Post: #1

Hey guys, I have a question about my game. I'm pretty confident when I go out and not afraid of approach. My notch count is pretty good with an overall average around 7.5/8s. When I'm with friends they joke that I'm a manwhore/player, which I totally run with. But when girls are around, they either despise me or really dig it. The bar I typically go to the guys love hearing the stories and some girls like hearing it but for the most part they act disgusted by it. I've picked up random girls who get all into the guy who's cocky and some in rotation don't mind me sleeping around with others. They know that I play bedroom roulette (raw dogging) and don't mind. But have any of you tried this openness/ cocky attitude and have it work or backfire?

Post: #2

Like you said man Its hit or miss when you act over the top. The true key here is balance. Humble your self a notch and those women that despise you for being so cocky will begin to fall in your lap as well.

Post: #3

Learn to be more discreet. I never talk about being a player around women and seldom around guys-only with guys that I know well and know are players themselves. You're causing yourself more harm than good- a lot of people will resent you and do things behind your back against you such as spreading negative rumors.

Girls love a guy who is successful with women but not one who brags about it all the time. It's more convincing and intriguing if you try to hide it a bit or just show up with hot girls. Don't tell it, show it

Post: #4

Right on on I'll give that a shot! Solid advice! Thanks

Post: #5

(08-08-2013 07:18 PM)MGTOW MATT Wrote:  Hey guys, I have a question about my game. I'm pretty confident when I go out and not afraid of approach. My notch count is pretty good with an overall average around 7.5/8s. When I'm with friends they joke that I'm a manwhore/player, which I totally run with. But when girls are around, they either despise me or really dig it. The bar I typically go to the guys love hearing the stories and some girls like hearing it but for the most part they act disgusted by it. I've picked up random girls who get all into the guy who's cocky and some in rotation don't mind me sleeping around with others. They know that I play bedroom roulette (raw dogging) and don't mind. But have any of you tried this openness/ cocky attitude and have it work or backfire?

Basically you're slut screening.

Keep running your mouth and you'll scare away some chicks, but the chicks that remain will be down to fuck.

Stifle your shit, and you might get more lays, cause you're not scaring the cat - but the chicks that are left you may have to game more relative to the chicks who were DTF.

Keep in mind, if you're an over-sharer, you might not be able to be discrete.

Personally, I don't drop details about exploits with my boys, much less girls.

WIA

Post: #6

(08-15-2013 09:29 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(08-08-2013 07:18 PM)MGTOW MATT Wrote:  Hey guys, I have a question about my game. I'm pretty confident when I go out and not afraid of approach. My notch count is pretty good with an overall average around 7.5/8s. When I'm with friends they joke that I'm a manwhore/player, which I totally run with. But when girls are around, they either despise me or really dig it. The bar I typically go to the guys love hearing the stories and some girls like hearing it but for the most part they act disgusted by it. I've picked up random girls who get all into the guy who's cocky and some in rotation don't mind me sleeping around with others. They know that I play bedroom roulette (raw dogging) and don't mind. But have any of you tried this openness/ cocky attitude and have it work or backfire?

Basically you're slut screening.

Keep running your mouth and you'll scare away some chicks, but the chicks that remain will be down to fuck.

Stifle your shit, and you might get more lays, cause you're not scaring the cat - but the chicks that are left you may have to game more relative to the chicks who were DTF.

Keep in mind, if you're an over-sharer, you might not be able to be discrete.

Personally, I don't drop details about exploits with my boys, much less girls.

WIA

A lot guys pretend to be super cocky to compensate for their insecurity with women. Girls can smell it and know that you aren't being congruent. What I found works is actually being self-deprecating but with a confident attitude. For example, I tell them I'm a virgin or have a small dick or work as a janitor. Most guys tend to embellish about these topics or they overemphasize them in a blatant attempt to impress a girl. Showing a girl that you don't give a fuck is real confidence. Bragging is fake confidence and approval-seeking.

Post: #7

I hate over cocky game. It's basically just acting like a retard, stepping on peoples conversations, busting up their flow and just being an all around douche. The girls that go for that shit worthless in my opinion.

Post: #8

Over-anything is a turn-off: over-cockiness, over-aggressiveness, over-aloofness. I've been guilty of them all and they've always backfired and leave me lay-less. Moderation and balance is key. In fact, it's important to show *some* vulnerability.

Post: #9

In no way do I bust up the flow of conversation or act like a retard. Generally it just kinda comes up and I roll with it. I never just walk up to people and say "hey I fucked x number of bitches!" I do play it pretty moderate but I do end up playing that card from time to time. I was curious as to how it worked for anyone else. Just learning more everyday.

Post: #10

I just feel like there's a lot of ways for that to backfire unless the people you're doing this around are successful like you are. I feel like guys will be more inclined to blow you out on purpose if they hear you bragging about your successes.

Post: #11

How do you figure? Like talk behind my back?

Post: #12

(08-15-2013 12:19 PM)iamdegaussed Wrote:  I just feel like there's a lot of ways for that to backfire unless the people you're doing this around are successful like you are. I feel like guys will be more inclined to blow you out on purpose if they hear you bragging about your successes.

That's always a threat.

Should you deny who you are because of fear of what some other guy might say or do?

WIA

Post: #13

I don't really care personally. I've had people say things to my face and behind my back and I just hold strong. When I'm asked why, "I'm a grown ass man. That's why."

As I stated before, I was curious as to others experiences in this, whether it has been successful or a failure.