is never linear. At 24, I was headed off to law school in a new city without having had sex in essentially 2 years. Hookups yes, penetration no.

The first girl I met before I even moved all my stuff in my tiny dorm room, was my neighbor and fellow student. We made out that night, I fucked her in 48 hours of meeting, and fucked her pretty much every day for the remainder of the year. My first serious LTR.

When we broke up because she left for 3 months in europe, and i knew what that meant... i was a mess, and all the work i had done mentally during my dry spell to 'fake it till i make it' was completely demolished. she was my 3rd notch, so i had no real game yet, and my self created game was destroyed.

my fourth notch came 2 months later, and was a large black girl, probably a 4. my ex-gf was a high 7/low 8 when done up.

this summer, for the 2.5 months after we broke up, i returned to my roots. i trained literally every day, gained 20 lbs, (6'1" 185 now) bought new stylish clothes, cried about what a loser i was, and didn't even try to hit on girls. essentially i faced my reality, but worked hard so that in the near future, it wouldn't be so anymore.

now 4 months after my break up, i have returned to the same level of quality, but in red pill fashion, for the first time in my life.

i have 7 notches total, but 4 are in the last month. 2 are below average, but 2 are 8's.

this past week, i had a girl fly up on her own to visit me for the weekend. great face, amazing body, feminine and submissive. the night before, i fucked a hot 23 yr old asian who invited me over after meeting her on okcupid. meanwhile, on my txt game, i was working on a girl i met at the bar the previous weekend who is GF material, one of the few i've met in a long time. we'll see how that goes, but judging by the small harem i'm developing, i'm not too worried.

anyways, that's my brag, but its also something i think this community is built for, and meant for. i know without this, i probably wouldn't have the ability and mentality to live the past month as i have. a movie for most guys. and the best part is... i'm 25 and just getting started.

thanks to everyone on this forum. lets keep this going

Post: #2

Having great game doesn't happen overnight, as a lot of 'gurus' will preach. Congrats on your success and keep pushing.

The moment you think you have it all figured out with women, you'll get blindsided.

Post: #3

Congratulations on getting things together. I needed to read this; thanks for sharing. I'm on a two year dry spell like you were and just now learning how things actually work; this was what I needed to hear.

Post: #4

Stopped reading at "7 notches."

How does this qualify you to be giving advice?

Post: #5

(09-11-2013 11:24 PM)Floss Wrote:  Stopped reading at "7 notches."

How does this qualify you to be giving advice?

There will always be ones lower than you on the spectrum of game. A guy going for his first 6 or 7 and maybe first or second notch of his life may see tons of inspiration from this.

Often times taking some advice from someone that is only a little further ahead can having more meaning than coming from a master.