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what traits would you say are most important if you're in a new city and are looking for a quick date/hook up? this is both for the guy and girl - what kind of traits must the girl have to be open to this sort of thing, and what traits must the man possess to execute it? I ask because I'm traveling soon, just around the US a few cities, and want to see how much I can learn about the process while I travel.

I'm in my mid 20s, for reference. should i aim for 21 year old girls or like, 28 year olds? which would be more likely, categorically, to be into this? my inclination is younger, but I feel like a slightly older woman would be mature enough to be like "yeah lets meet for coffee, and if we get along we can go out later/that night". i love the idea of the spontaneous coffee with a date for later that evening, so "romantic", but hard to execute. this is new turf for me, kids, so I'm interested in all the angles.

i really want to play the percentages on this one, so even if this level of nerding out isn't "good" game, it's a fun break from my routine and i just honestly want to see how it plays out. So, what are the traits? Older or Younger? Dress - casually, or traveling businessman style? Im leaning towards the suit, only because it paints a great contrast against my rather outlandish haircut.